Get Your Marriage On Blog
How Women “Kill Their Husbands Softly” (And How to Avoid it) with Ramona Zabriskie
Communication and marriage is a big deal. And many couples tell me they wish their communication was better. Many men approach intimacy in marriage differently than women do, and each person in the marriage has their own fears and insecurities as well. And in fact, I...
16 Valentine’s Mini Dates!
Valentine’s day is almost upon us! This can be a very romantic time; a time for grand gestures, expensive gifts, and romantic getaways. However, it can also be a rather stressful time. The year has just started; we are settling back into work and school and normal...
Marriage Apps Round-Up!
What if I told you there was a “marriage app” that could benefit every part of your marriage. While there may not be just one app, we have discovered tons of great apps that have helped our marriages! Here’s a list of our top “marriage apps”... Why Apps? The world has...
17 Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Men
*** 2023 Update *** Valentine’s Day gifts for men are pretty rarely advertised. Therefore, it can be hard to come up with a gift for your husband. Usually, you want to think of something sweet but not too cheesy. The best gifts come from a place of love, and you can...
15 Valentine’s Disasters
*** 2023 Update *** Valentine’s Day is SUPPOSED to be the most romantic day of the year, but what happens when your Valentine’s Day ends up being a disaster? At some point, I think we’ve all had high expectations for this day of love. Maybe you’ve planned a romantic...
Sweet & Sexy Coupon Book for Valentine’s Day
*** 2023 UPDATE *** There can be a lot of pressure on Valentine's Day to make it really special. Did you ever wish there was just a Valentine's coupon that could guarantee a sweet and sexy surprise? Well, we made one. This sweet and sexy coupon book is the perfect...
When Your Spouse Doesn’t Speak Your Love Language with Dr. Corey Allan
I've observed from my own experience and coaching other couples that we often get in our own way of having the love and passion that we could experience in our own marriages. Sometimes we're just too focused on whether or not our spouse is reciprocating the love we...
From Purity Culture to Developing One’s Eroticism with Brandi K. Harris
The older I get and more experience I gain, the more I’ve come to appreciate my eroticism as a part of me. I haven’t always been this way though. In all of its good intentions, sometimes people internalize the heart of the purity message by being void of sexual...
Edging: Delaying Orgasm
Orgasming is great. Really really great! That rush of pleasure and release of sexual energy is something we all hope we get from a sexual encounter. However, the build up to the moment of orgasm can also be a wildly pleasurable experience. And while orgasm is often...
Triangulation: 3’s a Crowd
Triangulation is an intimidating word. It is used in scientific research and cartography to mean the process of using triangles to measure otherwise unmeasurable distances. However, this word is also used quite frequently in the mental health field. In this context,...
Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives: A Sextimony
Are you a "nice guy" or married to a "nice guy?" "Nice" isn't to be confused with genuinely kind and caring. By nice, I mean one that hints around at what he wants from his wife, but doesn't really ask for it in case she doesn't want to either, or that it might upset...
Setting Goals for Intimacy
Can we set goals for intimacy? At first this may seem too robotic. You may feel like setting goals for intimacy feels like an oxymoron; how can you take something so personal and vulnerable and turn it into a number or a statistic? I understand your frustrations. I...
Female Ejaculation (Squirting) & How To Make Your Wife Squirt (2023 Edition)
God designed our bodies and they do some pretty amazing things! Squirting and gushing, otherwise known as female ejaculation, is one of them. The idea that women ejaculate may seem weird to you, it's often misunderstood, and even a little bit controversial. If you've...
How to Take Your Intimacy to the Next Level in 2023
Are you ready to take action, to take charge of your relationships, and make this year different and better than any other year you've ever had? I'm going to show you how coaching can get you out of your ruts and habits and find more clarity and growth in your life...
The Afterglow
What does “the afterglow” mean? My mom and I discovered we had very different definitions. Anyone who knows me knows that I love Taylor Swift. Like, a lot. When her album Lover came out I excitedly listened to every song. Driving around with my mom later that...
Marriage Lessons From Reality Shows
Okay, confession time: reality TV dating shows are my guilty pleasure. I greedily consume shows like the Bachelorette, Love is Blind, Indian Matchmaking, etc. Though many around me are supportive of my reality TV habit, I sometimes hear rebuttals like, “Don’t you know...
The Practice of Love with Lair Torrent
There are four fundamental questions we seek in our intimate relationships: Am I safe? Am I loved? Am I enough? And do I matter? How we go about answering these questions is the basis for how we learn to love and be loved in our marriages....
How to Change for the Better
This week on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast , we talked with Lair Torrent about his book the Practice of Love. Torrent is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has been working with couples for years. In his experience, couples therapy goes very well in...