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What Makes a Wife Sexy?
What makes a wife sexy? Although it seems like a silly question to some, I can almost guarantee every wife has asked herself (or her husband) a form of this question. It may sound more like “why did you marry me?” or “Do you even want me?”, but the general sentiment...
Narcissism and Emotional Immaturity with Tony Overbay
Holy smokes, this episode is jam packed with so much goodness and truth bombs. You’re about to hear Tony and I get a bit vulnerable as we share some of our mistakes and lessons learned about growing more emotionally mature in our relationships. Ever accuse your spouse...
5 Roleplay Ideas for Married Couples
Do married couples role play? For many marriages (including mine), the answer is a big yes! When I was a kid, I was always playing imaginary games. I loved pretending to be a princess, or fairy, or mermaid (or a butterfly fairy princess, my speciality). As an adult, I...
121: How I Learned to Orgasm: A Sextimony with Ashley
Mutual pleasure is an important ingredient of a good sexual relationship. The pleasure we get from sex facilitates bonding, joy, and makes sex way more fun! Orgasms are probably one of the most pleasurable sensations we can experience. However, generally speaking,...
Advice for Newlyweds With Tammy Hill
This week, our founder Dan Purcell was a guest on Tammy Hill's podcast Live Your Why giving his best advice for newlyweds. One of my favorite principles Dan mentioned is authentically showing up as your true self. Showing Up Often times when we first meet someone, we...
120: Squirting and Female Ejaculation
This episode is going to be a little more explicit than our usual episodes, but I think that's okay today we get to talk about squirting and female ejaculation, which has a lot of interest thanks to the internet. But it's also an amazing experience that couples can...
119: How Women “Kill Their Husbands Softly” (And How to Avoid it) with Ramona Zabriskie
Communication and marriage is a big deal. And many couples tell me they wish their communication was better. Many men approach intimacy in marriage differently than women do, and each person in the marriage has their own fears and insecurities as well. And in fact, I...
16 Valentine’s Mini Dates!
Valentine’s day is almost upon us! This can be a very romantic time; a time for grand gestures, expensive gifts, and romantic getaways. However, it can also be a rather stressful time. The year has just started; we are settling back into work and school and normal...
Marriage Apps Round-Up!
What if I told you there was a “marriage app” that could benefit every part of your marriage. While there may not be just one app, we have discovered tons of great apps that have helped our marriages! Here’s a list of our top “marriage apps”... Why Apps? The world has...
17 Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Men
*** 2023 Update *** Valentine’s Day gifts for men are pretty rarely advertised. Therefore, it can be hard to come up with a gift for your husband. Usually, you want to think of something sweet but not too cheesy. The best gifts come from a place of love, and you can...
15 Valentine’s Disasters
*** 2023 Update *** Valentine’s Day is SUPPOSED to be the most romantic day of the year, but what happens when your Valentine’s Day ends up being a disaster? At some point, I think we’ve all had high expectations for this day of love. Maybe you’ve planned a romantic...
Sweet & Sexy Coupon Book for Valentine’s Day
*** 2023 UPDATE *** There can be a lot of pressure on Valentine's Day to make it really special. Did you ever wish there was just a Valentine's coupon that could guarantee a sweet and sexy surprise? Well, we made one. This sweet and sexy coupon book is the perfect...
118: When Your Spouse Doesn’t Speak Your Love Language with Dr. Corey Allan
I've observed from my own experience and coaching other couples that we often get in our own way of having the love and passion that we could experience in our own marriages. Sometimes we're just too focused on whether or not our spouse is reciprocating the love we...
117: From Purity Culture to Developing One’s Eroticism with Brandi K. Harris
The older I get and more experience I gain, the more I’ve come to appreciate my eroticism as a part of me. I haven’t always been this way though. In all of its good intentions, sometimes people internalize the heart of the purity message by being void of sexual...
Edging: Delaying Orgasm
Orgasming is great. Really really great! That rush of pleasure and release of sexual energy is something we all hope we get from a sexual encounter. However, the build up to the moment of orgasm can also be a wildly pleasurable experience. And while orgasm is often...
Triangulation: 3’s a Crowd
Triangulation is an intimidating word. It is used in scientific research and cartography to mean the process of using triangles to measure otherwise unmeasurable distances. However, this word is also used quite frequently in the mental health field. In this context,...
116: Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives: A Sextimony
Are you a "nice guy" or married to a "nice guy?" "Nice" isn't to be confused with genuinely kind and caring. By nice, I mean one that hints around at what he wants from his wife, but doesn't really ask for it in case she doesn't want to either, or that it might upset...
Setting Goals for Intimacy
Can we set goals for intimacy? At first this may seem too robotic. You may feel like setting goals for intimacy feels like an oxymoron; how can you take something so personal and vulnerable and turn it into a number or a statistic? I understand your frustrations. I...