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90: Healing from Sexual Trauma with Nicole Graf

90: Healing from Sexual Trauma with Nicole Graf

Abuse of any kind, whether it’s physical, emotional, or sexual, is evil and wrong. Sexual abuse is particularly harmful because our sexuality is so personal to us. There is often some shame around our sexuality anyway, and the abuser takes advantage of it to make us...

Sex Life Checkup

Sex Life Checkup

Sometimes, our sex life needs a little bit of a check up. Perhaps we are feeling bored or unfulfilled. Maybe life just got busy and we don't make time for sex anymore. Or maybe something just feels off, something you can't quite put your finger on. Here are a few...

Fun Foreplay: Taking it to the Next Level

Fun Foreplay: Taking it to the Next Level

Have you ever felt stuck in a sexual rut? Maybe you and your spouse have found a sexual routine that works for you, but after weeks or months of doing the same thing you are starting to miss the novelty and creativity you once felt. Maybe after years of marriage, it...

G-Spot Stimulation for Her

G-Spot Stimulation for Her

What is the G-Spot? Well, that’s actually a big debate. So let’s talk about what people generally mean when they say “g-spot”. The term, named after German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg,  was made popular in the 1980s. It’s about 2 inches up the front wall of the...

Frenulum Orgasm

Frenulum Orgasm

Frenulum orgasm takes time, patience, and a delicate touch. It can be a nice change of pace from the thrusting and quick tempo we typically associate with male orgasm. For a wife, frenulum orgasm can be a good way to focus on your husband. For a husband, trying to...

How To Have Multiple Orgasms for Men

How To Have Multiple Orgasms for Men

Men are pretty good at having orgasms. A large 2018 study showed that heterosexual men experience an orgasm more than 95% of the time they have sex. Those are great odds when compared to how often heterosexual women experience orgasms (65%). However, when it comes to...

89: Foreplay Throughout the Day

89: Foreplay Throughout the Day

I am so excited to talk about today’s topic!  The idea for this podcast episode was partially inspired by an upcoming podcast episode I’ll be releasing in a few weeks. I interviewed an author, GS Youngblood.  His tip was about how foreplay begins the moment...

Foreplay All Day Long

Foreplay All Day Long

I am SOOOOO excited to talk about today’s topic! I think foreplay is the funnest part of sex!!! The idea for this post is partially inspired by an upcoming podcast episode I’ll be releasing in a few weeks. I interviewed an author, GS Youngblood, and at the very end of...

Pornography in Christian Marriages

Pornography in Christian Marriages

Pornography. You’ve heard jokes about it. You’ve been lectured about it. It’s this big scary thing that ruins relationships and desensitizes teens. But how prevalent is it really? Is viewing pornography really an addiction? And what can be done about it? This post is...

Anal Play

Anal Play

The idea of anal sex can leave many people squirming. The topic can also be controversial. Many people think it’s gross because this part of our body is responsible for eliminating waste. The thought of inserting anything in the anal canal may make some people think...

What’s Okay? Setting Sexual Boundaries

What’s Okay? Setting Sexual Boundaries

What's okay in a Christian marriage? Here at Get Your Marriage On! we get lots of questions in this same vein, such as… My husband used to watch porn and wants to use some things he learned.My wife wants to role play as other people.My spouse wants to try BDSM.Is...

88:Money and Intimacy with Marriage Puzzle

88:Money and Intimacy with Marriage Puzzle

There are so many parallels between money and intimacy when it comes to marriage. For many people, money represents security. When money issues crop up, it can threaten our ability to trust our spouse.  Issues revolving around spending habits in a marriage can...

Becoming One in Marriage

Becoming One in Marriage

When you hear the word sexuality, what comes to mind? Is it a word you’re comfortable with? Unfortunately, many people feel ashamed of sexuality and their desire to be sexual. This could be due to their upbringing, religion, abuse, bad experiences, pain, or lack of...

Building Deeper Intimacy

Building Deeper Intimacy

What is Intimacy? Intimacy is about a willingness to know and to be known. Some say intimacy could be spelled “into-me-see”--It’s about being seen as you are, and a desire to know your spouse fully. It’s about being really close to someone and loving them in spite of...

Learning How to Have Great Newlywed Sex

Learning How to Have Great Newlywed Sex

Having sex for the first time can be incredibly intimidating, especially if you have choosen to wait for marriage. In this situation, it can feel like going 0 to 100 real fast and can make sex seem hard. I want to share a few tips to making newlywed sex great. My...

Do Men Really Have Higher Sex Drives?

Do Men Really Have Higher Sex Drives?

The short answer is Not Always. Men do not always have the higher sex drives. However, this can be hard to believe for a lot of people. For me especially, it was a hard lesson to learn. Understanding My Own Sex Drive Growing up in a Christian church, it always seemed...

Advanced Orgasm Guide for Her

Advanced Orgasm Guide for Her

Tips for Wives to Achieve Multiple Orgasms It doesn’t seem fair that some women never reach orgasm during physical intimacy, while other women go again and again in the same session. Even if you haven’t been able to experience this yet, you should know that it is...