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14 Days of Sextimacy Challenge 2025
Are you ready for something new to celebrate your love this February? Do you want something that will not only bring you and your partner closer but also infuse your love life with excitement? Us too! We’ve created the “14 Days of Sextimacy Challenge” – a special challenge designed to rekindle the flame of passion in your relationship!
224: The 5 Phases of a Sexual Relationship
Take a moment to think about the evolution of your own sexual journey as a couple. How far have you come in the last year? Or the last two years, or the last five years? Is what's important to you today the same as what was important to you in the last two or five...
Ever Wish Your Wife Was a Little Less Vanilla?
Ever feel like you wish your spouse was a little less vanilla? Ever wish your spouse would be more enthusiastic about trying new or exciting things in bed (or out of bed for that matter)? Ever ask your spouse what their fantasies are, and all you get is a blank stare...
How to Stay Open When You’re Just Not Feeling It
Picture this: It’s a peaceful Saturday afternoon. The house is quiet, the kids are out with friends, and you and your spouse have just finished tidying up a few things. Suddenly, your partner looks at you with that twinkle in their eye and asks if you’re up for a...
223: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It’s Not What I Expected) – Part 2
This is part two of the BDSM episodes. Last week we talked about how a BDSM is a exchange of erotic energy and how it's built upon the principles of trust and communication. And in a scene or experience, you have one partner acting in the dominant role and the other...
Demystifying the Two Libido Types
If there’s one thing I wish I’d learned earlier in my marriage, it’s this: my wife and I don't experience sexual desire in the same way—and that’s completely okay. In fact, it's completely normal. Let me set the stage with a quick story. Imagine I walk into our...
Women’s Small Group Coaching Outcomes
We recently wrapped up our Women's Small Group Coaching program cohort. Ten women met weekly over a three month period. Those in the group went through the Get Your Marriage On Program course, received coaching to apply what they learned, and grew tremendously over...
222: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It’s Not What I Expected) – Part 1
Like many of you, I've had questions about BDSM for a long time. I've had preconceived ideas of what it was and wondered how it fits into my faith and the style of intimate play my wife and I enjoy. I have also received emails and DMS from many of you listeners...
Beautiful Breasts in intimate play
I think our bodies are incredible! All aspects of our bodies are thoughtfully engineered by God to facilitate our joy, pleasure, and connection in marriage. Breast stimulation is can be amazing and it is often underutilized when couples come to bed to play. Both...
221: Q&A – “Help! My Wife is Vanilla When it Comes to Sex”
Ever feel like you wish your wife was a little less vanilla? Every wish your spouse would be more enthusiastic about trying new things in the bedroom (or out of the bedroom for that matter)? Ever ask your spouse what their fantasies are, and they look at you with a...
220: Black Belt Sex Tips 4.0
I studied martial arts for 13 years when I was younger and I became proficient in three different styles of Karate and Kenpo. As you progress towards being a black belt, the fundamentals don't change, but your ability to be more precise and skilled in using those...
219: How Playing With Your 5 Senses Opens the Door to More Erotic Connection
I am a big believer in play in the bedroom, and I'm excited that you'll get to join me in this conversation with Adam and Karissa King today. Adam and Karissa have a fun Instagram account called Dear Young, Married Couple. And that's how I first met them a few years...
The little things passionate lovers do that make huge differences
I live one hour from Zion National Park and just a couple of hours from the Grand Canyon. Every time I visit these canyons, I’m awestruck by their immensity. It’s incredible to think that these natural wonders were not carved in a single sweep, but by a small amount...
Did you hear that?
Active listening is underrated. Sure, we hear the words our spouse says, but how often do we truly listen? Not just with our ears, but with our hearts and minds fully engaged? I’m reminded of a story shared by McCall Booth, a guest on my podcast (see Episode #54),...
Free Resources To Staying Connected During the Busy Holiday Season
You know what it is like, running around buying Christmas presents, taking the kids to countless activities and parties, and spending time with friends and family. The holidays, as fun as they are, can be busy and overwhelming. It can sometimes be hard to make time...
218: The Well-Sexed Wife
It's hard to believe that my wife and I started this work eight years ago! At that time we were 13 years into a happy marriage, but something was missing. We just didn't quite know what it was. And that's when a friend opened up to me about his sex life and taught me...
217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? with Jessa Zimmerman
EmbedEdit I used to think the word erotic was associated with unsavory things like X-rated films, Las Vegas billboards, or sites are not supposed to visit online. But the more I've done this work with myself and in my marriage and with other couples, the more I've...
Physical Exercise Can Get You In The Mood?
I read of a research study where the researchers divided the participants into two groups. In the first group, they showed photographs of people of the opposite sex and had the participants rate how attractive the people were in the photos. In the second group, they...