Men’s Sexuality Course
Today, my message is a message of hope to men who are in otherwise happy marriages but wish things were better in the intimacy department. If you're feeling stuck, this message is for you. If you feel like the harder you try or the nicer you get - the relationship...
69 Ways to Celebrate International Lovemaking Day
June 9th (6/9) is a very special day around here! Not only is it our birthday here at Get Your Marriage On! it is also International Lovemaking Day! This year it even falls on a Wednesday- Hump Daaaaayyy!! To help you celebrate this exciting day, we have put together...
Understanding Your Spouse Using the Enneagram
Personality tests are a really fun tool that can help you learn more about yourself while really enjoying the process! When used correctly, they can also be useful in getting to know your spouse in a deeper way. While some personality tests are just for fun and don’t...
June 2021 Instagram Sex Q & A
Recently, we let all of you wonderful people ask us any questions you had that you wanted answers for from Dan. Here are the questions asked from you, and the answers from our amazing founders Dan and Emily! Question: No matter how many times we discuss variety, it's...
Prioritizing Date Night
Date night is easy to make a priority before we get married. But once we’re married, we start to forget the importance of spending time together in a dating scenario. As divorce rates go up, a big reason for that is not continuing to date each other and spend time...
What a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist Taught Me About Sex
Your pelvic floor is a group of muscles found at the base of your pelvis. These muscles have 2 main jobs. The first is to be the floor for the organs that sit above it (the bladder, uterus and rectum) and the second is to provide constraint that allows us to do things...
Monthly Date Night Ideas
Click for a fun download of a monthly date night calendar!
Maturing In Marriage With God
Frankly speaking, almost all of us are quite immature when we get married, which can lead to a lot of hurt and confusion in the relationship. Whether you were married very young before you really knew how to care for yourself or someone else, or you’ve been married...
How To Do A Sexy Lap Dance
In marriage, it can be easy to get bored with the intimate side of our relationship. We need to find ways constantly to keep things new and fresh. Being able to relax and enjoy ourselves in the bedroom makes for a more enjoyable relationship all around. While there...
Putting Pleasure In Its Proper Place
We all understand that pleasure is an important part of intimate sex. However, we often demote pleasure to second or third place in terms of importance when it comes to the bedroom. Imagine if you could learn how to let time with your spouse be pleasurable all the...
Overcoming Female Sexual Dysfunction
Women are supposed to have it all: an impressive, high-power career, tidy and polite children, a spotless home and a completely satisfied husband. Plus a fantastic sexual relationship! No issues or problems, always ready to give 100%. Doesn’t that sound wonderful?...
Stop Letting Entitlement Hinder Your Marriage
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DsZZ_j1xwkk&t=1s Feeling a sense of entitlement as the woman or the man in a relationship truly hinders your capacity to love fully in your marriage. Entitlement prevents you from having mind blowing sex, and who wants that? In...
3 Stages of Love Making
Sex at its very best is a form of intimacy: knowing and being known. There’s something whole-hearted and whole-bodied about it. It’s a blessed space to be with your spouse. Our sexuality allows us to see beauty in life. It’s a marital sacrament full of pleasure...
Dealing With Desire Level Differences
With Jessa Zimmerman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_AXcBR3d6A It is completely normal in an intimate relationship such as marriage to have the two partners have varying levels of desire when it comes to intimacy or any other number of partnership goals and duties....
Overcoming Unwanted Pornography Use
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18iK0pHhSNE Unwanted pornography use often gets in the way of a couple’s capacity for a deep intimate relationship. Most pornography use by one spouse is done in secret without the full knowledge of the other spouse and is often...
18: Your Entitlement Hinders Your Intimacy with Seth & Melanie Studley
This week on Get Your Marriage On!, Dan sits down with Seth and Melanie Studley, from Anatomy of Marriage, to discuss entitlement and how it hinders not only intimacy but also your relationship. You can learn more about Seth and Melanie and their work...