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Did you hear that?

Did you hear that?

Active listening is underrated. Sure, we hear the words our spouse says, but how often do we truly listen? Not just with our ears, but with our hearts and minds fully engaged? I’m reminded of a story shared by McCall Booth, a guest on my podcast (see Episode #54),...

Free Resources To Staying Connected During the Busy Holiday Season

Free Resources To Staying Connected During the Busy Holiday Season

You know what it is like, running around buying Christmas presents, taking the kids to countless activities and parties, and spending time with friends and family. The holidays, as fun as they are, can be busy and overwhelming. It can sometimes be hard to make time...

218: The Well-Sexed Wife

218: The Well-Sexed Wife

 It's hard to believe that my wife and I started this work eight years ago! At that time we were 13 years into a happy marriage, but something was missing. We just didn't quite know what it was. And that's when a friend opened up to me about his sex life and taught me...

217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? with Jessa Zimmerman

217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? with Jessa Zimmerman

EmbedEdit I used to think the word erotic was associated with unsavory things like X-rated films, Las Vegas billboards, or sites are not supposed to visit online. But the more I've done this work with myself and in my marriage and with other couples, the more I've...

Physical Exercise Can Get You In The Mood?

Physical Exercise Can Get You In The Mood?

I read of a research study where the researchers divided the participants into two groups. In the first group, they showed photographs of people of the opposite sex and had the participants rate how attractive the people were in the photos. In the second group, they...

What’s on Your Sensual Menu?

What’s on Your Sensual Menu?

Today’s Hump Day Newsletter is serving up something special: a “menu” of sensual options designed to spice up your next date night with your spouse. Just like food nourishes the body, sexual moments nourish your marital connection—and turning them into a “menu” adds a...

A Laundry Night to Remember!

A Laundry Night to Remember!

Imagine this: it’s Wednesday night. The kids are finally tucked in, yet there’s still a list of chores calling your name. Instead of letting it drag you down, why not turn the evening chores into an unexpected, spicy moment with your spouse?  Invite your partner...

214: When Wives Have The Higher Sexual Desire

214: When Wives Have The Higher Sexual Desire

Broadly speaking, men are generally more interested in sex than women. However, there are exceptions. Some estimate that 20 to 30% of married couples are in marriages where the wife is the one with actually the higher libido or the higher sex drive. However you want...

Get it On-a-thon: Get Frisky for Fertility!

Get it On-a-thon: Get Frisky for Fertility!

We’re thrilled to announce the Get it On-a-thon—a playful, heartfelt fundraiser to support couples facing the challenges of infertility. Here’s how it works For every time you and your spouse get intimate this December, pledge a dollar amount to the Faithful...

Top Black Friday Deals for a Better Love Life!

Top Black Friday Deals for a Better Love Life!

Couples don’t need more robes and ties and gadgets, they need products and services to enhance and support their most important and longest lasting investment–their relationship!  And with the overwhelming amount of Black Friday and holiday deals all over the...

How to Rewrite Negative Sexual Scripts

How to Rewrite Negative Sexual Scripts

The thoughts we repeatedly entertain form into stories. The stories we tell ourselves form the basis of our beliefs.   However, sometimes our beliefs don’t particularly serve us or are based on true principles.  The ability to rewrite your thoughts,...

What Can I Say Yes To?

What Can I Say Yes To?

 I believe we need stronger marriages now in this world more than ever! I also believe, and a lot of research supports this[1], that the fastest way to strengthen a marriage is by improving the sexual connection. In saying that, I recognize that what constitutes...

212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To with Sofia Ashley

212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To with Sofia Ashley

There's a lot of stress in parenthood that presses on the couple's relationship, which Emily and I know firsthand as parents to 6 children. And I know that maintaining intimacy and being lovers while also being parents is a challenge many of us face, which is why I'm...

Want to feel more connected during the act? Try this

Want to feel more connected during the act? Try this

Today’s intimacy tip is about how to feel more connected to your spouse while making love. Have you ever wolfed down a meal so quickly that you barely tasted it? You’re so focused on getting food into your stomach that you miss out on savoring it!  Sometimes,...

Emotional Connection Requires a Safe Space

Emotional Connection Requires a Safe Space

 Emotional connection is the foundation of a deeply intimate & satisfying sexual relationship.During our Couples Retreat two weeks ago, we devoted an evening this vital topic of how to connect emotionally. One couple shared that learning how to connect emotionally...

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