Magnificent Intimacy:
Coaching for Couples


Are you good friends, and maybe even good roommates, but wish there was more playful erotic energy in your relationship?

Do one of you feel like you over function while the other under functions in your relationship? Do you want to create a marriage that feels more like a partnership?

Do you wish the other was more sexually confident, or wish you could confide in the other about tender emotions? 

Relationships go through three phases. The first phase is responsible for attraction and getting you two married. After a while, the second phase (also known as the Sweatpants Phase) kicks in, where attraction is often replaced with glaring limitations you see in your spouse.

Successful couples move past the second phase into the third phase where they can love another and find deep meaning in their relationship, and express that love sexually.

Who Couples Coaching Is For:

Couples in otherwise happy marriages but feel stuck when it comes to sex & intimacy

Faith-based and God-honoring content & instruction

Individuals that wish to experience magnificent sexual and emotional connection

Couples who have been married for at least 8 years

People tired of having the same arguments and stalemates and wish to be more connected than divided

Individuals that like a fun, upbeat, and safe environment to talk about sex, and marriage relationships!

I want to help couples experience deeper joy and fulfillment in their marriage relationships. By mastering a few basic skills, it’s surprising how much closer to each other you can become. I’ve lived and taught these principles and know they will work for you too!

Topics Covered

In the 10 weeks we meet together, we’ll be covering topics such as:

  • Emotional connectedness and how it relates to desire for sexual connection
  • How self-care translates to  relationship care
  • Why it’s socially and culturally difficult for women to be sexual
  • Why it’s socially and culturally difficult for men to be sexual
  • The divine purpose for sex in relationships
  • What intimacy is and why it’s not for wimps
  • How to becoming more mature in your intimate relationships to increase your capacity for deeper eroticism
  • Why conflict doesn’t have to mean Contention: working through conflict for growth
  • Overcoming gridlock and other issues that keey you two stuck
  • Understanding Desire, and why it tends to diminish after marriage (and how to get it back stronger than ever)
  • Spiritual connectedness: spirits in line. We are both striving to come closer to the savior. We both try to come closer to the Lord together.
  • How our sexual development and spiritual development are interconnected
  • Exploring our innate eroticism
  • Understanding arousal and fantasy in the context of the marriage relationship
  • Tantric sex practices to awaken sexual desire and encourage deeper intimacy
  • Understanding pornography’s impact on your relationship
  • ..and much more!

What’s Included?

  • Approx. 8 hours of course videos
  • Weekly 60-90 minute group coaching via Zoom
  • A 1:1 private coaching session with Dan
  • Private message group to keep in touch during and after the course
  • Lifetime access to videos and coaching session recordings

What This Program is NOT:


Unrealistic advice like Top 10 Lists To Get Your Spouse to Do ____ In Bed


A focus on The 5 Love Languages and other surface-level models that don’t address underlying relationship mechanics.


A place to gripe about your spouse’s failings and shortcomings.


An easy course. If anything, come prepared to be challenged and pushed to the next level!


BOOOORING. Get ready to laugh, have fun, and enjoy deep discussions about male sexuality and improving intimacy in marriage!

What’s Group Coaching?

This is the absolute best part of the program and where the value is!  We’ll meet live on Zoom once a week for 60 – 90 minutes. 

Coaching helps you stay accountable.

Coaching is where you can get specific answers to your questions. Coaching helps you see your blind spots and where your thinking can be improved. Coaching can be life-changing for you and your marriage!


The next cohort begins end of March, 2022

We’ll meet at 7pm Mountain Time every Wednesday.

The program is 10 weeks long.

We have room for only 8 couples to keep it close-knit.

Every week prior to our meeting you’ll get a video introducing a topic + homework assignments.

We’ll meet  over Zoom for live meetings for group coaching. Our weekly meetings are a great way to apply the concepts taught in the course!

About Dan & Emily

Dan and Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! Aside from hosting the podcast by the same name, he’s authored five apps designed to strengthen marriages. He’s put on live events centered on intimacy in marriage, attended by over a thousand people. He’s a frequent guest on marriage and intimacy-related podcasts and blogs. He has a Bachelor’s of Science from Brigham Young University-Idaho. He and his wife Emily have been married for 18 years and have 6 children.