Did you know that most couples that visit traditional sex therapy have very poor outcomes? They’re still just as dissatisfied two years later as they were before therapy. Now this insight is particularly striking to me. I think this happens because conventional...
Passionate marriages require a healthy tension between two forces that paradoxically are at odds with one another: Security which is love and intimacy and Growth which is desire, autonomy, and adventure. In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing Alana and...
A friend of mine recently emailed me this great question. Let me know if you feel like you can relate to this too! He says, “I’m in an otherwise happy marriage but my spouse is old-fashioned when it comes to sex. She says she’s not interested in trying new...
There is a lot of cultural taboo that comes along with talking about sex. People are quick to judge and jump to conclusions when sex is the topic. Not only that, but even just talking to your spouse about sex can be a scary thing for many people. You don’t know if...
With Jessa Zimmerman It is completely normal in an intimate relationship such as marriage to have the two partners have varying levels of desire when it comes to intimacy or any other number of partnership goals and duties. You’re bound to have different desire...