Is sex the #1 conflict in your marriage?
Let's fix that!
Our Couple's Program
Imagine… you and your spouce on the same page, in and out of the bedroom, without therapy!
All in 90 days or your money back.
How it Works
1Take the Quiz
Get started with a 5 minute quiz to help us match your needs and place you in the best community cohorts.
2Schedule a Welcome Call
Sit down for a few minutes to allow you and Dan to get acquainted before your journey.
3Get Full Access to Our Program
You’ll then be enrolled in your Men’s & Women’s Coaching Cohort, be emailed access to your Online Courses, and schedule your first Private Coaching Session.
“Finally, after 40 years of frustration, we’re enjoying each other”
Couples That Love Our Program
Hear About Their Experience
Keys to REAL change
What's Included
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Private Coaching Sessions
Six private coaching sessions with a professional relationship coach to help strategize and accelerate growth and get personalized attention your marriage needs.
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Men's & Women's Cohorts
As a member of Our Program, you get access to our 8-10 Group Coaching calls per month and connect to other like-minded couples going through the same struggles.
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10 Module Course
Over 13 hours of video content, and a 124-page companion guide to help you identify what patterns are blocking more meaningful connection in your marriage. Watch a sample of the first module here.
1 Year Program
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6 Private coaching & strategy sessions
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100 Optional Group Coaching Calls
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A Year of Small Group Cohorts Access
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Lifetime Access to the Full Course
Ready to Invest in Yourself & Your Marriage?
Investing precious time & money in your marriage can scary. We know it’s hard to make the leap!
Struggling in your marriage can be one of life’s greatest stressors. You and your spouse deserve to experience thriving love and intimacy!
We strongly believe that you don’t need to stay stuck in a rut, having the same conflicts over and over again. Having a passionate, intimate marriage is within your reach. Love is life’s sweetest gift; a gift available to you.
To make it easier, we've added a free consultation call
AND a money back guarantee.
If you’re interested in joining the program but have questions, schedule a free call with our team. If after *90 days of the program you don’t feel like it’s a good fit for you, you can request a 100% refund.
Includes you & your spouse!
*If we’ve seen you show up and try, but still can’t make the program work – we promise a full refund! This policy is dependent on sufficient attendance and participation.
Dan Purcell
Dan is a Christian Coach that specializes in helping couples improve intimacy in their marriage. He’s also the founder of Get Your Marriage On, a podcast host with over one million downloads, and the creator of several marriage apps.
Amy Langford
Amy is passionate about helping couples move from stuck to thriving! She has a passion for helping clients become more connected to themselves in an honest and kind relationship. When you’re feeling stuck in your relationships, Amy can help you up level your relationships.
Tammy Camp
Tammy specializes in helping women overcome “Good Girl” syndrome as well as helping men gain skills in intimacy with their wives. She has a passion for helping others learn how to really see what a healthy, intimate relationship looks like as she continues to learn and grow in her own relationship.
Common Concerns & Questions
I'm a private this person. This is scary to me.
We’ve got you. We want you to feel comfortable in our program. You can stay as anonymous as you like if needed. Our team of trained sex & intimacy coaches are well aware this is often a difficult and sensitive area of your life and approach this topic with compassion and understanding.
I feel like I could go the rest of my life without sex.
You might wonder if you’re asexual or some other label you’ve gievn yourself to explain why you have low libido. We can assure you that you’re not broken. We can dig in deeper to help you better understand what’s going on. Most of the time, it’s a blend of many factors, primarily the intimate relationship with your spouse, that is affecting you. Let us work with you to show you a better way!
I feel pressure to increase my libido to catch up to my spouse's level. Will this program add to that pressure?
Many traditional American sex therapists treat low libido by pressuring you to orgasm more frequently, watch porn, read erotica, or masturbate and fantasize. This approach may work for some in the short term, but doesn’t work in the long term because it doesn’t address the core issue (intimacy in the relationship).
We take a no-pressure approach to addressing intimacy (emotional, spiritual, sexual) in your marriage. You can go at your own pace.
My spouse doesn't seem interested in addressing this issue in our marriage.
We’ve been there before ourselves. It’s natural for one person in the marriage to be more motivated to address sexual concerns than the other. Our program is designed so that just one of you can get a head start, and the other can join when they’re ready.
We also believe it takes only one of you in the marriage to start the chain-reaction of positive change in your marriage.
What if this program doesn't work?
No other program offers the quality of coaching, as comprehensive of a course, or as dedicated of a community as the Get Your Marriage On program. Hundreds of couples are getting results in our program.
I feel ashamed for wanting (or not wanting) sex.
We talk about sex in a way you’ve probably never heard before: the spiritual side of of sexual development. We also discuss how sex is about connection & pleasure, rooted in an intimate relationship. This is a shame-free, sex-positive approach to addressing sexual concerns in a long-term marriage.
This is a big investment for us.
It’s true that nothing in life can bring you as much pain and stress as intimate relationships. On the flipside, there’s nothing else in life that compares to the joy, freedom, and thrill of happy intimate relationships! Investing in your marriage will yield more joy than your next job promotion.
How long does it take before we will see results?
Most couples begin to see results within 4 – 6 weeks and fully realize changes within 90 days of following our process and program. By taking action with the simple step-by-step program, they learn to recognize old patterns that interfere with their goals and begin to establish better patterns that promote more honesty and openness in the marriage.
Couples that succeed are committed to a better relationship. They watch the modules, complete the fun & sexy at home assignments associated with the modules, following along in the program guide we mail you, and participating in coaching sessions regularly.
I want to better understand who you are before I sign up. What do you believe in, what do you stand for?
One of the best ways to get to know us is by checking out these free resources:
Get Your Marriage On Podcast by Dan Purcell discusses matters relating to building an intimate and sexy marriage with Christian values.
Our YouTube channel has many useful videos on the topics of sex, intimacy, and marriage.
Check out our Instagram account with quotes, reels, and other discussions about sex and marriage.
Our Facebook page also is an active place to learn about Get Your Marriage On and the material we teach.
We’ve written hundreds of articles on this website’s blog about sex, marriage, intimacy, and many other related topics.
Who are my coaches when we sign up?
Unlike signing up for a course for you to consume (and forget about), our program is all about action and helping you apply principles anyone can master to build a stronger, more intimate marriage. We will guide you through this process.
The team consists of Dan & Emily Purcell, founders of Get Your Marriage On!; Amy & Greg Langford, certified life coaches, and Tammy Camp, certified marriage & intimacy coach.
In addition, you have access to professionals such as mental health therapists, pelvic floor physical therapists, and other specialists through our network when you join the program.
Why do you say this is a program for Christian couples?
Besides that the founders of Get Your Marriage On are Christians, there are common obstacles that Christian couples face. We help you overcome all of these obstacles in our program:
- Many Christians come from a home where sex wasn’t discussed often, or at least not in a positive light
- Christians believe in monogamy. When sexual problems arise in a relationship, going outside of your marriage to get needs met is not a desirable option.
- We affirm God’s purpose for sex in the context of marriage
Couples of all faiths and backgrounds are invited to participate. Others describe the program as not “preachy” but faith-affirming.
What bonuses do I get when I sign up?
This program is for couples and individuals that want to up-level their marriage via our proven step-by-step method and access via the Next Level system.
- We will mail you a welcome package with two copies of the guide (one for you, one for your spouse).
- You also gain access to workshops and other bonus content.
- Additional bonuses will be shared with you from time to time.
What is coaching like?
Coaching is getting real-time guidance and help in any aspect of your relationship. The goal of coaching is to help you sharpen your thinking and give you tools to help you make better life decisions.
Through our Next Level system, we offer four types of coaching meetings. You’re welcome to just attend and observe our group coaching meetings (don’t need to come on camera or mic if you’re not ready for it):
- Open Group Coaching, where all Next Levelers (members) are invited to attend.
- Men’s Only, Women’s Only, and 55+ Only meetings
- Courageous Couples, anonymized private coaching where the couple’s identifying details are changed. These audio-only sessions are shared with other Next Level members via the private podcast.
- Private coaching, for individuals and couples that want a private 1:1 or 2:1 experience.
What’s the difference between coaching and therapy?
There’s a lot of overlap between marriage coaching and marriage therapy. Our professional coaches receive much of the same training as therapists. Our coaches use the same research-based theories and models as therapists do in our practice. Our professional coaches invest in the latest training available to help our couples thrive in our program.
Like therapists, our professional coaches are invested in your success as a couple and partner with you to help you achieve your goals.
Our professional coaches do not treat mental health concerns such as depression or severe emotional trauma. When appropriate, we will refer you to a specialist to treat those concerns.
Because coaches are not subject to restrictive state licensing requirements, our clients enjoy more flexibility. For example, our professional coaches can work with couples across state lines without license limitations. This also saves us dozens of hours of busywork each week from writing documentation for insurance billing purposes.
Traditionally, therapy focuses on healing what’s broken where coaching is focused on helping you win. Coaching emphasizes actions you can take to see the results you’re seeking. Coaches can be more personal by sharing their own experience through similar challenges.
What times of day or week do you offer coaching?
We vary our times of the week for coaching to make it easy for you to find a time that works for you. We have some meetings during the day and others at night. After you join, you can view the monthly calendar and sign up for all of the sessions you want to join.
What are the modules and what will I learn in the Get Your Marriage On Program?
When you sign up, you will receive full access to the course that teaches you the step-by-step program for building an intimate marriage. Here are the ten modules in the course:
#1 – Taking 100% Responsibility and the Spiritual Work of Sexual Development
(Watch a sample of the first module here.)
#2 – Three Stage Framework
#3 – The Challenges of Modern Sexual Relationships
#4 – Awareness and Accountability
#5 – Balanced Belonging
#6 – Courageous Choosing
#7 – Developing Desire
#8 – Anatomy of Arousal
#9 – Embracing Eroticism
#10 – Living Orgasmically
Each module contains reflection questions to help you apply what you learn. In addition to the ten modules, the program includes bonus material on a variety of topics related to sex and intimacy in marriage.
My spouse isn’t interested (yet). Should I wait to do it together or start by myself?
It’s common for one spouse to be more interested in improving the marriage relationship than the other. We believe intimate marriages are a system: when one spouse begins to change, it immediately affects the other spouse.
The program is designed so that you can start the program yourself and immediately begin applying the principles and receive the coaching you need to start seeing results. Your spouse can join when he or she is ready.
I want a stronger marriage. Why so much emphasis on sex?
Great question! We believe the way you interact sexually is an accurate map or microcosm of how you interact intimately, and visa versa. We also believe that of all of the aspects of a marriage, the sexual aspect is one of the most challenging part to get right. Once you gain the skills to improve the sexual relationship, those skills transfer to the rest of the relationship.
Great sexual relationships require trust, honesty, generosity, benevolence, kindness, acceptance, good communication, and mutual self-disclosure.
In addition, the physical aspects of sex are incredibly healing and bonding to a marriage. The work required to develop as a couple sexually parallel the work needed to grow spiritually as well.
Can I join any time or do I need to wait until a spot opens up?
Yes, you can join at any time. We’re currently open for enrollment. The small group coaching programs (men’s and women’s cohorts) do have specific start and end dates, however.
Will I learn how to do X, Y, or Z (sexual technique) in this program?
This program doesn’t emphasize particular techniques, such as how to perform oral sex better or step-by-step techniques for women to learn how to have multiple orgasms. Although mastering good techniques is an important part of being a good lover in bed, this program instead focuses on building a good foundation for intimacy and exploration.
We offer bonus material on how to master certain sexual techniques to complement the core program.
Will this help me overcome _____ (premature ejaculation, difficulty with orgasm, differences in sexual desire, unwanted pornography use, etc.)?
Yes, maybe! Many difficulties with sexual dysfunction, sexual frustration, or sexual habits have their root in the way people respond to interpersonal challenges. Our coaches are trained to help you in all of these areas. We also have bonus material for specific concerns.
How do I sign up?
Click on this link to begin with a 5 minute quiz to help us match your needs and place you in the best community cohorts. After that we’ll schedule a quick consultation call. You’ll then be enrolled in your Men’s & Women’s Coaching Cohort, be emailed access to your Online Courses, and schedule your first Private Coaching Session.
Try it for yourself
Ready to do away with conflict around sex in your marriage for good? It’s absolutely possible. Let’s do this together.