Success Stories

Real Couples, Powerful Stories.

These results are the real deal. Dive into some actual experiences and stories from our participants. If you’re wondering how the Get Your Marriage On! program and retreats can change you’re life, you’ve found the answers.

Quotes From Our Users

Gave Us Hope

“We really appreciated the coaching calls. It was so eye opening to hear and see that we are not the only ones. It also gave us hope that things could change and they did. The workshops were good. The regular Get your marriage in pod casts were good. We especially like the Blow Jobs Aren’t just for Him episode among others.

Despite being married for 25 years, we feel like newbies and inexperienced. We loved all the new ideas and mindset changes we went through. We are now comfortable talking about sex together and feel like we can progress more.”

M & P

"This course was like a masters degree in sexuality."

N & B

Answer to My Prayer

“We have enjoyed this subscription, along with the classes. You have taught us so much and we feel like we are a stronger couple now. You helped us get through a really tough point in our marriage and were an answer to my prayer.”

M & M

Intimacy has grown Exponentially

“Honestly, between marriage counseling up until about August, and our wonderful experience with the retreat, our marriage and the level of intimacy between us (of all kinds) has grown exponentially. Thanks so much for being a wonderful part of that process Dan.”
C & E

“We have hope & fulfillment again!”

Joy and Jeremy got along really well in all areas of their 12 years of marriage except when it came to sex, their differences in preferences and desire caused frustration. Then they started the Next Level System and they have more hope and fulfillment in their marriage than ever.

“Intimacy was rough from the beginning”

Mindy and Cody waited for marriage to begin their intimate relationship, expecting things to go well. Their struggles to find harmony in their sexual relationship got gradually worse for 10 years, until they found the Get your Marriage On program.

What I Can Control

We're a Real Team Now

“We’re blown away by how much we’ve grown in this area of our relationship. It feels like we’re a real team now, are both committed to working at ourselves, and to having a great sexual relationship, for ourselves, for each other, and for us together, and it’s exciting to be on this journey together. Ware having lots of fun with our sex life. The holiday sex was amazing – we’re doing some more adventurous things in bed and finding pleasure in more ways. During our time apart we’re having lots of fun texting and sharing fantasies, and appreciating the anticipation that this separation brings.”

D & J

“Finally, after 40 years of frustration, we’re enjoying intimacy”

Cathy and Ken have been married 40 years, most of those years with frustration around sex. They didn’t know where to turn to, so they signed up for the Get Your Marriage On Program a few months ago. Watch how coaching improved their marriage and found new passion.

“I’ve been in therapy for a decade, but this actually works”

Troy had been in therapy for a decade, but finally found hope and answers in a few weeks of coaching.

Changing Lives

“I’ll start by thanking you for the [Get Your Marriage On!] coaching program. It was amazing, well worth the investment, and is still paying off for me! You’re changing lives 🙂 “

A & R

Praying For Some Answers

A Better Husband, Father & Leader

“The course has taught me a lot and I appreciate all your time and effort you have put into the course. It has been great to get to know you and truly grateful for the investment you have had in my life these past 12 weeks. I have received your input and put it into practice in my life. I appreciate your honesty and constructive criticism. I look forward to continuing to grow this year and becoming a better husband, father and leader. Thanks for everything.”

C & A

New Life into our Relationship

“We had a great follow up discussion after our session today. Over the last month she has been open to [the things you coached us on]. I have seen such an amazing transition to openness and comfort with communication over the last few months that she is blowing me away (pun intended this time 🙂 I never would have imagined things could change this quickly! Thank you so much for your coaching and mentorship, it has breathed new life into our relationship on so many levels.”

M & T

“We were really struggling. Now we have the tools we need.”

Sera and Darrin had struggles in their marriage, like most of us do from time to time. They were sick of staying stuck in their patterns. Learn how coaching improved their marriage.

“A worthwhile investment in our forever marriage”

Wade and Sheri share their experience with the program, what some of their surprises were, and some serendipidous outcomes for their marriage.

Like Newly Weds

“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has don’t for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds and our oldest graduates this year from high school. 22 year and still going strong. Thanks for the new energy you have given us.”

D & J

Curiosity and Self Exploration

“Your retreat really set us off on a wonderful journey of curiosity and self exploration. Thank you for helping me get rid of so much shame I had around my sexuality and to finally accept myself as a healthy loving Human that God created. It was truly a blessing and I have recommended this work shop to many of my friends along with your podcast. I pray that God continues to bless your ministry and those involved.”

B & A

We Seemed to be Stuck

“It can be a very difficult step reaching out to someone about something so personal. I have struggled for a long time in marriage with our sex life and I wasn’t sure what to do or who to reach out to. We seem to be stuck on the same issues and conflicts. Then I came across Dan on the Get Your Marriage On app. Actually, it was mostly my husband who was listening to him and out of curiosity, I decided to listen in on some of the podcasts too. I could relate so much to what was being talked about! It was such a relief to know that I was not alone in how I was feeling and what I was experiencing in my married sex relationship. Then I heard he coaches couples as well. To hear Dan’s heart and experiences, to feel the passion he has for helping couples during the podcasts made me wonder… could he possibly help my marriage too? I knew if there was anyone to reach out to and try, it was Dan. We nervously scheduled our first session and it has been going so great ever since! He listens so well and offers such great insight and suggestions into what we can do. I started in such a defeated, hopeless state…and things have suddenly become hopeful again! It has been so good meeting together and having that neutral person help us to sort through things as a couple. He makes it so convenient, we schedule and meet regularly together online due to being in Canada. If you’re willing to put in the work together and push into those difficult places within yourself, it’s worth it for your marriage! You will not be disappointed and we both highly recommend Dan to anyone!“

J & A

“From good to great”

Keith and Lindsey have a good marriage and friendship. They joined the program and quickly found value in turning a good thing into a great thing for their marriage.

A Safe Place To Talk About Sex

“Sex had become a point of contention in our marriage. We enjoyed Dan Purcell’s podcast and how he explains things and makes sexual things easier to talk about. We knew we needed help and so it made sense to ask Dan. It was soooo helpful to have an experienced “middleman” to help us see things in our marriage we had a hard time recognizing for ourselves. Dan has such great advice for how to improve the relationship and sex in a marriage. I am so glad we got the coaching and I recommend it to everyone especially those with frustration around sex in their marriage. Your marriage and your sex-life is worth the investment. If you are on the fence, get the coaching.“

B & K

Breaking Down Old Beliefs

“I don’t think it was anything specific she actually said to us, but somehow the coaching sessions just absolutely worked. After years of slow progress in our sexual relationship suddenly we started having some absolutely “next level” sex, some of the best we’ve ever had! So the coaching helped us break down what was working and provided suggestions to hopefully keep it going. Overall we were very pleasantly surprised with the coaching program!“

W & A

Truely Passionate

“I can honestly say for [the previous year] we had lots of sex but not once made passionate love. Things are changing and even this past weekend alone we made truly passionate stage 3 (as you called it on one of your talks) love five times. I can’t wait for an amazing next year!”

K & J

Love What You Stand For

“What resonated with me the most was the idea of a step-by-step focused program. My biggest complaint of [Other Coach’s] courses I’ve taken in the past are that they tend to be too theoretical and not enough “tell me what exactly I need to do this week to fix things.” So the idea of a course focused on digestible chunks that lay out specific improvement goals along with coaches to create accountability for reaching those goals and help applying them to real life sounds very appealing to me.”

T & M

Non-Threatening & Respectful

“I convinced my wife to watch your youtube on eroticism. She saw first hand how non-threatening you are and your respectful treatment of very personal and private subjects, i.e., all things sex. I actually think my wife is going to participate in the live lovemaking retreat. I am blown away! This is a huge step for her. Thank you so much Dan.”

M & S

Brought Us Closer

“My wife and I joined the intimately us app about a month ago and it has changed our lives and really appreciate what you and your team do. It definitely has brought us closer together. We really appreciate that this a Christian based app. So thank you again.”

M & C

My Black Belt Sex Tip: Get This Program

“My wife and I have been married for 15 years. We are happily married, but recognized that we had some challenges within our sexual relationship that led to anxiety, disappointment, resentment and hurt feelings.

We recognized that we needed some help from a third-party to help us overcome these seemingly monstrous hurdles, but had some apprehensions. We were worried about being open and vulnerable about something so private. However, we decided to invest in our marriage and reached out to Dan Purcell.

Working with Dan was amazing. Dan was so friendly and created a safe environment for sharing. He was a great listener and had great advice. He helped us to develop techniques for better communication and engaging in healthy conflict. He helped us develop a mindset that encouraged us to focus on our progress and celebrated our successes with us. He taught us how to invest in our relationship more earnestly, a gift we will cherish forever.

For those looking to have a better, more intimate, marriage, my Black Belt Sex Tip is to work with a coach — work with Dan Purcell! It is an investment that will last a lifetime!

Thank you, Dan, for helping us to take our marriage to the Next Level!”

K & B

The Staff is Vulnerable, Safe & Excited to Help

“The marriage and intimacy retreat was a life-changing experience for us. After 20 years of marriage, we wanted to take our marriage from good to great. During the weekend, we gained so many incredible insights on how we were trying to fix each other rather than ourselves, making assumptions and putting expectations on each other that were false due to lack of honest communication that had been shaped over the past decades of routine. We gained so many tools for improving connection and communication, but also changing our own attitudes about ourselves and our intimate life. Most important were the friendships and community that we gained from this bonding and growing time together. To know that every couple in the room was there to learn and grow was such a comfort and we learned so much from each other as well as the speakers. To have a relaxing and pampered weekend to focus on our most important relationships created an environment of uninterrupted growth, reflection and exploration that can be hard to come by. The staff is vulnerable, safe and excited to help each and every couple. We walked out of the retreat with a literal book of tools (and lots of other goodies!) to implement at home and friendships that will last a long time. What an incredible kick start to the next phase of our marriage and we can’t wait to get started!”

M & F

Learned About Myself

“The men’s group coaching was amazing. I learned a lot about myself and how to have a more intimate (close) marriage. “

T & B

Get This App!!

“We love this app!! We are so much more connected, and not just in the bedroom. The owners only and sole purpose is to better your relationship, and it shows. Offering a lot of different dates, games, conversation starters, even occasionally having free webinars on how to create intimacy and fun in your sex life! If you’re looking for something new in your relationship. Get this app!!!”

She Was Going Crazy!

“I tried “thrust in time” with my wife (I didn’t tell her what I was doing). By the time I got 3 short and 7 long, she was going crazy! It was an awesome thing to see. Finally after 1 short and 9 long, she was begging me to finish her off with hard and fast. She exploded! She is one of the fortunate few that can orgasm through penetration only. I am so grateful for the privilege of being able to have that together.”

S & M

Let Go & Enjoy

“Thanks again for the good work that you are doing! I really appreciate you, your Apps and your podcasts…for example I shared with my wife the other day your article about female ejaculation…it was really helpful because she had always thought she was peeing, and that it disgusted her, so it has made a difference in her feeling like she can let go and enjoy that when it is essentially comparable to male ejaculation.”

S & W

So Much Fun!

“I wanted to let you know that I’ve greatly benefited from your podcast and the Intimately Us app! We are having so much fun! After being married almost 27 years and are mid 40’s, empty nesters … .things could become a tad boring. I’ve truly enjoyed getting to know my husband in a new way. I love how you don’t make me feel weird for wanting to desire a HEALTHY sex life with my husband and that my desires aren’t bad or wrong! Thank you! I have also learned this from your episodes so I appreciate your mission for us to have the most intimate life with our spouse. I hope to be able to relay a sex positive message to my adult kids for when they get married! Something I had to learn on my own. Thanks again.”

M & K

Wedding Anniversary

“Jeanie and I did the virtual retreat this past weekend and celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary early. It was a amazing time of connection and pleasure together. I have learned a lot from you and the course. I believe we are going in the right direction and our relationship is growing deeper and more passionate. Just wanted to say thanks. Hope u have a great week.”

C & J

Huge Impact

“2 years ago I took Dans men’s course and it had a huge impact on me. I think by me showing up differently it allowed my wife showed up differently. I don’t get angry and show the neediness any more when sex doesn’t happen. I also cherish her more and ravish her with praise love and daily text messages of my appreciation belief and love for her. Our sex life has skyrocketed beyond my imagination. We have all the good stuff now 2-3 times a week and it has done wonders for our marriage.”

J & K

“We can actually talk about it now”

Learn how Sarah and Brady’s old pattern of people pleasing was driving them apart, and how the program helped them learn new skills for stronger intimacy and honest communication in their relationship.

Keep Growing & Experimenting

“Things have been going really well with me. We keep growing and experimenting with things that we would have never done in the past. I remember having concerns about “when the other shoe was going to drop”. That has not been the case at all. We have got stuck a few times but we communicate through our disagreement and figure out what will work for the both of us. It has been really fun and encouraging.”

C & R

Best is Yet to Come!

“My cohort wrapped up tonight and I’m just so excited about what I’ve learned and how I’ve already grown. The content and the delivery have been phenomenal so far. I’m so grateful to be in this Next Level – Get Your Marriage On Course. Thank you, thank you, thank you. No doubt, we have more work to do; the best is yet to come!”

K & D

Best is Yet to Come!

Relevent & Extremely Useful

“The men’s group was a good experience for me. Amy was a great coach and facilitator. The content was very relevant and extremely useful. I feel like you’ve provided a masters course distilled down into an easy to digest workbook and video clips. It’s A LOT to take in though! I found it worked best for me to focus on one or two things that jumped out at me as most on point for what I was experiencing rather than trying to go deep on each point.”

M & P

Cherish Each Other

“My wife and I had a great experience working through the men’s and women’s cohorts. As Tammy (our coach) can attest, we have made huge improvements in our marriage and have increased our intimacy greatly. We’ve both come to know and cherish each other more and have more connection with each other. My biggest ah-hah was probably just realizing what I was missing most with my wife wasn’t just more sex but deeper connection in sex and more connection and intimacy outside of sex.”

M & C

Fewer Regrettable Situations

“I remember joining that coaching class because I had been caught in a very bad situation. It has been a growing journey for me and for us since then. I am not yet fully there but the gains are enormous. Our communication keeps improving and our marriage and family has many moments worth remembering and fewer regrettable situations. I appreciate the time I journeyed with you.”

J & R

Ah-hah Moments

“The experience has been great. The program is comprehensive and has depth. I resonate with what is being taught. I am impressed with the quality of your coaches, Tammy and Amy. They seem to have a great understanding of what they are teaching and do so in a patient and empathetic manner.

My ah-hah moments are that I need to work on being attractive (calming down and being less anxious etc..) and females tend to need to work on their eroticism. This makes so much sense and is tied to what naturally happens in relationships with spontaneous/responsive desire couples that haven’t had coaching.

Additionally, the idea that eros is needed for a bonded/tight marriage is so refreshing and encouraging. This was a lightbulb moment for sure, along with the idea that sex/sexuality is the catalyst for a great marriage and relationship development with your spouse. (tied together with spirituality and God’s design for marriage!)”

J & D

Grown Tremendously

“As I reflect over the past 12 weeks, I’ve grown tremendously – specifically, the ability to even talk about sexuality with my wife. I’m learning to take full responsibility for myself (and she for herself). I’ve learned how to build emotional intimacy by having difficult conversations. We’ve had better quality sex – including allowing space for a “no” because I know how important freedom is. We’re seeing how Eros energy gives power to every other area of life too.”

N & B

Nothing Short of a Miracle

“As this 12-week men’s cohort wraps up, I want to express just how transformative this experience has been for me. I’ve participated in countless programs over the years. Things like diets, workout routines, prayer groups, and various Christian-based resources, but nothing has come close to the impact of this course. After 22 years of marriage, with issues stretching back to our dating days and a history of unresolved pain, I had grown increasingly hopeless that a solution existed. Most other programs left me feeling more discouraged, and some even made things worse. But I kept searching, believing God wanted something better for me and my marriage.

This program has been nothing short of a miracle. The safe, faith-based, and deeply practical environment you’ve created allowed me to finally see what I’d been missing. The group setting provided camaraderie and accountability, and the curriculum addressed the real issues that have kept me stuck for so long.”

D & C

Open Environment

“Since the retreat, I feel we continue to progress together. We are rereading the retreat workbook and notes we made as well. I would say we are becoming better empty nesters. Certainly the comfort level of talking about intimate topics has increased since the retreat. It was such an open environment with the other couples who were eager to talk and help. All with similar stories. We are not the only ones with our challenges was brought home again and again.”

A & P

Great Group of People

“It’s hard to believe it’s been a month already! That weekend was one of the best weekends we’ve had for a long time. I honestly wasn’t sure how comfortable I would feel in that situation but you and your team did a fantastic job of making it easy to relax and settle in. It was easy to be open to what was being shared by your team and the other attendees. We truly were part of a great group of people. It was comforting to know we weren’t alone in our situation. Everyone’s story was different yet similar. I really had some ah ha moments. Those realizations helped me to let go of so much hurt and resentment (I didn’t even know I was holding on to it). In the last month we have continued to have even deeper conversations. We are being much more honest with each other. We have been able to deepen our intimacy more and more each week. We are still a work in progress but I feel so much hope for our future.”

S & G