Does sex create tension and conflict?
Overcome your challenges with intimacy in your marriage and get the freedom, passion and love you desire for good!
Wives
Does this sound familiar?
“I love my husband but sometimes sex feels like a chore.”
“I feel guilty saying no all the time. So I say yes, but resent him afterwards.”
“I have low libido, and no matter how hard I try I’ll never catch up to his.”
“I want to be able to trust him more fully.”
“I wish he would pursue me, open up to me, be more honest with me, and be more confident around me.”
“I want him to want all of me, not just for sex. It feels like all he wants to talk about is sex.”
“I wonder if I’m broken or something is wrong with me.”
Husbands
Does this sound familiar?
“I want to be wanted sexually by my wife.”
“I want to be trusted by my wife.”
“It feels like we’re more like roommates than passionate lovers.”
“Our sex life is routine and predictable. I want more zest and fun.”
“I wish I didn’t have such a high sex drive because of all of the conflict it causes in our marriage.”
“I hate being criticized and judged when I share my thoughts”
“I’ve tried everything but nothing seems to work.”
Introducing the
Get Your Marriage On! Program:
Your new intimacy BFF.
Get Your Marriage On is a program for individuals and couples designed to transform your marriage so that you can enjoy a deeper, more meaningful intimate connection!
What it’s not:
- A list of things to “spice things up” (although fun, it often doesn’t get to the root of the issue!)
- Shaming, intimating, or pressuring (this undermines safety)
- A one-size, fits-none nonsense (every couple is different!)
- A focus on love languages (because you’ve already tried that and it’s not the solution)
What it is:
- A deep dive into the intimacy dynamics of your relationship
- Quickly gets to the root of the dynamic between the two of you
- Honest, rigorous, and deeply hopeful
- Sex-positive (shame-free)
- Intimacy-based (addressing core issues)
- Professional, well-researched, successful process that’s proven to get results
Why this program is so effective:
“We have hope & fulfillment again!”
After 12 years of marriage, Joy and Jeremy got along really well in all aspects of their relationship except when it came to sex and intimacy. The differences in preferences and desires brought up patterns of resentment and distancing. Then they started the Next Level System and they have more hope and fulfillment in their marriage than ever.
“Finally, after 40 years of frustration, we’re enjoying each other!”
Cathy and Ken struggled with differences in sexual desire and a low-intimacy marriage for nearly 40 years. Then they learned the tools in the Get Your Marriage On Program and feel like newlyweds again.
“A worthwhile investment in our forever marriage”
After over 22 years of marriage, Wade and Sheri were ready to invest in improving intimacy. Hear their experience learning in the group environment.
The Program Method
Why is Get Your Marriage On so effective at getting results for couples?
Our Secret Sauce:
The Three C’s
When you join the Get Your Marriage On program, you get:
- The comprehensive self-paced course guiding you step by step on building an intimate marriage. Watch a sample of the first module here.
- In addition, we’ll mail you the accompanying workbook.
- In addition, you can join as many of our 8 – 10 group coaching calls per month, held at various times to fit your schedule.
- In addition, you qualify to join one of our upcoming small group coaching cohorts. See Men’s and Women’s Small Group Coaching pages for details.
- In addition, you receive private 1:1 coaching to accelerate growth and get personalized attention.
- …and much more!
Meet Your Team of Professionals
Dan Purcell
Dan is a Professional Life Coach that specializes helping couples improve intimacy in their marriage. He is a Christian that’s passionate about sex and marriage. He’s the founder of Get Your Marriage On, podcast host with over one million downloads, and the creator of the popular Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps.
He’s married to his amazing wife Emily for over 20 years and they have 6 children. Dan likes to run, spend time with his family, and explore the beautiful outdoors near their St George home.
Amy Langford
Any has a bachelor’s in family science and is a Certified Life Coach that is passionate about helping couples move from stuck to thriving! Amy can help you to become more connected to yourself in an honest and kind relationship, so you can create connection with your spouse. Amy teaches relationship tools that take your marriage from disconnected to intimate. When you’re feeling stuck in your relationships, Amy can help you up level your relationships.
Amy and her husband Greg have been married for over 26 years, have four children and one son-in-law. They love to travel, ride horses, and laugh a lot at Greg’s jokes.
Tammy Camp
Tammy is a Certified Marriage and Intimacy Coach. She specializes in helping women overcome “Good Girl” syndrome as well as helping men gain skills in intimacy with their wives. She has a passion for bringing back the passion into relationships. Tammy loves helping others learn how to really see what a healthy, intimate relationship looks like as she continues to learn and grow in her own relationship. Tammy is ready to help you move into a place where you once felt stuck, to a place of newness and growth.
She and her husband Jake have been married for 23 years, have three children, and enjoy their hobby farm near the gorgeous mountains of Utah.
We’ve Got You Covered
(…or uncovered?)
Everything you get with the program:
Private Coaching
Accelerate progress in your marriage, step by step. Meet with your coach privately once a month for the first six months.
$3,600 value
Weekly Group Coaching Access
Weekly coaching opportunities to help you apply concepts and get traction and progress quickly
$15,600 value
Next Level System
The Next Level System, which includes a research-based and faith-centered step-by-step method to help you deepen intimacy in marriage.
$9,400 value
10 Module Course
Over 13 hours of video content, and two copies of both the 124-page companion guide and action planner. Watch sample.
$2,500 value
Sub Groups
$5,400 value
Security & Confidentiality
Designed for confidentiality and security. Stay as anonymous as you’d like in this program.
Mobile App Access
$1,200 value
Bonus Guides
$520 value
Library of Workshops
$560 value
Podcast Access
$99 value
"After Dark" Seminars
$280 value
Courageous Couples
$360 value
Conversation Starters
$99 value
Both Partners Included
Two-for-one: your spouse gets a full access at account at no additional charge.
Spice It Up Resources
Access to our vault of resoures to spice up things in your bedroom (or out)
$95 value
Ask a Coach
We have a comprehensive Ask A Coach feature, offering you 24 / 7 written help from professionals.
$1,800 value
Total value: $41,513
Pick a Plan That’s Right for Your Marriage
For Individuals
1 Year full program access with three private coaching sessions.
Investment: $1,399
Or six installments of $230
- Full program & course access
- 3 Private coaching sessions
- Group Coaching (8-10 times monthly)
- Men’s & Women’s Only Group Access
- Join a small group coaching cohort
- Many additional bonuses
30 Day Money Back Guarantee
For Couples
1 Year full program access for two people, with six private coaching sessions.
Investment: $2,699
Or twelve installments of $245
- Full program & course access
- 6 Private coaching sessions
- Group Coaching (8-10 times monthly)
- Men’s & Women’s Only Group Access
- Many additional bonuses
30 Day Money Back Guarantee
Refund Policy
If after 30 days of the program you don’t feel like it’s a good fit for you, you can request a 100% refund.
Questions? Book A Free Call.
If you’re interested in joining the program but have questions, schedule a free call with our team.
Pricing Is Per Couple
Pricing is per couple for the Couples plan. When you sign up, your spouse gets an account for free.
Course Access Only
One Time Investment: $285
Comprehensive Course
Lifetime Access
Complete at Your Own Pace
PDF access to workbook
30 Day Money Back Guarantee
No access to group coaching or additional bonuses.
Testimonials
We Were So Stuck!
“It can be a very difficult step reaching out to someone about something so personal. I have struggled for a long time in marriage with our sex life and I wasn’t sure what to do or who to reach out to. We seem to be stuck on the same issues and conflicts.
Then I came across Dan on the Get Your Marriage On app. Actually, it was mostly my husband who was listening to him and out of curiosity, I decided to listen in on some of the podcasts too. I could relate so much to what was being talked about! It was such a relief to know that I was not alone in how I was feeling and what I was experiencing in my married sex relationship.
Then I heard he coaches couples as well. To hear Dan’s heart and experiences, to feel the passion he has for helping couples during the podcasts made me wonder… could he possibly help my marriage too? I knew if there was anyone to reach out to and try, it was Dan.
We nervously scheduled our first session and it has been going so great ever since! He listens so well and offers such great insight and suggestions into what we can do. I started in such a defeated, hopeless state…and things have suddenly become hopeful again! It has been so good meeting together and having that neutral person help us to sort through things as a couple. He makes it so convenient, we schedule and meet regularly together online due to being in Canada.
If you’re willing to put in the work together and push into those difficult places within yourself, it’s worth it for your marriage! You will not be disappointed and we both highly recommend Dan to anyone!“
J & A
Changing Lives
“I’ll start by thanking you for the [Get Your Marriage On!] coaching program. It was amazing, well worth the investment, and is still paying off for me! You’re changing lives 🙂 “
A & R
Like Newly Weds
“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has don’t for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds and our oldest graduates this year from high school. 22 year and still going strong. Thanks for the new energy you have given us.“
D & J
Curiosity and Self Exploration
“Your retreat really set us off on a wonderful journey of curiosity and self exploration. Thank you for helping me get rid of so much shame I had around my sexuality and to finally accept myself as a healthy loving Human that God created. It was truly a blessing and I have recommended this work shop to many of my friends along with your podcast. I pray that God continues to bless your ministry and those involved.”
B & A
Get Your Marriage On is a good fit if
You’re coachable and ready to make positive shifts in your marriage (Note: this program is effective whether you’re doing it solo or with your spouse!)
You’re in a committed, otherwise healthy, long-term heterosexual marriage / relationship
You’re committed to resolving the frustration around differences of sexual desire (mismatched libidos), whether alone or together.
Although in 70% of participants say the husband with higher desire for sex, this program works for 30% of marriages in which higher desire wives have seen great results with this program!
You feel safe enough with each other to discuss challenge you face to improving intimacy in your marriage.
Get Your Marriage On is a bad fit if
You’re not in a committed long-term relationship
You’re in an abusive relationship
You’re not coachable and don’t want to take action
You’ve experienced severe sexual trauma that hasn’t been addressed by a mental health professional
You’re looking for a program that will tell your spouse how messed up they are, and use it as a weapon against them
What to do when your spouse isn’t on board?
What to do next
Do any of these sound familiar?
“I’d join this program but I’m not ready for another battle about this area in our marriage.”
“My spouse doesn’t think there’s a problem with our sexual relationship. I seem to be the only one that cares about it.”
“I don’t know if it’s worth it for me to sign up for this program when my spouse has no interest in it.”
“Although I want to, I don’t think it will be helpful of my spouse has no interest in fixing this part of our marriage.”
“I don’t want to discuss our sex life with my spouse any further because I don’t want him (or her) to feel pressured.”
The difficulty in discussing sex in your marriage is keeping you from having a more fulfilling intimate marriage.
And this is precisely why you need the Get Your Marriage On Program. The very reasons why it’s hard to discuss and agree has to do with the patterns you’ve developed as a couple. The Get Your Marriage On program, including the course and expert coaching, will help you see a better way to discuss intimate matters in your marriage.
The best thing you can do when you feel like your spouse isn’t on board is to join the program yourself, and begin taking more responsibility for the areas of your relationship you have. The program is designed to work for individuals as well as couples.
Intimate marriages are like a system. Often when one spouse in the marriage begins to experience change, it pressures the other to confront themselves and invite positive changes as well.
BONUS: Men’s & Women’s Small Group Coaching
As part of the program, you’re invited to join a cohort of our Men’s or Women’s Small Group Coaching programs. These programs run a few times a year.
Individuals who participate in our Men’s or Women’s Small Group Coaching can expect to walk away as a transformed person.
You’ll gain a stronger relationship with yourself and be given the tools to relate to your spouse more intimately in your marriage. You’ll make fast friends with the others. You’ll find support and encouragement from others and your coach.
Here’s what you get when you join this program:
- Meet weekly for 12 weeks. A replay is available if you miss a week.
- Small group size: Limited to 6-10 individuals
- Hot Seat format. You’ll choose at least two opportunities to be coached in front of the small group.
- Go through the Get Your Marriage On Course together as a group (access included)
- Receive a printed 124-page workbook
- One additional private coaching session (your spouse is invited, if you choose)
- Confidentiality and privacy assured.
Upcoming Men's Cohort
Next Cohort Begins:
6:30pm Mountain / 8:30pm Eastern
Upcoming Women's Cohort
Next Cohort Begins:
Hi there, We’re Dan & Emily
We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On! and creators of the program.
We’ve been there before. We’ve lived through just about every common sexual frustration in our marriage. We didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.
After our own marriage transformed, we couldn’t keep the things we were learning to ourselves.
We want to invest in your marriage. We look forward to being part of your success plan. As trained professional marriage & sex coaches, we’ve helped thousands of couples build passionate marriages.
We strongly believe that you don’t need to stay stuck in a rut, having the same conflicts over and over again. Having a passionate, intimate marriage is within your reach. Love is life’s sweetest gift; a gift available to you.
Not Sure Yet?
It’s completely natural to feel hesitant about joining this program. Allow us to put your mind at ease. Here are common concerns we hear from couples:
I'm a private this person. This is scary to me.
We’ve got you. We want you to feel comfortable in our program. You can stay as anonymous as you like if needed. Our team of trained sex & intimacy coaches are well aware this is often a difficult and sensitive area of your life and approach this topic with compassion and understanding.
I feel like I could go the rest of my life without sex.
You might wonder if you’re asexual or some other label you’ve gievn yourself to explain why you have low libido. We can assure you that you’re not broken. We can dig in deeper to help you better understand what’s going on. Most of the time, it’s a blend of many factors, primarily the intimate relationship with your spouse, that is affecting you. Let us work with you to show you a better way!
I feel pressure to increase my libido to catch up to my spouse's level. Will this program add to that pressure?
Many traditional American sex therapists treat low libido by pressuring you to orgasm more frequently, watch porn, read erotica, or masturbate and fantasize. This approach may work for some in the short term, but doesn’t work in the long term because it doesn’t address the core issue (intimacy in the relationship).
We take a no-pressure approach to addressing intimacy (emotional, spiritual, sexual) in your marriage. You can go at your own pace.
My spouse doesn't seem interested in addressing this issue in our marriage.
We’ve been there before ourselves. It’s natural for one person in the marriage to be more motivated to address sexual concerns than the other. Our program is designed so that just one of you can get a head start, and the other can join when they’re ready.
We also believe it takes only one of you in the marriage to start the chain-reaction of positive change in your marriage.
What if this program doesn't work?
No other program offers the quality of coaching, as comprehensive of a course, or as dedicated of a community as the Get Your Marriage On program. Hundreds of couples are getting results in our program.
I feel ashamed for wanting (or not wanting) sex.
We talk about sex in a way you’ve probably never heard before: the spiritual side of of sexual development. We also discuss how sex is about connection & pleasure, rooted in an intimate relationship. This is a shame-free, sex-positive approach to addressing sexual concerns in a long-term marriage.
This is a big investment for us.
It’s true that nothing in life can bring you as much pain and stress as intimate relationships. On the flipside, there’s nothing else in life that compares to the joy, freedom, and thrill of happy intimate relationships! Investing in your marriage will yield more joy than your next job promotion.
Testimonials
Gave Us Hope
“We really appreciated the coaching calls. It was so eye opening to hear and see that we are not the only ones. It also gave us hope that things could change and they did. The workshops were good. The regular podcasts were good. We especially like the Blow Jobs Aren’t just for Him episode among others.
Despite being married for 25 years, we feel like newbies and inexperienced. We loved all the new ideas and mindset changes we went through. We are now comfortable talking about sex together and feel like we can progress more.”
M & P
Answer to My Prayer
“We have enjoyed this program, along with the classes. You have taught us so much and we feel like we are a stronger couple now. You helped us get through a really tough point in our marriage and were an answer to my prayer.”
M & M
Intimacy has grown Exponentially
“Honestly, between marriage counseling up until about August, and our wonderful experience with the retreat, our marriage and the level of intimacy between us (of all kinds) has grown exponentially. Thanks so much for being a wonderful part of that process Dan.”
C & E
The Get Your Marriage On Program is about so much more than just sex!
It’s also about…
- Finding more purpose and zest for life.
- Becoming a more capable lover.
- Becoming more mindful and at peace with yourself and others.
- Rediscovering yourself and being more confident in your own skin.
- Understanding emotions and how to use them to connect you to your spouse and others.
- Gaining a greater capacity to handle the challenges that come in life.
- Creating a marriage that lasts a lifetime & beyond, blessing your children and grandchildren.
Ready to do away with conflict around sex in your marriage for good?
It’s absolutely possible. Let’s do this together.
Frequently Asked
Questions
How long does it take before we will see results?
Most couples begin to see results within 4 – 6 weeks and fully realize changes within 90 days of following our process and program. By taking action with the simple step-by-step program, they learn to recognize old patterns that interfere with their goals and begin to establish better patterns that promote more honesty and openness in the marriage.
Couples that succeed are committed to a better relationship. They watch the modules, complete the fun & sexy at home assignments associated with the modules, following along in the program guide we mail you, and participating in coaching sessions regularly.
I want to better understand who you are before I sign up. What do you believe in, what do you stand for?
One of the best ways to get to know us is by checking out these free resources:
Get Your Marriage On Podcast by Dan Purcell discusses matters relating to building an intimate and sexy marriage with Christian values.
Our YouTube channel has many useful videos on the topics of sex, intimacy, and marriage.
Check out our Instagram account with quotes, reels, and other discussions about sex and marriage.
Our Facebook page also is an active place to learn about Get Your Marriage On and the material we teach.
We’ve written hundreds of articles on this website’s blog about sex, marriage, intimacy, and many other related topics.
Who are my coaches when we sign up?
Unlike signing up for a course for you to consume (and forget about), our program is all about action and helping you apply principles anyone can master to build a stronger, more intimate marriage. We will guide you through this process.
The team consists of Dan & Emily Purcell, founders of Get Your Marriage On!; Amy & Greg Langford, certified life coaches, and Tammy Camp, certified marriage & intimacy coach.
In addition, you have access to professionals such as mental health therapists, pelvic floor physical therapists, and other specialists through our network when you join the program.
What bonuses do I get when I sign up?
This program is for couples and individuals that want to up-level their marriage via our proven step-by-step method and access via the Next Level system.
- We will mail you a welcome package with two copies of the guide, our action planner, and a few other goodies for the bedroom worth over $200.
- You will also receive upgraded access to our other apps (Intimately Us and Just Between Us).
- You also gain access to workshops and other bonus content.
- Additional bonuses will be shared with you from time to time.
What is coaching like?
Coaching is getting real-time guidance and help in any aspect of your relationship. The goal of coaching is to help you sharpen your thinking and give you tools to help you make better life decisions.
Through our Next Level system, we offer four types of coaching meetings. You’re welcome to just attend and observe our group coaching meetings (don’t need to come on camera or mic if you’re not ready for it):
- Open Group Coaching, where all Next Levelers (members) are invited to attend.
- Men’s Only, Women’s Only, and 55+ Only meetings
- Courageous Couples, anonymized private coaching where the couple’s identifying details are changed. These audio-only sessions are shared with other Next Level members via the private podcast.
- Private coaching, for individuals and couples that want a private 1:1 or 2:1 experience.
What’s the difference between coaching and therapy?
There’s a lot of overlap between marriage coaching and marriage therapy. Our professional coaches receive much of the same training as therapists. Our coaches use the same research-based theories and models as therapists do in our practice. Our professional coaches invest in the latest training available to help our couples thrive in our program.
Like therapists, our professional coaches are invested in your success as a couple and partner with you to help you achieve your goals.
Our professional coaches do not treat mental health concerns such as depression or severe emotional trauma. When appropriate, we will refer you to a specialist to treat those concerns.
Because coaches are not subject to restrictive state licensing requirements, our clients enjoy more flexibility. For example, our professional coaches can work with couples across state lines without license limitations. This also saves us dozens of hours of busywork each week from writing documentation for insurance billing purposes.
Traditionally, therapy focuses on healing what’s broken where coaching is focused on helping you win. Coaching emphasizes actions you can take to see the results you’re seeking. Coaches can be more personal by sharing their own experience through similar challenges.
What times of day or week do you offer coaching?
We vary our times of the week for coaching to make it easy for you to find a time that works for you. We have some meetings during the day and others at night. After you join, you can view the monthly calendar and sign up for all of the sessions you want to join.
What are the modules and what will I learn in the Next Level System of your program?
When you sign up, you will receive full access to the course that teaches you the step-by-step program for building an intimate marriage. Here are the ten modules in the course:
#1 – Taking 100% Responsibility and the Spiritual Work of Sexual Development
(Watch a sample of the first module here.)
#2 – Three Stage Framework
#3 – The Challenges of Modern Sexual Relationships
#4 – Awareness and Accountability
#5 – Balanced Belonging
#6 – Courageous Choosing
#7 – Developing Desire
#8 – Anatomy of Arousal
#9 – Embracing Eroticism
#10 – Living Orgasmically
Each module contains reflection questions to help you apply what you learn. In addition to the ten modules, the program includes bonus material on a variety of topics related to sex and intimacy in marriage.
My spouse isn’t interested (yet). Should I wait to do it together or start by myself?
It’s common for one spouse to be more interested in improving the marriage relationship than the other. We believe intimate marriages are a system: when one spouse begins to change, it immediately affects the other spouse.
The program is designed so that you can start the program yourself and immediately begin applying the principles and receive the coaching you need to start seeing results. Your spouse can join when he or she is ready.
I want a stronger marriage. Why so much emphasis on sex?
Great question! We believe the way you interact sexually is an accurate map or microcosm of how you interact intimately, and visa versa. We also believe that of all of the aspects of a marriage, the sexual aspect is one of the most challenging part to get right. Once you gain the skills to improve the sexual relationship, those skills transfer to the rest of the relationship.
Great sexual relationships require trust, honesty, generosity, benevolence, kindness, acceptance, good communication, and mutual self-disclosure.
In addition, the physical aspects of sex are incredibly healing and bonding to a marriage. The work required to develop as a couple sexually parallel the work needed to grow spiritually as well.
Can I join any time or do I need to wait until a spot opens up?
Yes, you can join at any time. We’re currently open for enrollment. The small group coaching programs (men’s and women’s cohorts) do have specific start and end dates, however.
Will I learn how to do X, Y, or Z (sexual technique) in this program?
This program doesn’t emphasize particular techniques, such as how to perform oral sex better or step-by-step techniques for women to learn how to have multiple orgasms. Although mastering good techniques is an important part of being a good lover in bed, this program instead focuses on building a good foundation for intimacy and exploration.
We offer bonus material on how to master certain sexual techniques to complement the core program.
Will this help me overcome _____ (premature ejaculation, difficulty with orgasm, differences in sexual desire, unwanted pornography use, etc.)?
Yes, maybe! Many difficulties with sexual dysfunction, sexual frustration, or sexual habits have their root in the way people respond to interpersonal challenges. Our coaches are trained to help you in all of these areas. We also have bonus material for specific concerns.
Do you offer any guarantees?
Yes, we have a 30 day money-back satisfaction guarantee. If you find that the program doesn’t meet your expectations as outlined here, we’ll offer you a full refund.
I’m a very private person, and this is scary for me.
We’ve got you. Your privacy is very important to us, and the program is designed such that you can stay as anonymous and private as you want to be. You can also find comfort in the fact that almost all other couples and individuals in the program are private too and working through their challenges in becoming more intimate as a couple.
How do I sign up?
Click on this link to begin!
I have more questions. How do I get in contact with you?
Feel free to email us at support@getyourmarriageon.com.