We help couples significantly improve sex and intimacy in their marriage.
Hi there,
We’re Dan & Emily
We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On!
Welcome! If you landed on this website, you‘re probably married and looking for ways to keep sex passionate and exciting while also drawing closer to your spouse! Our mission is to help couples improve sex and intimacy in their marriage. We help you:
- overcome your obstacles
- spice things up (without the yuck)
- gain new intimacy skills
so that you achieve your marriage goals.
We Transformed our Marriage & You Can Too
For many years, we struggled with just about every common concern – mismatched desire, infertility, sexual dysfunction, inability to orgasm, or find sex pleasurable.
Because the topic of sex is so taboo in our culture, we didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.
After 13 years of marriage we decided enough was enough and started to address our concerns. The transformation we experienced in our relationship was so profound that we knew we had to help others get their marriage on too!
A Proven, Step-by-Step Program Towards Deeper Intimacy
Our signature, step-by-step program guaranteed to transform your sex life and build deeper intimacy than ever. Hundreds of couples have benefited from this program!
Free Resources
New here? Here are our 3 top free resources!
1
Intimately Us App
The fun and sexy app full of bedroom games and intimacy-building activities designed to bust bedroom boredom and bond couples.
2
Spice Up Marriage
In this guide we offer you 101 Ways to spice up your marriage and sex life!
3
Mismatched Sex Drives?
Learn how to fix the libido gap in your marriage without therapy or pressure.
“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has done for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds.”
The #1 Podcast
To Upgrade Intimacy
It’s challenging to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun.
It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values.
Top Five Episodes
#153
How a sexy bedroom game took our sex life to the next level
#157
Seven Ways to Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY
#100
Black Belt Sex Tips 2.0
#161
Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex
#116
Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives
Next Couples Retreat
April 8-12, 2026
Join us for an exciting and romantic 4-day, 4-night Marriage, Sex and Intimacy retreat.
Our Blog
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250: 10 Steps to Have the Hard Conversations You’ve Been Avoiding in Your Marriage
Let’s face it—if you're married, disagreements are inevitable. And sometimes, those disagreements feel like gridlock. That’s when it seems like there’s no win-win—only one of you can get what you want, and the other has to give in. It can feel like it’s either his way...
249: Quickie – Why your spouse avoids affection and what to do about it
Have you ever wondered why your spouse dodges your attempts at affection or how quickly he or she shuts down any of your affection attempts? Or how a simple kiss gets treated like you're asking for something much bigger? Well, in this episode I'm going to explain...
248: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 2
Welcome to Part 2 of my conversation with Tanya Hale! We talk about the pressure men feel around performance, why their penis can be such a vulnerable topic, and how couples can build a sexual relationship that's validating fun and deeply connecting, especially...
247: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 1
Male sexuality is just as complex and rich as female sexuality. I was recently invited to talk about what I wish women knew and understood about male sexuality on Tanya Hale's podcast, she's given me permission to share that with you here on my podcast. So on this...
246: Love Worth Making Part 2, with Dr. Stephen Snyder
Welcome to part two of my conversation with Dr. Steven Snyder! In part one, we explored why sex is more than just physical--it's deeply emotional, even regressive (meaning you kind of get a little dumber and a lot happier when you're aroused). And we discuss why the...
245: Love Worth Making Part 1, with Dr. Stephen Snyder
When it comes to sexual arousal, many of us reach for that excited, giddy, sometimes silly, sometimes serious, joyful, fulfilling feelings in the company of someone else that matters so much to us. And how do you create a marriage relationship where there's room for...