We help couples significantly improve sex and intimacy in their marriage.
Hi there,
We’re Dan & Emily
We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On!
Welcome! If you landed on this website, you‘re probably married and looking for ways to keep sex passionate and exciting while also drawing closer to your spouse! Our mission is to help couples improve sex and intimacy in their marriage. We help you:
- overcome your obstacles
- spice things up (without the yuck)
- gain new intimacy skills
so that you achieve your marriage goals.
We Transformed our Marriage & You Can Too
For many years, we struggled with just about every common concern – mismatched desire, infertility, sexual dysfunction, inability to orgasm, or find sex pleasurable.
Because the topic of sex is so taboo in our culture, we didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.
After 13 years of marriage we decided enough was enough and started to address our concerns. The transformation we experienced in our relationship was so profound that we knew we had to help others get their marriage on too!
A Proven, Step-by-Step Program Towards Deeper Intimacy
Our signature, step-by-step program guaranteed to transform your sex life and build deeper intimacy than ever. Hundreds of couples have benefited from this program!
Free Resources
New here? Here are our 3 top free resources!
1
Intimately Us App
The fun and sexy app full of bedroom games and intimacy-building activities designed to bust bedroom boredom and bond couples.
2
Spice Up Marriage
In this guide we offer you 101 Ways to spice up your marriage and sex life!
3
Mismatched Sex Drives?
Learn how to fix the libido gap in your marriage without therapy or pressure.
“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has done for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds.”
The #1 Podcast
To Upgrade Intimacy
It’s challenging to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun.
It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values.
Top Five Episodes
#153
How a sexy bedroom game took our sex life to the next level
#157
Seven Ways to Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY
#100
Black Belt Sex Tips 2.0
#161
Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex
#116
Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives
Next Couples Retreat
April 8-12, 2026
Join us for an exciting and romantic 4-day, 4-night Marriage, Sex and Intimacy retreat.
Our Blog
Learn how to improve intimacy in your marriage.
254: Pornography and White Rice: Nourishing Your Marriage with Real Erotic Connection
What does white rice have to do with pornography? I know that sounds like a strange question, but stick with me here because this analogy completely changed how I understand what pornography does to our relationships. I'll also share a more compassionate,...
253: Quickie – The New Lube Evree-one Is Talking About
Did you know that two-thirds of heterosexual couples in the United States use lubricant during sex? That number might not surprise you when you consider all the benefits of using quality lube for enhanced pleasure and intimacy. While there are many different kinds to...
252: Cunnilingus Mastery: 12 Tips Every Husband Should Know Before Going Down On His Wife
Oral sex is one of the most powerful ways to bring your wife pleasure—and deepen your intimacy. In this episode, we share 12 practical, respectful, and fun tips to help husbands confidently and lovingly master cunnilingus. You'll learn what works, what to avoid, and...
251: Quickie – Frenulum Orgasms: The Clitoral Orgasm for Men?
We’re diving into a topic that’s often overlooked—but full of potential for deeper connection and pleasure: the frenulum orgasm. In this episode, we'll cover the following: The anatomy and sensitivity of the frenulum How this kind of orgasm compares to the female...
The 2025 Marriage Bundle
Every marriage—no matter how strong—needs intentional care. Sometimes it’s a date night that breaks up the stress. Sometimes it’s a conversation that opens a new level of connection. And sometimes… it’s simply having the right tools in your hands to grow together...
250: 10 Steps to Have the Hard Conversations You’ve Been Avoiding in Your Marriage
Let’s face it—if you're married, disagreements are inevitable. And sometimes, those disagreements feel like gridlock. That’s when it seems like there’s no win-win—only one of you can get what you want, and the other has to give in. It can feel like it’s either his way...