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208: How This Couple Is Rewriting Their Scripts About Sex & Intimacy For Good
There are many reasons why a lot of us get off on the wrong foot when it comes to building an intimate marriage for the lifetime; there's shame, purity culture, unmet expectations, and difficulty in communicating about intimate matters, just to name a few. I'm excited...
These Are a Few of Our Favorite Things BEDROOM EDITION
We believe that the quickest way to strengthen a marriage is through intimacy (and everything that involves, including being a good listener). And a few amazing products definitely can help! Maybe after reading, you will have an idea for a thing or two you can wrap up...
207: Top 10 Sex Positions from the Intimately Us App (Sextember Series #4)
https://vimeo.com/1010476623 We've come to our fourth and final Sextember podcast episode! It's been a great month culminating in this week's spicy topic. And the whole reason behind Sextember and these types of episodes is to illustrate how important it is that you...
206: What Are Your Yeses, Nos, and Maybes in the Bedroom? (Sextember Series #3)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4w4cZPFbLgw This is our third Sextember Episode! So this is also going to be a really fun and spicy podcast to give you inspiration and ideas to make the most out of your Sextember! Today, we get to talk about how to share your...
Horizontal VS Vertical Novelty in the Bedroom
We’re just over half way through Sextember!We crave safety and stability in our intimate relationships.However, as much as we long for safety and stability, it's also in our nature to crave newness and adventure. I mean, who really wants to eat the same meal every day...
205: ForePLAY that Wins The Day (Sextember Series #2)
Welcome to our second Sextember episode! For this month, every episode will be filled with ideas to add more spice and excitement to your bedroom as part of our Sextember series. Last week, my guest, Tammy Camp, and I talked about flirting and initiating. So today...
The Magic of Anticipation
Here's a tip that I hope makes your Sextember even more special! It was my turn to plan our date night, and I was really looking forward to it. I had everything lined up—a casual dinner followed by Top Golf with friends. But I didn’t stop there. I wanted to make it...
204: Flirting and Initiation in Marriage (Sextember Series #1)
I am so excited for what's coming up in September! For the next four episodes in the month of September, we will focus on the theme of spicing things up in the bedroom. We're just adding a little more creativity to your lovemaking routines! It's going to be fun and...
Understanding Sexual Breaks and Accelerators
One of the joys (and let’s be honest, terrors) of raising teenagers is teaching them how to drive. Sitting in the passenger seat is always an adventure—you never quite know when the car will suddenly brake or jerk forward without warning! It’s a lot like learning to...
203: Why Honesty, Risk, and some Fair Play Lead To Great Connection with Alyson Bullock
**SEXTEMBER STARTS ON SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 1. DOWNLOAD THE INTIMATELY US APP TO PARTICIPATE** My hope for you after listening to today's episode is you'll laugh a little, be inspired and gain some practical tools that you can use to improve communication about...
What Would Happen in 30 days if You Added More Seggs Into Your Diet?
A few years ago, I stumbled upon a book by Laura Corn titled The New American Sex Diet. Catchy, right? The concept grabbed my attention, and I couldn’t resist diving in. In this book, Laura and 38 couples of all ages and stages—some with kids, some without, some...
202: Fatherhood and Fidelity: Men on Keeping Marriage Alive
In the thick of raising children or building a career or juggling the many demands that life imposes on us, it's easy for couples to feel like relationship matters have been put to the side. You don't intend for this to happen, of course. It's easy for things to feel...
Women’s Only Small Group Coaching
Welcome! At Get Your Marriage On! our mission is to help you grow your capacity for deeper intimacy in your marriage. We specialize in helping couples enhance their fun, creativity, and connection in the bedroom. If you feel there's room for improvement in your...
Recording On The Calendar When You Have Sex
One year, before New Years Day, I printed out a year-at-a-glance calendar on a large format printer. I taped it up behind the door of our walk-in closet to where my wife and I would see it regularly. I stocked the nearby shelf with crayons and pens. Every day as we...
Sextember 2024: Your Sexiest September Ever
Imagine taking a month to focus on improving intimacy and sex within your marriage. September, aka "Sextember," is a great time of year to do it -- the kids are back to school, it's still warm at the end of summer, and it's still far from the busy holiday season. You...
201: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 2
This is part two of the podcast we released last Friday (#200). And if you haven't listened to that one, I highly recommend you pause this episode and go back and listen to #200 first. These two episodes are continuation of a project that I started a few months ago to...
5 Phases of Intimacy in Marriage
Over time, our relationship and marriage has evolved. Have you noticed this to be true for your own marriage? Just the other day I was thinking of how my spouse and I have passed through some of the different intimacy phases, which is what this email will introduce...
200: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 1
I've been looking forward to releasing this 200th episode for a long time, and I wanted it to be extra special. And while pondering that, a few months ago, a tragedy struck our family. My wife's cousin, a bubbly, happy 29-year-old mother to three kids (ages seven,...