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250: 10 Steps to Have the Hard Conversations You’ve Been Avoiding in Your Marriage
Let’s face it—if you're married, disagreements are inevitable. And sometimes, those disagreements feel like gridlock. That’s when it seems like there’s no win-win—only one of you can get what you want, and the other has to give in. It can feel like it’s either his way...
249: Quickie – Why your spouse avoids affection and what to do about it
Have you ever wondered why your spouse dodges your attempts at affection or how quickly he or she shuts down any of your affection attempts? Or how a simple kiss gets treated like you're asking for something much bigger? Well, in this episode I'm going to explain...
248: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 2
Welcome to Part 2 of my conversation with Tanya Hale! We talk about the pressure men feel around performance, why their penis can be such a vulnerable topic, and how couples can build a sexual relationship that's validating fun and deeply connecting, especially...
247: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 1
Male sexuality is just as complex and rich as female sexuality. I was recently invited to talk about what I wish women knew and understood about male sexuality on Tanya Hale's podcast, she's given me permission to share that with you here on my podcast. So on this...
246: Love Worth Making Part 2, with Dr. Stephen Snyder
Welcome to part two of my conversation with Dr. Steven Snyder! In part one, we explored why sex is more than just physical--it's deeply emotional, even regressive (meaning you kind of get a little dumber and a lot happier when you're aroused). And we discuss why the...
245: Love Worth Making Part 1, with Dr. Stephen Snyder
When it comes to sexual arousal, many of us reach for that excited, giddy, sometimes silly, sometimes serious, joyful, fulfilling feelings in the company of someone else that matters so much to us. And how do you create a marriage relationship where there's room for...
244: Q&A Sexual Fantasies
Let's be honest. Sexual fantasy is a weird part of being human. In this episode with my guest and fellow Get Your Marriage On coach, Amy Langford, we tackle real listener questions about sexual fantasy in marriage — the kind that stir up curiosity, shame, arousal, and...
Sex Equivalent Calculator
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243: Seven Sizzling Sexy Summer Date Ideas with Macey Walters from The Dating Divas
One pattern I've noticed about couples with great sex lives over the years is that they make time to be emotionally connected and make room for romance and fun in their marriage. A date night is a great way to do that and to make it easy, I've brought on a guest from...
242: Affair-proofing Your Marriage, with Andrea Giles
Are there lessons we can learn from those that have gone through marital infidelity and use those lessons to improve our marriages today? I personally haven't dealt with this, but I know of many people that have just experienced the great heartache and the trouble...
International Lovemaking Day 2025
Why is June 9 a special day?! ❤️ It's International Lovemaking Day!❤️ It's the birthday of Intimately Us! Want to join the fun? Why Celebrate International Lovemaking Day? Celebrate with us this year by being more intentionally passionate in your marriage! Your...
241: Higher Desire Wives Aren’t Alone, with J. Parker
One thing I've noticed about higher desire wives: they feel so lonely. They think they're the only wife on the plane that has the higher desire for sex. They often talk about how they hear about their other lady friends complain about how their husbands are always...
240: Faking Orgasms, Toys, Role of Porn, and Exploring More Intimacy In Marriage
https://youtu.be/t5b0x8wkiCQ In this episode, I'm getting specific with actionable tactics while answering questions about the following: how to grow closer together emotionally overcoming body image concerns as it relates to sex. why women fake orgasms enhancing...
239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
This episode is all about priming your mind and relationship for great sex. Years ago, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, who is my guest on this episode today, made her first appearance on my podcast, (and if you want to listen to it, it's episode number 50). What she taught...
238: 7 Candid Answers To Prepare You For A Thriving Sex Life
Perhaps you or other Christian couples you know struggled with their first experiences with sex early in their marriage, which lead to further struggles down the road. Many of these heartbreaking experiences could have been avoided or minimized if we just had a better...
Want a more intimate marriage? Start with this (scary) step…
Want to know one way to guarantee a more intimate relationship? But fair warning! It feels vulnerable doing it! It is to learn how to be more honest with our spouse. And I’m not talking about, “do these pants make me look fat” type situations. Most of us learned to...
237: Menopause Shouldn’t Suck, with Alisa DiLorenzo
Women's bodies and brains undergo large changes during puberty, childbirth and menopause. Just like how sexuality hasn't been talked about much in previous generations, at least not in a positive light, menopause also hasn't been a free topic of conversation. It...
Ready to Turn Up the Heat at Home? 🔥
On February 14th of this year, OpenAI relaxed its policies on explicit content generation in ChatGPT. This is a great step forward in using this incredible tool to help couples enhance their sexy play time! Today I want to show you five creative ways you can use...