Get Your Marriage On Blog
239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
This episode is all about priming your mind and relationship for great sex. Years ago, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, who is my guest on this episode today, made her first appearance on my podcast, (and if you want to listen to it, it's episode number 50). What she taught...
238: 7 Candid Answers To Prepare You For A Thriving Sex Life
Perhaps you or other Christian couples you know struggled with their first experiences with sex early in their marriage, which lead to further struggles down the road. Many of these heartbreaking experiences could have been avoided or minimized if we just had a better...
237: Menopause Shouldn’t Suck, with Alisa DiLorenzo
Women's bodies and brains undergo large changes during puberty, childbirth and menopause. Just like how sexuality hasn't been talked about much in previous generations, at least not in a positive light, menopause also hasn't been a free topic of conversation. It...
Ready to Turn Up the Heat at Home? 🔥
On February 14th of this year, OpenAI relaxed its policies on explicit content generation in ChatGPT. This is a great step forward in using this incredible tool to help couples enhance their sexy play time! Today I want to show you five creative ways you can use...
5 Creative Ways to use ChatGPT to Enhance your Sex Life (with prompts)
On February 14th of this year, OpenAI relaxed its policies on explicit content generation in ChatGPT. This is a great step forward in using this incredible tool to help couples enhance their sexy play time! Today I want to show you five creative ways you can use...
236: Your Adult Playground: Transforming Your Sex Life From Obligation to Desire
Today I want to talk to those who are in a marriage where sex pretty good but maybe a little monotonous at times. Maybe it feels like it's the same old, same old. You wanna kind of spice it up, but then there's other factors involved, including feeling...
Freedom: The Missing Ingredient in Your Marriage
Freedom is the key to intimacy. I had a client once who told me about an anniversary trip she took with her husband. It had all the ingredients of a perfect getaway—beautiful setting, a quiet dinner, laughter, reconnection. They hadn’t had time alone in months. But on...
235: Two Truths and a Lie: Marriage Edition, with Sheila and Keith Gregoire
Ever play the game "Two Truths and a Lie"? (A person makes three statements, and you guess which two are factual and which one is false.) Well, we get to play that game today on our episode with my guests Sheila Wray Gregoire and her husband Keith (return guests to...
Why Most Couples Can’t Talk About Sex—and How to Fix It
Many couples silently wrestle with desire gaps, fear, and the ache of emotional disconnect when something doesn’t land the way they hoped. A few years ago, my wife and I were driving home from a great date night. The conversation had been light, full of laughter, and...
234: Three Cringe-worthy Marriage & Intimacy Advice, According To A Therapist
Have you ever received really bad marriage advice? Today I have the privilege of interviewing Kendra Nielson, a fellow marriage coach and therapist. Together we address common pieces of marriage advice that often miss the mark, such as "Never go to bed angry,"...
Reigniting Intimacy Without the Exhaustion
If initiating intimacy has started to feel like more effort than excitement, you’re not alone. A lot of couples hit this phase—where one person feels like they’re always the one making the first move. It can be frustrating, even a little disheartening. But the good...
Sheets & Ladders 2.0
We launched Intimately Us, a mobile app designed especially for married couples, over four years ago. This app helps couples improve intimate playtime, as well as providing a way to record precious and intimate moments of connection in the app's private intimacy...
233: It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Your Marriage: A Sextimony
I love helping couples through Get Your Marriage On to help them through challenges, to overcome issues in intimacy, and to walk away with feeling like they have a brand new lease on their marriage and realizing how much joy and fun that a good sexual...
How to Handle Sexual Disagreements Without Hurting Your Marriage
Sexual desire is deeply connected to a sense of freedom and emotional safety. The moment sex starts feeling like an obligation, a power struggle, or a way to keep the peace in your marriage, it’s no surprise that desire begins to wane. A woman recently wrote to me...
232: Why So Many Marriages Struggle with Sex (And What to Do About It)
Just about every couple deals with libido differences from time to time. It seems though, as couples approach middle age and begin to face the second half of their life, the differences in sexual desire, which may have been a back burner issue in the marriage up until...
What Makes Oral Sex More Pleasurable? Women Weigh In!
We learned last year that about 78% of the ladies that follow us on Instagram say oral sex is part of their marriage. This is consistent with the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, an annual study performed by Indiana University. The same study also...
231: Learning to Love Your Body: A Story of Hope from a Boudoir Photographer
Everyone struggles with feelings of self-worth and self-acceptance from time to time. Our bodies are sacred; as the Bible says, we're created in God's image. Yet the enemy of our souls does what he can to discredit and devalue our worth, often by casting shade about...
March Madness 2025: Bedroom Edition
Let's Try Something New! In the years I've spent working with couples and interviewing guests for my podcasts, one consistent theme that stands out is that those that are willing to push themselves a little outside their comfort zone experience the most joy and...