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195: Are You a “Sexual Over-functioner?” with Dr. Kathleen Smith

195: Are You a “Sexual Over-functioner?” with Dr. Kathleen Smith

In many marriages, there are people that feel like they do far more than their share of the relationship work, but why do they tend to take on the responsibility of their spouse's share of the relationship, especially in stressful situations?   Intimate marriages are...

Struggling with Sexual Desire Differences? Discover a New Perspective.

Struggling with Sexual Desire Differences? Discover a New Perspective.

I’ve committed the last seven years and the foreseeable future to learning, teaching, and coaching about the biggest challenges to building a passionate, intimate marriage. Yesterday I had a call with a wonderful couple. I could tell right away they love each other!...

Moving Beyond Transactional Intimacy: A Journey to Genuine Connection

Moving Beyond Transactional Intimacy: A Journey to Genuine Connection

A couple I'm coaching privately recently shared a breakthrough moment with me. I’ll share their story, but first, let’s look at a pattern that you might find familiar. It involves managing each other to meet personal needs, which can be quite common in long-standing...

The Complementary Nature of Male and Female Sexuality

The Complementary Nature of Male and Female Sexuality

Male and female sexuality are different, but they complement each other in beautiful ways. I was standing in front of a group of 20 other couples, who had quickly become friends, at our last marriage retreat in March. It was the third day of the retreat, and I was...

9 out of 10 Men Agree This Makes It A Memorable Sexual Experience

9 out of 10 Men Agree This Makes It A Memorable Sexual Experience

A team of researchers conducted a study to explore what people report as their peak sexual experiences, aiming to find common patterns. They asked participants to recall and write about their best, most memorable, earth-shattering sexual encounters—the kinds that...

My #1 Tip For Keeping Your Marriage Hot This Summer 🌞❤️

My #1 Tip For Keeping Your Marriage Hot This Summer 🌞❤️

Summer is here (at least for those of us in the northern hemisphere!). School is out, and the kids, especially teenagers, are up late every night. Our regular routine is out of whack. We have travel planned and visitors coming to stay with us too. During these busy...

The Art of Slow: Rediscovering Beauty in Art and Intimacy

The Art of Slow: Rediscovering Beauty in Art and Intimacy

I recently came across a fascinating study that delves into the average time people spend looking at a piece of art in a famous museum. Can you guess how long that is? A mere 17 seconds. Surprising, isn't it? The Quick Glance vs. The Deep Gaze Considering that many...

 Let’s Play “Would You Rather: Bedroom Edition”

 Let’s Play “Would You Rather: Bedroom Edition”

My mission at Get Your Marriage On is to help you improve sex and intimacy in your marriage. Let’s have some fun today!!! Ready?? Let’s Play Would You Rather: Bedroom Edition! Ask your spouse these questions tonight. Would you rather…. Seduce me or be seduced by me?...

International Lovemaking Day Date Idea With FREE Printables!

International Lovemaking Day Date Idea With FREE Printables!

International Lovemaking Day is June 9th! We think this holiday is PHENOMENAL. Of course we love it here at Get Your Marriage On! because it is all about enjoying some time with your spouse. Because this day is so great, we decided to design a special date night for...

3 Sex Tips for International Lovemaking Day

3 Sex Tips for International Lovemaking Day

Today is international lovemaking day! Because it's 6/9, I decided to share on our podcast nine ideas to strengthen your sexual relationship. Here are my top 3 tips to help spice up your intimacy. Talk with your spouse about what you two can do to improve your...

69 Ways to Celebrate International Lovemaking Day

69 Ways to Celebrate International Lovemaking Day

June 9th (6/9) is a very special day around here! Not only is it our birthday here at Get Your Marriage On! it is also International Lovemaking Day! To help you celebrate this exciting day, we have put together a list of 69 ways to spend this day together with your...

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