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248: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 2

248: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 2

Welcome to Part 2 of my conversation with Tanya Hale!  We talk about the pressure men feel around performance, why their penis can be such a vulnerable topic, and how couples can build a sexual relationship that's validating fun and deeply connecting, especially...

247: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 1

247: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 1

Male sexuality is just as complex and rich as female sexuality. I was recently invited to talk about what I wish women knew and understood about male sexuality on Tanya Hale's podcast, she's given me permission to share that with you here on my podcast. So on this...

246: Love Worth Making Part 2, with Dr. Stephen Snyder

246: Love Worth Making Part 2, with Dr. Stephen Snyder

Welcome to part two of my conversation with Dr. Steven Snyder! In part one, we explored why sex is more than just physical--it's deeply emotional, even regressive (meaning you kind of get a little dumber and a lot happier when you're aroused). And we discuss why the...

246: Love Worth Making Part 2, with Dr. Stephen Snyder

245: Love Worth Making Part 1, with Dr. Stephen Snyder

When it comes to sexual arousal, many of us reach for that excited, giddy, sometimes silly, sometimes serious, joyful, fulfilling feelings in the company of someone else that matters so much to us. And how do you create a marriage relationship where there's room for...

244: Q&A Sexual Fantasies

244: Q&A Sexual Fantasies

Let's be honest. Sexual fantasy is a weird part of being human. In this episode with my guest and fellow Get Your Marriage On coach, Amy Langford, we tackle real listener questions about sexual fantasy in marriage — the kind that stir up curiosity, shame, arousal, and...

Sex Equivalent Calculator

Sex Equivalent Calculator

🔥 Sexy Comparison Calculator 🔥 Discover the wild truth about your intimate life through fun, relatable comparisons 😉 How many times do you have sex: Time period: Per Week Per Month Per Year {{ currentResult.icon }} {{ currentResult.title }} {{ currentResult.value }}...

242: Affair-proofing Your Marriage, with Andrea Giles

242: Affair-proofing Your Marriage, with Andrea Giles

Are there lessons we can learn from those that have gone through marital infidelity and use those lessons to improve our marriages today? I personally haven't dealt with this, but I know of many people that have just experienced the great heartache and the trouble...

International Lovemaking Day 2025

International Lovemaking Day 2025

Why is June 9 a special day?! ❤️ It's International Lovemaking Day!❤️ It's the birthday of Intimately Us! Want to join the fun? Why Celebrate International Lovemaking Day? Celebrate with us this year by being more intentionally passionate in your marriage! Your...

241: Higher Desire Wives Aren’t Alone, with J. Parker

241: Higher Desire Wives Aren’t Alone, with J. Parker

One thing I've noticed about higher desire wives: they feel so lonely. They think they're the only wife on the plane that has the higher desire for sex. They often talk about how they hear about their other lady friends complain about how their husbands are always...

239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

This episode is all about priming your mind and relationship for great sex.  Years ago, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, who is my guest on this episode today, made her first appearance on my podcast, (and if you want to listen to it, it's episode number 50). What she taught...

238: 7 Candid Answers To Prepare You For A Thriving Sex Life

238: 7 Candid Answers To Prepare You For A Thriving Sex Life

Perhaps you or other Christian couples you know struggled with their first experiences with sex early in their marriage, which lead to further struggles down the road. Many of these heartbreaking experiences could have been avoided or minimized if we just had a better...

Want a more intimate marriage? Start with this (scary) step…

Want a more intimate marriage? Start with this (scary) step…

Want to know one way to guarantee a more intimate relationship? But fair warning! It feels vulnerable doing it! It is to learn how to be more honest with our spouse. And I’m not talking about, “do these pants make me look fat” type situations. Most of us learned to...

237: Menopause Shouldn’t Suck, with Alisa DiLorenzo

237: Menopause Shouldn’t Suck, with Alisa DiLorenzo

Women's bodies and brains undergo large changes during puberty, childbirth and menopause. Just like how sexuality hasn't been talked about much in previous generations, at least not in a positive light, menopause also hasn't been a free topic of conversation.  It...

Ready to Turn Up the Heat at Home? 🔥

Ready to Turn Up the Heat at Home? 🔥

On February 14th of this year, OpenAI relaxed its policies on explicit content generation in ChatGPT. This is a great step forward in using this incredible tool to help couples enhance their sexy play time! Today I want to show you five creative ways you can use...

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