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216: Is Wanting Sex Selfish, Dissatisfied by Erectile Dysfunction, Wife’s Secret Erotica, and Dildos – Q&A Part 2
Today is a continuation of last week's question and answer episode, and I am so thankful for all the courageous couples who reached out with their questions. Here's what we discuss in this episode: A husband wondering about using dildos and double penetration and...
What’s on Your Sensual Menu?
Today’s Hump Day Newsletter is serving up something special: a “menu” of sensual options designed to spice up your next date night with your spouse. Just like food nourishes the body, sexual moments nourish your marital connection—and turning them into a “menu” adds a...
215: Sex After Porn, Premature Ejaculation, Discomfort Beyond Missionary Position, Wanting To Be Desired – Q&A Part 1
It's time to answer some more questions from our listeners! Today I'm joined by my colleague, Caroline, to discuss some of the questions that you have. We cover the following topics: A husband who's struggling to connect emotionally with his wife, and he wants to...
A Laundry Night to Remember!
Imagine this: it’s Wednesday night. The kids are finally tucked in, yet there’s still a list of chores calling your name. Instead of letting it drag you down, why not turn the evening chores into an unexpected, spicy moment with your spouse? Invite your partner...
214: When Wives Have The Higher Sexual Desire
Broadly speaking, men are generally more interested in sex than women. However, there are exceptions. Some estimate that 20 to 30% of married couples are in marriages where the wife is the one with actually the higher libido or the higher sex drive. However you want...
Get it On-a-thon: Get Frisky for Fertility!
We’re thrilled to announce the Get it On-a-thon—a playful, heartfelt fundraiser to support couples facing the challenges of infertility. Here’s how it works For every time you and your spouse get intimate this December, pledge a dollar amount to the Faithful...
Top Black Friday Deals for a Better Love Life!
Couples don’t need more robes and ties and gadgets, they need products and services to enhance and support their most important and longest lasting investment–their relationship! And with the overwhelming amount of Black Friday and holiday deals all over the...
How to Rewrite Negative Sexual Scripts
The thoughts we repeatedly entertain form into stories. The stories we tell ourselves form the basis of our beliefs. However, sometimes our beliefs don’t particularly serve us or are based on true principles. The ability to rewrite your thoughts,...
213: Does Sex Therapy Actually Work for Libido Differences? The Shocking Research Results!
Sexual desire differences are, unfortunately, very common. In fact, it's one of the top reasons why couples seek sex therapy or any kind of help in their marriage. It's really painful to be in a relationship where your spouse doesn't desire you the same way you desire...
What Can I Say Yes To?
I believe we need stronger marriages now in this world more than ever! I also believe, and a lot of research supports this[1], that the fastest way to strengthen a marriage is by improving the sexual connection. In saying that, I recognize that what constitutes...
212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To with Sofia Ashley
There's a lot of stress in parenthood that presses on the couple's relationship, which Emily and I know firsthand as parents to 6 children. And I know that maintaining intimacy and being lovers while also being parents is a challenge many of us face, which is why I'm...
Want to feel more connected during the act? Try this
Today’s intimacy tip is about how to feel more connected to your spouse while making love. Have you ever wolfed down a meal so quickly that you barely tasted it? You’re so focused on getting food into your stomach that you miss out on savoring it! Sometimes,...
Emotional Connection Requires a Safe Space
Emotional connection is the foundation of a deeply intimate & satisfying sexual relationship.During our Couples Retreat two weeks ago, we devoted an evening this vital topic of how to connect emotionally. One couple shared that learning how to connect emotionally...
211: Sexual Dry Spells: When Safety Kills Passion
The holidays are coming up, and this is often a stressful time for a lot of couples. The stress and busyness can often lead couples to fall into dry spells in their sex life. And Emily and I are not immune to those dry spells either. So whether you're in a dry spell...
Emotional Connection Requires a Safe Space- How Do You Make One?
Emotional connection is the foundation of a deeply intimate marriage. During our Couples Retreat two weeks ago, we explored this vital topic, and one couple shared that learning how to connect emotionally made the entire retreat worth it. But why is emotional...
210: The G-Spot Guide: How to Stimulate, Explore, and Enjoy Together!
In this exciting episode, you'll learn how to stimulate the "g-spot" and how to have more fun in your bedroom by learning how to work with this beautiful aspect of female pleasure and orgasm. Join us as my guest, Tilly Storm, a sex coach for women, teaches about...
How Often Do Couples Really Have Sex?
A question that comes up frequently in our private Facebook group is: “How often does the average couple have sex?” It's natural to wonder how your sex life compares to others. We’re curious beings, and let’s face it—comparison is part of human...
209: Stop Trying to Change Your Marriage. Let Your Marriage Change You Instead.
There's definitely a spiritual element to developing an intimate marriage. For example, in order to have really good sex or really deep emotional connection with someone, it requires you to be more honest, true chaste, benevolent, and in short, to do good to your...