a stronger, more intimate marriage is possible.
The program for individuals that want more emotional closeness and fulfilling sexual connection!
Do you two want different things when it comes to sex and intimacy?
In 90 days, you'll stop going in circles and start building the sex life and the emotional closeness you both want. And not by one of you giving in!
By the end of 90 days, you will:
- Feel steadier in yourself, so your spouse's mood doesn't decide yours
- Feel emotionally close again: understood, appreciated, and wanted
- Talk about sex and your desires without it turning into a fight or a cold shoulder
- Break the cycle of pressure on one side and obligation on the other
- Enjoy sex that's more consistent, connecting, and satisfying for both of you
You can't compromise your way to a great intimate marriage.
Every piece of advice you've been handed says the same thing: meet in the middle. Find the overlap. Want the same things.
So you've spent years shrinking the gap between you, making it hard to bring up things that you think might upset your spouse. It's hard to know where the right boundary between you is.
As a result, the marriage feels routine, boring, and lacks the spark it once had.
Your differences aren't the problem. What you do with the differences is where your power lies.
Two people who want different things in a marriage don't need to negotiate a settlement.
Rather, they need to become the kind of people who can collaborate honestly, cleanly advocate for what they want in the marriage, be open to their spouse's points of view, and stay steady when the other person wants something else.
Our program's approach isn't giving you new negotiation techniques. Instead, we focus on your personal growth in ways that matter.
You get an intimate marriage by growing into someone your spouse wants to collaborate with.
What changed in 90 days
"We can actually talk about it now without it turning into a fight."
"I've been in therapy for over a decade, but this actually works."
"We both thought she was broken. She isn't."
“From good to great”
Keith & Lindsey — married 15 years
How it works
1
See the Dance
You can’t fix what you can’t see. Every stuck marriage is running a pattern. Our expert relationship coaches work with you to show you yours.
2
Change Your Steps
This is where meaningful progress takes fruit. We show you your half of the old pattern, and teach you new steps.
3
Sex Like You Mean It
Our program takes things a step further: intimacy that’s life-giving, free, present, wanted, unhurried, and actually fun! This is reason you came here.
What's Included
- Work privately with a certified professional marriage and intimacy coach matched to you.
- Six private coaching sessions, about two weeks apart, over 90 days.
- Support between sessions through weekly group coaching calls. Anonymous questions are welcome.
- The Get Your Marriage On Course - 40 video modules, plus a workbook
- Digital AI Coach trained on our methodology for quick answers 24/7
Also included: a private community, including men's- and women's-only groups; access to 28 workshops addressing specific topics related to sexual intimacy, After Dark seminar recordings, and private podcast access.
Start with whichever one of you is ready. Your spouse can join you later, or start together.
This program is not just about sex. It's about building a stronger intimate connection - both sexually, emotionally, and spiritually.
Money-back guarantee: after your first 3 sessions, and doing the work the coach assigns you, if you don't think our process is working for you, we'll refund every penny.
For you & your spouse!
What it costs
$1,497
Or three monthly payments of $547
Your next step: Book a connection call. The call isn't a sales pitch, it's to find out whether we can actually help you. If we can't, we'll say so.
Fill out the form below to book a connection call
Money Back Guarantee:
Commit to the process, do the work your coach assigns you. If after three sessions you don't think our process is working for you, we'll issue you a full refund within seven days of your third session. Results will vary on individual efforts and external factors. Individual success is not guaranteed.
"What if my spouse isn't on board?"
Our approach for individuals as well as couples. Why not go first?
A marriage is a system. When one person changes their dance steps, the other person adapts. It's not just a theory, it's the most common story we hear.
You don't need your spouse's permission to grow. Whether you join alone or together, your spouse also gets full access to the course, group calls, and materials. Your spouse can jump in whenever he or she feels ready.
If you'd still like your spouse to join you, we wrote a little something you can send them: (click the Plus button below)
For the spouse who didn't ask for this
Hi Sweetheart,
I love you. I want us to join the Next Level Intimacy program at Get Your Marriage On. Hearing this is probably uncomfortable for you to receive, but I want to be clear: this isn't a program about fixing you.
If I've made you to feel like you're the problem with emotional or sexual intimacy in our marriage, I'm sorry - and I'm learning that feeling that way is completely normal. This isn't to excuse it, but this is the natural process of two committed people that want different things. It doesn't mean we're broken.
This program is different from everything else out there. First of all, it's led by certified professional marriage coaches with extensive training. We get paired with a coach that fits us, and the coach will work with us privately.
The program is 90 days long and works around our busy schedule.
There's also weekly group calls - even Men's and Women's Only calls, so we get the help and support we need in between sessions.
The program also comes with an extensive course about marriage relationships and intimacy, and an accompanying workbook.
You will not be pressured to join me — not by me, and not by the coach. A strong, vibrant, intimate marriage with you means a lot to me and I think this affordable program is exactly what we need. There's even a money-back guarantee.
I love you and I want to be better for you, and you for me, and for our children. Let's take this next step together!
XOXO,
Your name
Who this is for
— and who it isn't
This is a fit if:
- You're married
- You want sex and intimacy to get better
- You're willing receive expert guidance
This isn't a fit if:
- You're looking for quick fixes without the inner work
- You're on the brink of divorce or separation
- You want us to fix your spouse and not look at yourself
We approach topics relating to sexuality and marriage from a Christian worldview. Couples of every faith background are welcome, and members describe the work as faith-affirming rather than preachy.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my spouse won't participate?
Go first. Our program accommodates those seeking help alone or as a couple.
This works because a marriage is a system — when one person genuinely changes, the other feels it. Your spouse gets full access, free, whenever they’re ready. Nobody gets pressured.
How is coaching different from therapy?
Our certified professional marriage coaches receive their training alongside therapists. Our coaches are very qualified to work with married individuals to overcome relationship challenges.
The difference between coaching and therapy is focus: therapy works on healing what’s broken, coaching works on what you do next. As coaches, we don’t diagnose or treat mental health conditions — when that’s what’s needed we’ll refer you to someone who does, and we’re glad to work alongside them.
How much time does this take each week?
Your private coaching sessions with your matched coach will work around your schedule.
Outside of coaching sessions, plan on two to three hours per week.
How fast will we see results?
Most couples notice something shifting in four to six weeks and see the full change within 90 days. The couples who get there are the ones who come prepared for their private coaching sessions, work through the course modules, do the at-home assignments, and take courageous steps in applying new ways of being in their relationship.
I'm a very private person — how confidential is this?
Our team recognizes the sensitive and vulnerable nature of this work, and we take privacy and confidentiality seriously and with great care.
All private coaching sessions are strictly confidential between you and your certified professional marriage and intimacy coach.
If you desire to participate in our weekly group calls, you can stay as anonymous as you like. You never have to be on camera or on mic in a group session — observing is completely normal.
What happens on the connection call?
Connection calls are about 30 minutes with a member of our team. You tell us what’s going on and your goals, we tell you honestly whether we can help. If we’re not the right fit we’ll say so and point you somewhere better. No pitch, no pressure.
If you are a good fit, we will match you with one of our certified professional marriage and intimacy coaches on our team and book your first session.
*Disclaimer: Results will vary on individual efforts and external factors. Individual successes are not guaranteed and are influenced by abilities and other external factors. This program, including any hypothetical scenarios described, is provided for informational and illustrative purposes only and does not constitute professional advice.
Although our coaches have the same training as Marriage and Family Therapists, we do not practice therapy. We do not diagnose or treat mental illness or deep emotional issues. Coaching places significantly more personal responsibility on the client, and a certain minimum level of functioning is required to be a good fit for coaching. We assume no responsibility for decisions made or actions taken based on the content on this website. Always consult with qualified professionals before making significant relationship or mental health decisions.
Meet Your Coaches
Dan Purcell
Dan holds a Master’s Degree in Counseling and coaches couples on solutions to improve sex and intimacy in their marriages. He’s also the founder of Get Your Marriage On, a podcast host with over three million downloads, and the creator of several marriage apps.
Tammy
Tammy specializes in helping women overcome “Good Girl” syndrome as well as helping men gain skills in intimacy with their wives. She has a passion for helping others learn how to really see what a healthy, intimate relationship looks like as she continues to learn and grow in her own relationship.
You've been carrying this alone long enough.
One conversation. Thirty minutes.
We’ll tell you honestly whether we can help.