Anatomy of Arousal:
A Virtual Intimacy Getaway
Say Goodbye To Routine Sexual Intimacy.
Say hello to passion, fun, and aliveness! Take sexual intimacy in your marriage to the next level by mastering the three keys to high arousal in your marriage!
Join us virtually for a refreshing, sexy, and inspiring 2-day getaway, where we do a deep dive into the anatomy of arousal in your marriage.
What YOU GET
Join us from home or your hotel for a weekend to strengthen your marriage & sexual intimacy!
Three Sessions. Two Days. One amazing experience!
Here’s what’s included:
- Three in-depth sessions, taught live over Zoom Webinar, discussing the three paths to high arousal in committed, long-term relationships ($250 per session x 3 = $450 value)
- Detailed workbook with instructions for sexy homework ($29 value)
- Live Q & A with Dan & Emily after each session ($350 value)
- 90 Day Video Replay Access. If you can’t join us live, schedule another weekend at your convenience! ($120 value)
Plus these 5 BONUSES
- #1 – The Sexploration List – 250+ conversation starters and intimate activity ideas ($19.99)
- #2 – Romantic Movie Recommendations – Our curated list of 10 films that enhance emotional connection ($9.99)
- #3 – Lap Dance Tutorial & Music Playlist – Heat things up with a custom choreographed lap dance tutorial. PLUS 21 songs with different moods and tempos ($85)
- #4 – Detailed Role-play Scenario – with For His Eyes Only and For Her Eyes Only sections from Faithful Fling. Great for beginners to advanced couples. ($15)
- #5 – The After Dark Role-play Workshop – Try on new roles and enhance arousal ($19.99)
What You'll Learn
What to look forward to
Session One, Friday Evening
Emotional & Relationship Foundations
You’ll learn how emotional connection in your marriage can turn both of you on.
Research shows sexual arousal comes from a combination of three areas:
- Relational arousal – closeness and emotional connection
- Physical arousal – from pleasurable touch, and
- Psychological arousal – harnessing your creative imagination.
In this transformative getaway for married couples, we’ll guide you in discovering arousal in exciting ways.
You will be guided in an exercise that will help you the joys of a deep, emotional connection with your spouse, followed by a Q&A Session.
You’ll then be given sexy homework so that you can continue to discover and practice overnight and prepare for our second session, 14 hours later.
Session Two, Saturday Morning
Physical Arousal & G-spot Play
For too many of us, sex is often rushed. In this session, we’ll guide you to slow down and build physical arousal through intimate touch.
We’ll take special emphasis on the women’s G-spot, an under-utilized zone of pleasure, nuance, and passion.
You’ll end the session with specific exercises and sexy homework to try at your leisure. (psst: you may want to grab an extra towel).
Session Three, Saturday Evening
Psychological Arousal & Role-play
Too many couples underutilize their largest sex organ: their brain!
In this final session we’ll be teaching you ideas on how to harness your creative power to build arousal. You’ll be introduced to a sexy and fun lap dance (for husbands and wives!).
You will also receive sexy homework, including an opportunity to try on roles to stoke your creative juices and high arousal.
We’ll finish the evening with Q&A.
You’ll then have the rest of the evening and next morning to practice what you learned about each other this weekend!
Lap Dance Tutorial Inluded
Learn a fun & easy-to-follow lap dance, designed to enhance your romantic and erotic connection as a couple!
You’ll also get a playlist with 21+ songs you can use to set the mood.
Suitable for all ages and body types. Make your virtual getaway flirty and fun!
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Let's Get YOUR Marriage On!
Join us to strengthen your marriage & sexual intimacy!
Three Sessions. Two Nights. One amazing experience!
Join from home or a hotel room. Itinerary, workbook, and packing list included!
This event is perfect for couples who...
Want to better understand how to touch your spouse and discover how you like to be touched.
Want to make this Sextember especially meaningful.
Crave more sexual aliveness in your relationship.
Want to learn a sexy lap dance routine for connection and play
Want to feel more passionate, orgasmic, alive, and fulfilled in your marriage.
Want the fun and connection of a traditional couples retreat for a fraction of the cost.
About The Virtual Getaway
Who
Married couples that would like to explore a deeper sexual connection, exciting arousal, and more passion in a private and safe setting, regardless of how long they have been married.
When
September 26-27, 2025
or
Another weekend of your choice within 90 days
Where
Online. At your home or hotel! You’ll join us LIVE via Zoom Webinar (you will not be on camera)
What
Join us for these three, 45 to 60 minute instruction sessions over the weekend, plus Q&A with Dan & Emily
How
You and your spouse are to set aside 48 hours where you can be alone without interruption. You can stay at a hotel in your town, travel to a new destination, or send kids away to Grandma’s house for the weekend.
On Friday night at 7pm Mountain Time, you’ll tune in to our first session over a Zoom webinar. You will not be on camera, but can interact with us via Q&A chat during the session.
On Saturday morning at 10am we’ll host our second session.
We’ll conclude Saturday night at 7pm with our final session together.
Cost
$169 per couple (early bird pricing)
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A Perfect Weekend Together
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Learn the anatomy of arousal for your marriage
- Private -- join from home or hotel
- Convenient - Join us live or another weekend of your choice
- Expert Instruction & Personalized Guidance
- 💃 Lap Dance Tutorial
- G-spot Play & Pleasure
- Role-play Scripts
- Sexploration List
- Deep conversations & romance
- Live Q&A
- Stronger, more passionate marriage
Meet Your Virtual Getaway Host
Frequently Asked Questions
We can’t make it live. Can we still participate?
Yes! Register anyway and you’ll receive the video replays plus the workbook. The recordings are available for up to 30 days. You can then schedule your own retreat and use the replay to guide you along!
We’re meeting over Zoom. Will I be on camera?
No, you will not be on camera. This is presented as a webinar format where you see the presenters but the presenters don’t see you. You can still interact, if you want, through a Q&A chat. We respect your privacy.
How long is each session?
Each engaging and interactive session has about 45-60 minutes of content and instruction. We will then stay on afterwards as long as you like for Q&A after each session.
If I have a question, can I ask it anonymously?
Yes. Our retreat set up includes the ability for you to ask questions and interact with us anonymously.
Will there be nudity or live demonstrations?
No, there will be no nudity or live demonstrations, however, some of the handouts and slides will include tastefully drawn illustrations and diagrams to be helpful.
Do I need to be a Christian to attend?
Although the content is taught from a Christian perspective, people of all faiths are welcome to attend. This isn’t a religious event (no bible verses or public prayer is planned).
That being said, all content is research-based and is in line with our values: that sex is a gift from God, is incredible and has a lot of depth, can be very bonding, nourishing, creative, and fun, and is best expressed in the commitment and covenant of marriage.
Who Are The Presenters?
Dan and Emily Purcell, the founders of Get Your Marriage On! Dan is a marriage and intimacy coach and the host of the Get Your Marriage On Podcast (with over 1.3 million downloads). Together, Dan and Emily are the creators of the Intimately Us app which has been downloaded over 750,000 times. Together, they’ve hosted and taught at many retreats and conferences. Dan coaches couples and individuals through the Next Level! program. Dan and Emily have been married for over 21 years and have six children.
Do I need to schedule 48 hours alone with my spouse?
The magic of this retreat is having alone time with your spouse. You’ll want to be free from distractions to focus on each other. We recommend 48 hours (two nights) so that you have plenty of time to relax and connect, and practice the exercises taught in our three sessions.
You can find a hotel to be alone, or you can do it at home. If you do it at home and have children, it would be a good idea to find a friend or family member to care for your children or schedule a sleepover for your children.
What’s your suggested itinerary for the retreat?
We suggest you check in to your hotel (or drop off your children at your relatives) in the late afternoon or early evening on Friday. Plan on a romantic dinner together before our first session begins Friday night.
You’re welcome to sleep in or exercise together the next morning. After breakfast, be prepared for our second session.
Schedule some time out of the hotel or home Saturday afternoon doing something you both enjoy – a hike, swimming, shopping, etc. Maybe schedule an afternoon nap together. Enjoy a nice meal and be prepared for our final session Saturday night.
What do I get when I sign up?
When you sign up, you’ll immediately receive an email with instructions for how to join and participate in the retreat. A few days before the retreat begins, you’ll receive an email with an in-depth workbook and other instructions.
What’s in the Retreat Kit?
You can optionally purchase a Next Level Loving Retreat Kit from EveryLove Intimates that includes lubricant, lingerie, massage oil, and other surprises to enhance your weekend together!
Can I get the recording?
Yes, our sessions will be recorded and access to the replay will be available for 30 days following the retreat.
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