Choosing to See The Beautiful

Choosing to See The Beautiful

When you look at your spouse, what do you see? Do you see the messes they make and haven’t bothered yet to clean up? Or do you see the tender way in which they take care of your children? Do you let the clothes on the floor get the best of you, or appreciate the hard...
It’s All About The Positivity, Baby!

It’s All About The Positivity, Baby!

In Seattle, there’s a “Love Lab”. The Love Lab is a lot like what you’d expect for a nice nightly rental condo: a stocked kitchen, comfortable room, and cozy bedroom. Except for the cameras and microphones everywhere recording your every...
The Micro-moments that make a Mega Difference

The Micro-moments that make a Mega Difference

I’m often asked what things I’ve learned that people can do to improve the communication in their marriage. That’s like asking a chef how you can improve your home cooking. It’s hard to know how you can improve your communication without a lot of context, but I’d like...