146: Female Orgasm, Premature Ejaculation, and Why It’s So Hard To Be a Higher Desire Spouse – Q&A

by | Aug 4, 2023 | General Posts, Podcast

I have to say, Wow! I invited my listeners and readers to submit anonymous questions to me, and I’ve been blown away by the response. You have all asked some great questions! So this episode will be another session answering some of those questions that you’ve asked. Each day, the questions accumulate, and I don’t think I’ll ever be able to answer all of them on this podcast or my email newsletter, though I will do my best to be consistent on all those platforms. However, I would recommend that if you really desire to get your marriage and sex questions answered and get some help moving forward to moving that needle in your relationship, that you give my next level coaching program a try.

In this episode we discuss the following:

  • What a husband should do to help his wife who hasn’t been able to orgasm
  • What a wife can do to help herself orgasm more often and enjoy the sexual experience with her husband more.
  • A husband struggles with his self esteem because of his premature ejaculation.
  • Different definitions of sex and getting over the idea that women “should” climax with penetration.
  • How to deal with the affects of antidepressants on a sexual relationship.
  • Why it’s hard to be a higher desire spouse (but not necessarily a bad thing)

And here’s some more info I think you’d like to know:

In Next Level, which is a coaching program, not only are your questions answered, but we’re there with you every step of the way to help you build a more intimate and joyful marriage. And as you participate, you also get the support and help from others that are on the same journey as you, and as you find answers to your own questions, you can watch and listen to others being coached as well.

I’m a big believer in marriage coaching, by the way (if you can’t tell)! Coaching helps you get unstuck, gain more awareness of your thoughts and mindsets, and helps you find more balance in your relationship so that you can take courageous action when needed. Coaching can kickstart more desire and playful eroticism in your intimate marriage as well.

If you’d like to experience coaching, to see how it works, I’m offering a free coaching session on September 1st. Sign up here!

On August 16, I’ll be hosting a workshop all about navigating differences in sexual desire. This is probably the most common issue couples have in their sexual relationship. So we’ll be diving deep into how and why sexual differences happen and solutions for couples to overcome those differences and create greater connection and intimacy in the relationship.

I don’t know if you’ve heard, but we recently published a new digital product called the Ultimate Guide to Pleasing Your Husband, which is a companion to our previously published Ultimate Guide to Pleasing Your Wife. We also have several other guides and products on our website.

Lastly, as you make plans for the fall, why not schedule a weekend away for just the two of you? Better yet, why not make your getaway even more meaningful by attending our marriage retreat coming up in October in the Dallas Fort worth Texas area? These retreats are in depth and designed to challenge you as a couple while balancing it with fun and romance.

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<h3>Dan Purcell</h3>

Dan Purcell

Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! They are on a mission to strengthen marriages by making lovemaking incredibly fun and deeply connecting. Dan is a sex coach. They are also the creators of the popular Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps that have been downloaded over 750,000 times. They are the host of the popular Get Your Marriage On! podcast with over 1 million listens. In addition to their coaching program, they host romantic retreat getaways for couples, and put on workshops on how to have a great sex life and deeper intimacy.Dan and Emily met in middle school and have been married for over 20 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St George home.

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