We help couples significantly improve sex and intimacy in their marriage.
Hi there,
We’re Dan & Emily
We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On!
Welcome! If you landed on this website, you‘re probably married and looking for ways to keep sex passionate and exciting while also drawing closer to your spouse! Our mission is to help couples improve sex and intimacy in their marriage. We help you:
- overcome your obstacles
- spice things up (without the yuck)
- gain new intimacy skills
so that you achieve your marriage goals.
We Transformed our Marriage & You Can Too
For many years, we struggled with just about every common concern – mismatched desire, infertility, sexual dysfunction, inability to orgasm, or find sex pleasurable.
Because the topic of sex is so taboo in our culture, we didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.
After 13 years of marriage we decided enough was enough and started to address our concerns. The transformation we experienced in our relationship was so profound that we knew we had to help others get their marriage on too!
A Proven, Step-by-Step Program Towards Deeper Intimacy
Our signature, step-by-step program guaranteed to transform your sex life and build deeper intimacy than ever. Hundreds of couples have benefited from this program!
Free Resources
New here? Here are our 3 top free resources!
1
Intimately Us App
The fun and sexy app full of bedroom games and intimacy-building activities designed to bust bedroom boredom and bond couples.
2
Spice Up Marriage
In this guide we offer you 101 Ways to spice up your marriage and sex life!
3
Mismatched Sex Drives?
Learn how to fix the libido gap in your marriage without therapy or pressure.
“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has done for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds.”
The #1 Podcast
To Upgrade Intimacy
It’s challenging to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun.
It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values.
Top Five Episodes
#153
How a sexy bedroom game took our sex life to the next level
#157
Seven Ways to Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY
#100
Black Belt Sex Tips 2.0
#161
Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex
#116
Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives
Next Couples Retreat
March 2026
Join us for an exciting and romantic 4-day, 4-night Marriage, Sex and Intimacy retreat.
Our Blog
Learn how to improve intimacy in your marriage.
The Naughty Surprise
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Our First Time – A Word Blank Game
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244: Q&A Sexual Fantasies
Let's be honest. Sexual fantasy is a weird part of being human. In this episode with my guest and fellow Get Your Marriage On coach, Amy Langford, we tackle real listener questions about sexual fantasy in marriage — the kind that stir up curiosity, shame, arousal, and...
Sex Equivalent Calculator
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243: Seven Sizzling Sexy Summer Date Ideas with Macey Walters from The Dating Divas
One pattern I've noticed about couples with great sex lives over the years is that they make time to be emotionally connected and make room for romance and fun in their marriage. A date night is a great way to do that and to make it easy, I've brought on a guest from...
242: Affair-proofing Your Marriage, with Andrea Giles
Are there lessons we can learn from those that have gone through marital infidelity and use those lessons to improve our marriages today? I personally haven't dealt with this, but I know of many people that have just experienced the great heartache and the trouble...