Men’s Intimacy & Desire Coaching Program

Take your Intimate Relationship to the Next Level

I help husbands enjoy deeper intimacy and amazing sex lives in their marriage.

I have great news for you.

You can be the catalyst to a deeply satisfying relationship, even if you’re the only one working on your marriage. It all starts with you. 

Who This is for:

People in otherwise happy marriages but feel stuck when it comes to sex & intimacy

Husbands that are tired of begging for sex and settling for crumbs

Men that want to feel strong, attractive, and desired by their wives

Men looking for Faith-based and God-honoring instruction

Husbands looking to give their wives more sexual pleasure and connection

Individuals seeking a fun, upbeat, and safe environment to talk about sex and marriage

Empower your relationship and your life. 


I loved this program! Along with connecting with other men regarding sexuality and learning that my concerns are far from unique, working with Dan helped me to realize that my libido is not something to be ashamed of or frustrated with. I’ve learned that my strong sexuality desire can be directed to strengthen my marriage. 


I really enjoyed going through Dan’s course and getting to know the other guy’s in the group. It was great to connect with others going through similar things. I signed up for the course because I felt the lists of “who this course is for” described my situation perfectly. Dan covered a lot of very helpful material. This material would be helpful in a lot of stages of marriage – I just wish I would have discovered sooner. I really learned to focus on what I can control and build from there. I am excited about where my marriage and sex life will go from here.


Dan, you have been such a great coach and you truly live what you teach. It’s been nearly a year since I began working with you. It’s been one of the best years of my life. Thank you. 


Our sex life was stuck. We had taken some marriage counseling and knocked down barriers that we had both erected with each other.
But I was still feeling a lack in the bedroom. I had downloaded the Intimately Us app and enjoyed going through it, when I got an invite to Dan’s Loving Her Sexually coaching program. My wife was supportive of my participation so I jumped in.
She followed along in the background and appreciated what I was learning. The content was practical and very helpful. Our Zoom group was great – we could participate freely, and listen and learn in a safe setting.
I recommend it to any man wanting to step up sexually with his wife. Stage 3 sex is a worthy goal and this coaching program will help you achieve that. I learned so much. I just wish I had learned 20 years ago.


I was able to learn a great deal about myself and how my actions and inactions were impacting the way I view myself and my marriage. For anyone who is in a relationship and looking to invest in yourself and your relationship or has recently ended a long term relationship and wants to improve their future I would recommend attending the coaching group as you are able to do these things among the midst of other men from the viewpoint of a faith centric worldview. 


This coaching program helped me at a critical time in my marriage. More than anything it helped me understand myself better. It shed light on the pitfalls in my behaviors and patterns that lead to disappointment or harbored anxieties.

Beyond being able to recognize those, the coaching provided resources and ways to overcome, to change, and to grow into something better. When I applied the things that were taught, I saw great positive growth not only in myself, but more importantly my relationship with my wife.

Beyond a “top ten moves” list, the coaching provided me with tools and skills to create lasting, meaningful, and exciting experiences that I can enjoy for the rest of my marriage. Dan is a very knowledgeable teacher, and extremely approachable and generous with his time. He is invested in the success of his students, which is something I felt on a personal level each week.


I honestly didn’t know what to expect when I started this coaching program with Dan and Get Your Marriage On.  I was a little hesitant about being willing to open up and share personal information, but I found a safe place to be vulnerable with a group of guys that provided support and encouragement on this journey.  The information and tips that Dan shared were top notch with practical applications.


I highly recommend taking Dan’s Male Sexuality coaching program. I have been on a journey the last two and a half years trying to better understand my own sexuality. Many of the things I have learned over the past two and and half years were taught in his coaching program in just a few months. Through the material taught you can become stronger in your self development, relationship development and  truly learn to love through your sexuality.


I went through this coaching program and think it is great.  Tons of material to digest, and a very different spin on than most other things I’ve read, listened to, or taken part in. Very positive. The focus right off the bat is taking responsibility for your impact on your relationship and focusing on what you can control (yourself). Also very interesting to zoom weekly with Dan and a group of men from all over the country.  All signed up for the course because they were on board with the goals, and so strangers quickly opened up and became friends.

What You Get:

Weekly 60-90 minute confidential group coaching for 12 weeks, 

then Monthly coaching for 9 months thereafter


Exclusive & private podcast feed for all program audio

Private message group to help you apply what you’re learning during and after the program

1 Year Access to videos, audio recordings and coaching sessions

Included Bonuses:

Your wife gets access to a Women’s Only group ($599 value)

Accompanying course with approx. 8 hours video content + 80 page workbook mailed to you ($499 value)

A 1:1 private coaching session for any time during the 12 weeks ($250 value)

Access to Next Level membership program for you and your spouse for 1 year afterwards ($8,900 value)


What’s Group Coaching Like?

Get more answers and stay accountable.

Coaching is held each week over zoom. Sessions are confidential and are 90 minutes long. Our group settings provides a camaraderie with other men in similar marriage situations. As your coach, I will push and stretch you a little bit beyond your comfort zone, because growth is on the other side. Live coaching helps you see your blind spots and improve your marriage like never before.

Skills You’ll Learn

Recognizing patterns in your relationship that hurt intimacy and desire

Monitoring your thoughts to take charge of the results you get in life

How to become more attractive to your wife

Creating lasting habits for physical, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual strength

Overcoming traps that interfere with intimacy

Creating more light-hearted, fun & playful energy in your relationship

Self Soothing and handling rejection

Recognizing your negative pressure that diminishes her sexual desire

Creating positive pressure for sexual growth

How to advocate for what you want

How to bless your wife and life through your sexuality

How to have multiple male orgasms and increase your pleasure during sex

How to give your wife incredible pleasure through sex

How to cultivate more erotic energy in your life

Program Cost


or $109 in 12 monthly installments.
Payment options available.

Topics & Schedule

Coaching: You’ll get to sign up for the days you’d like to be in the hot seat.

Orientation Week: Welcome & Intro
Session #1
 (Affirming Male Sexuality)
Session #2 (Weak vs Strong Men)
Session #3 (Honest Living & Getting Attractive)
Session #4 (Control, Manipulation, & Self-confrontation)
Session #5 (Getting to “Yes” Easier)
Session #6 (Ending Destructive Cycles)
Session #7 (Our Amazing Bodies & Sexual Potential)
Session #8 (Cultivating Eroticism)
Session #9 (Sexual Prowess)
Session #10 (Stage 3 Sex)
Final Session (Wrap-up and conclusion)

Capstone Project: plan and execute a romantic getaway with your wife.

Program Details

The next cohort begins March, 2024.

I help you put research-proven theories into action so that you get results.

We’ll meet at 12pm or 7pm Mountain Time most Wednesdays over Zoom.

Meetings are recorded so you can catch up if you miss one.

We have room for only 12 seats to keep it close-knit.

Every week prior to our meeting you’ll get a video introducing a topic + homework assignments.

Material is taught from a Christian perspective but those of all faiths are welcome.

A Bit About Dan

Creator of “Get Your Marriage On!”

Podcast Host

Married 20 Years & Father of Six

Life Coach

Active Christian

I help husbands deepen their intimacy and improve their sex lives.

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