We help couples significantly improve sex and intimacy in their marriage. 

Hi there,

Dan and Emily

We’re Dan & Emily

We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On!

Welcome! If you landed on this website, you‘re probably married and looking for ways to keep sex passionate and exciting while also drawing closer to your spouse! Our mission is to help couples improve sex and intimacy in their marriage. We help you:

  • overcome your obstacles
  • spice things up (without the yuck)
  • gain new intimacy skills

so that you achieve your marriage goals.

We Transformed our Marriage & You Can Too

For many years, we struggled with just about every common concern – mismatched desire, infertility, sexual dysfunction, inability to orgasm, or find sex pleasurable.

Because the topic of sex is so taboo in our culture, we didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.

After 13 years of marriage we decided enough was enough and started to address our concerns. The transformation we experienced in our relationship was so profound that we knew we had to help others get their marriage on too!

A Proven, Step-by-Step Program Towards Deeper Intimacy

Our signature, step-by-step program guaranteed to transform your sex life and build deeper intimacy than ever. Hundreds of couples have benefited from this program!

Free Resources

New here? Here are our 3 top free resources!

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Intimately Uss App

Intimately Us App

The fun and sexy app full of bedroom games and intimacy-building activities designed to bust bedroom boredom and bond couples. 

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Spice Up Marriage

In this guide we offer you 101 Ways to spice up your marriage and sex life! 

3

Mismatched Sex Drives?

Learn how to fix the libido gap in your marriage without therapy or pressure. 

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“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has done for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds.”

1.2 million downloads

The #1 Podcast

To Upgrade Intimacy

It’s challenging to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun.

It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values. 

Top Five Episodes

#153

How a sexy bedroom game took our sex life to the next level

#157

Seven Ways to Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY

#100

Black Belt Sex Tips 2.0

#161

Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex

#116

Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives

Next Couples Retreat

March 27 – 30, 2025

Join us for an exciting and romantic 4-day, 3-night Marriage, Sex and Intimacy retreat.

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Sweet & Sexy Coupon Book for Valentine’s Day

Sweet & Sexy Coupon Book for Valentine’s Day

*** 2025 UPDATE *** There can be a lot of pressure on Valentine's Day to make it really special. Did you ever wish there was just a Valentine's coupon that could guarantee a sweet and sexy surprise? Well, we made one. This sweet and sexy coupon book is the perfect...

14 Days of Sextimacy Challenge 2025

14 Days of Sextimacy Challenge 2025

Are you ready for something new to celebrate your love this February? Do you want something that will not only bring you and your partner closer but also infuse your love life with excitement? Us too! We’ve created the “14 Days of Sextimacy Challenge” – a special challenge designed to rekindle the flame of passion in your relationship!

Is It Grabbing or Groping?

Is It Grabbing or Groping?

There’s a fine but significant line between grabbing and groping. Understanding this difference can prevent unnecessary relationship tension and help foster a truly intimate, sexy marriage. Generally speaking, many women love being grabbed by their partner (check with...

225: The Secret to a Scintillating Sex Life

225: The Secret to a Scintillating Sex Life

Our childhood and families of origin have a profound impact on our worldviews, including our attitudes towards sex and intimacy. Not knowing anything different, for the most part, we tend to intuitively model what we've seen and absorbed from the culture we grew up...

When the Mood Isn’t Mutual: Responding with Love

When the Mood Isn’t Mutual: Responding with Love

The other day, my wife and I found ourselves playfully flirting throughout the day, hinting at what might come later that night. We were both on the same page—excited for some connection after a long day of life’s usual demands. But when 10 o’clock rolled around, the...

224: The 5 Phases of a Sexual Relationship

224: The 5 Phases of a Sexual Relationship

Take a moment to think about the evolution of your own sexual journey as a couple. How far have you come in the last year? Or the last two years, or the last five years? Is what's important to you today the same as what was important to you in the last two or five...