We help couples significantly improve sex and intimacy in their marriage.
Hi there,
We’re Dan & Emily
We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On!
Welcome! If you landed on this website, you‘re probably married and looking for ways to keep sex passionate and exciting while also drawing closer to your spouse! Our mission is to help couples improve sex and intimacy in their marriage. We help you:
- overcome your obstacles
- spice things up (without the yuck)
- gain new intimacy skills
so that you achieve your marriage goals.
We Transformed our Marriage & You Can Too
For many years, we struggled with just about every common concern – mismatched desire, infertility, sexual dysfunction, inability to orgasm, or find sex pleasurable.
Because the topic of sex is so taboo in our culture, we didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.
After 13 years of marriage we decided enough was enough and started to address our concerns. The transformation we experienced in our relationship was so profound that we knew we had to help others get their marriage on too!
A Proven, Step-by-Step Program Towards Deeper Intimacy
Our signature, step-by-step program guaranteed to transform your sex life and build deeper intimacy than ever. Hundreds of couples have benefited from this program!
Free Resources
New here? Here are our 3 top free resources!
1
Intimately Us App
The fun and sexy app full of bedroom games and intimacy-building activities designed to bust bedroom boredom and bond couples.
2
Spice Up Marriage
In this guide we offer you 101 Ways to spice up your marriage and sex life!
3
Mismatched Sex Drives?
Learn how to fix the libido gap in your marriage without therapy or pressure.
“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has done for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds.”
The #1 Podcast
To Upgrade Intimacy
It’s challenging to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun.
It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values.
Top Five Episodes
#153
How a sexy bedroom game took our sex life to the next level
#157
Seven Ways to Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY
#100
Black Belt Sex Tips 2.0
#161
Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex
#116
Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives
Next Couples Retreat
March 27 – 30, 2025
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Our Blog
Learn how to improve intimacy in your marriage.
218: The Well-Sexed Wife
It's hard to believe that my wife and I started this work eight years ago! At that time we were 13 years into a happy marriage, but something was missing. We just didn't quite know what it was. And that's when a friend opened up to me about his sex life and taught me...
217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? with Jessa Zimmerman
EmbedEdit I used to think the word erotic was associated with unsavory things like X-rated films, Las Vegas billboards, or sites are not supposed to visit online. But the more I've done this work with myself and in my marriage and with other couples, the more I've...
Physical Exercise Can Get You In The Mood?
I read of a research study where the researchers divided the participants into two groups. In the first group, they showed photographs of people of the opposite sex and had the participants rate how attractive the people were in the photos. In the second group, they...
216: Is Wanting Sex Selfish, Dissatisfied by Erectile Dysfunction, Wife’s Secret Erotica, and Dildos – Q&A Part 2
Today is a continuation of last week's question and answer episode, and I am so thankful for all the courageous couples who reached out with their questions. Here's what we discuss in this episode: A husband wondering about using dildos and double penetration and...
What’s on Your Sensual Menu?
Today’s Hump Day Newsletter is serving up something special: a “menu” of sensual options designed to spice up your next date night with your spouse. Just like food nourishes the body, sexual moments nourish your marital connection—and turning them into a “menu” adds a...
215: Sex After Porn, Premature Ejaculation, Discomfort Beyond Missionary Position, Wanting To Be Desired – Q&A Part 1
It's time to answer some more questions from our listeners! Today I'm joined by my colleague, Caroline, to discuss some of the questions that you have. We cover the following topics: A husband who's struggling to connect emotionally with his wife, and he wants to...