We help couples significantly improve sex and intimacy in their marriage.
Hi there,
We’re Dan & Emily
We’re the founders of Get Your Marriage On!
Welcome! If you landed on this website, you‘re probably married and looking for ways to keep sex passionate and exciting while also drawing closer to your spouse! Our mission is to help couples improve sex and intimacy in their marriage. We help you:
- overcome your obstacles
- spice things up (without the yuck)
- gain new intimacy skills
so that you achieve your marriage goals.
We Transformed our Marriage & You Can Too
For many years, we struggled with just about every common concern – mismatched desire, infertility, sexual dysfunction, inability to orgasm, or find sex pleasurable.
Because the topic of sex is so taboo in our culture, we didn’t know where to turn to with our concerns about our intimate relationship that were in line with our values.
After 13 years of marriage we decided enough was enough and started to address our concerns. The transformation we experienced in our relationship was so profound that we knew we had to help others get their marriage on too!
A Proven, Step-by-Step Program Towards Deeper Intimacy
Our signature, step-by-step program guaranteed to transform your sex life and build deeper intimacy than ever. Hundreds of couples have benefited from this program!
Free Resources
New here? Here are our 3 top free resources!
1
Intimately Us App
The fun and sexy app full of bedroom games and intimacy-building activities designed to bust bedroom boredom and bond couples.
2
Spice Up Marriage
In this guide we offer you 101 Ways to spice up your marriage and sex life!
3
Mismatched Sex Drives?
Learn how to fix the libido gap in your marriage without therapy or pressure.
“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has done for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds.”
The #1 Podcast
To Upgrade Intimacy
It’s challenging to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun.
It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values.
Top Five Episodes
#153
How a sexy bedroom game took our sex life to the next level
#157
Seven Ways to Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY
#100
Black Belt Sex Tips 2.0
#161
Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex
#116
Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives
Next Couples Retreat
March 27 – 30, 2025
Join us for an exciting and romantic 4-day, 3-night Marriage, Sex and Intimacy retreat.
Our Blog
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14 Days of Sextimacy Challenge 2025
Are you ready for something new to celebrate your love this February? Do you want something that will not only bring you and your partner closer but also infuse your love life with excitement? Us too! We’ve created the “14 Days of Sextimacy Challenge” – a special challenge designed to rekindle the flame of passion in your relationship!
224: The 5 Phases of a Sexual Relationship
Take a moment to think about the evolution of your own sexual journey as a couple. How far have you come in the last year? Or the last two years, or the last five years? Is what's important to you today the same as what was important to you in the last two or five...
Ever Wish Your Wife Was a Little Less Vanilla?
Ever feel like you wish your spouse was a little less vanilla? Ever wish your spouse would be more enthusiastic about trying new or exciting things in bed (or out of bed for that matter)? Ever ask your spouse what their fantasies are, and all you get is a blank stare...
How to Stay Open When You’re Just Not Feeling It
Picture this: It’s a peaceful Saturday afternoon. The house is quiet, the kids are out with friends, and you and your spouse have just finished tidying up a few things. Suddenly, your partner looks at you with that twinkle in their eye and asks if you’re up for a...
223: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It’s Not What I Expected) – Part 2
This is part two of the BDSM episodes. Last week we talked about how a BDSM is a exchange of erotic energy and how it's built upon the principles of trust and communication. And in a scene or experience, you have one partner acting in the dominant role and the other...
Demystifying the Two Libido Types
If there’s one thing I wish I’d learned earlier in my marriage, it’s this: my wife and I don't experience sexual desire in the same way—and that’s completely okay. In fact, it's completely normal. Let me set the stage with a quick story. Imagine I walk into our...