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Fertility and Reproductive Health
A lot of couples have questions about fertility, hormones, and genitals in general. We don’t often see other people’s genitals and some of us don’t spend any time looking at our own! Therefore there are a lot of questions about what is “normal” down there. Fertility...
Breast and Nipple Stimulation
Breasts and nipples are under-utilized erogenous zones. Although breasts are often seen as a symbol of “sexy”, we don’t tend to include them in our sexual encounters. There seems to be a lack of education on the topic and myths surrounding boobs. This article is here...
How to Have Steamy Shower Sex
Shower sex! You’ve seen it in the movies. That steamy couple who finds themselves sharing a shower and making out and ... If you’re anything like me, you were super excited to try it out! But the reality of my first shower with my husband was slippery, cold, and...
G-Spot Stimulation for Her
What is the G-Spot? Well, that’s actually a big debate. So let’s talk about what people generally mean when they say “g-spot”. The term, named after German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, was made popular in the 1980s. It’s about 2 inches up the front wall of the...
Frenulum Orgasm
Frenulum orgasm takes time, patience, and a delicate touch. It can be a nice change of pace from the thrusting and quick tempo we typically associate with male orgasm. For a wife, frenulum orgasm can be a good way to focus on your husband. For a husband, trying to...
Anniversary Date Ideas!
We are in the throes of wedding season! According to the Knot, “80% of all weddings [took] place between May to October. To be specific, the most popular wedding months are June (13%), August (13%) and October (22%).” If it’s wedding season, that also means it’s...
Blackbelt Sex Tips 2.0
This week, we release our 100th podcast episode! It is truly amazing to see how much this podcast has grown and how much we’ve all learned together. In honor of our 100th episode, Dan reviewed every episode from this year and picked out the “gold nuggets” and black...
What Are the Types of Sex Toys?
We at Get Your Marriage On! love sex toys! We believe that in the right setting, sex toys can help a couple build intimacy and pleasure each other. Unfortunately, a lot of couples feel very intimidated while trying to buy sex toys. There are a lot of options and it...
Fall Date Ideas!
The wait is almost over. Your patience has almost paid off. Fall is almost here! Get ready for pumpkin spice, dusting off your sweaters, and cuddling up with a warm drink. The fall is a time of harvest. After a busy summer, most people like to take stock of their...
5 Sexy Date Ideas!
“Dating is the worst!” said my best friend as she flopped onto my couch. She had been single for quite some time and considers herself pretty shy, meaning it takes a lot for her to go on a first date. I turned on the oven and pulled out the frozen cookie dough, ready...
Anatomy & How To
Fertility and Reproductive Health
A lot of couples have questions about fertility, hormones, and genitals in general. We don’t often see other people’s genitals and some of us don’t spend any time looking at our own! Therefore there are a lot of questions about what is “normal” down there. Fertility...
Breast and Nipple Stimulation
Breasts and nipples are under-utilized erogenous zones. Although breasts are often seen as a symbol of “sexy”, we don’t tend to include them in our sexual encounters. There seems to be a lack of education on the topic and myths surrounding boobs. This article is here...
How to Have Steamy Shower Sex
Shower sex! You’ve seen it in the movies. That steamy couple who finds themselves sharing a shower and making out and ... If you’re anything like me, you were super excited to try it out! But the reality of my first shower with my husband was slippery, cold, and...
G-Spot Stimulation for Her
What is the G-Spot? Well, that’s actually a big debate. So let’s talk about what people generally mean when they say “g-spot”. The term, named after German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, was made popular in the 1980s. It’s about 2 inches up the front wall of the...
Frenulum Orgasm
Frenulum orgasm takes time, patience, and a delicate touch. It can be a nice change of pace from the thrusting and quick tempo we typically associate with male orgasm. For a wife, frenulum orgasm can be a good way to focus on your husband. For a husband, trying to...
Making Sex Fun
Anniversary Date Ideas!
We are in the throes of wedding season! According to the Knot, “80% of all weddings [took] place between May to October. To be specific, the most popular wedding months are June (13%), August (13%) and October (22%).” If it’s wedding season, that also means it’s...
Blackbelt Sex Tips 2.0
This week, we release our 100th podcast episode! It is truly amazing to see how much this podcast has grown and how much we’ve all learned together. In honor of our 100th episode, Dan reviewed every episode from this year and picked out the “gold nuggets” and black...
What Are the Types of Sex Toys?
We at Get Your Marriage On! love sex toys! We believe that in the right setting, sex toys can help a couple build intimacy and pleasure each other. Unfortunately, a lot of couples feel very intimidated while trying to buy sex toys. There are a lot of options and it...
Fall Date Ideas!
The wait is almost over. Your patience has almost paid off. Fall is almost here! Get ready for pumpkin spice, dusting off your sweaters, and cuddling up with a warm drink. The fall is a time of harvest. After a busy summer, most people like to take stock of their...
5 Sexy Date Ideas!
“Dating is the worst!” said my best friend as she flopped onto my couch. She had been single for quite some time and considers herself pretty shy, meaning it takes a lot for her to go on a first date. I turned on the oven and pulled out the frozen cookie dough, ready...
Intimacy & Emotional needs
Communication
“Overfunctioning” in Relationships
This week on our podcast, we had the wonderful opportunity to hear from Rhonda Farr, a marriage coach. Rhonda told her story about being an “overfunctioner” and how it has affected her marriage. We learned all about what it means to be an “overfunctioner” and how to...
Sex and Intimacy Coaching: the What and the Why
To get good at something, everybody needs a coach. Olymipans have a coach. NFL teams have coaches. My son’s tennis team has a coach. It stands to reason then, that to get really good sex life, deep & rewarding intimacy, and strong, long-lasting marriage, a person...
Sexless Marriage: How to Break the Cycle
A sexless marriage is, for our purposes, a marriage where the lack of sex is distressing to either or both parties. A sexless marriage is often perpetuated by a vicious cycle started by unrealistic expectations, that then leads to anxiety and avoidance. Trauma can...
The Art of Sexual Desire
Desire is "a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen" (quote taken from Google). Sexual desire is encompasses your sexual wants and needs. A lot of people assume their partner is "in charge" of their own desire. Some consider...
Male Entitlement and How to Combat it
Male entitlement refers in general to the cultural phenomena where males feel entitled to women’s bodies, sex, or favors. This is a very widespread and dynamic issue. Here, we want to briefly discuss how male entitlement may show up in a marriage and how to combat...
“Overfunctioning” in Relationships
This week on our podcast, we had the wonderful opportunity to hear from Rhonda Farr, a marriage coach. Rhonda told her story about being an “overfunctioner” and how it has affected her marriage. We learned all about what it means to be an “overfunctioner” and how to...
Masculine Leadership: Are We Missing Something?
On our podcast this week, G. S. Youngblood talks about masculine leadership in the home. It is his opinion that masculine leadership is missing in many homes, and especially in sexual relationships. To listen to his thoughts, check out our podcast episode...
Choosing to See The Beautiful
When you look at your spouse, what do you see? Do you see the messes they make and haven’t bothered yet to clean up? Or do you see the tender way in which they take care of your children? Do you let the clothes on the floor get the best of you, or appreciate the hard...
It’s All About The Positivity, Baby!
In Seattle, there's a "Love Lab". The Love Lab is a lot like what you'd expect for a nice nightly rental condo: a stocked kitchen, comfortable room, and cozy bedroom. Except for the cameras and microphones everywhere recording your every interaction (except in...
The Micro-moments that make a Mega Difference
I’m often asked what things I’ve learned that people can do to improve the communication in their marriage. That’s like asking a chef how you can improve your home cooking. It’s hard to know how you can improve your communication without a lot of context, but I’d like...
Intimacy & Emotional needs
“Overfunctioning” in Relationships
This week on our podcast, we had the wonderful opportunity to hear from Rhonda Farr, a marriage coach. Rhonda told her story about being an “overfunctioner” and how it has affected her marriage. We learned all about what it means to be an “overfunctioner” and how to...
Sex and Intimacy Coaching: the What and the Why
To get good at something, everybody needs a coach. Olymipans have a coach. NFL teams have coaches. My son’s tennis team has a coach. It stands to reason then, that to get really good sex life, deep & rewarding intimacy, and strong, long-lasting marriage, a person...
Sexless Marriage: How to Break the Cycle
A sexless marriage is, for our purposes, a marriage where the lack of sex is distressing to either or both parties. A sexless marriage is often perpetuated by a vicious cycle started by unrealistic expectations, that then leads to anxiety and avoidance. Trauma can...
The Art of Sexual Desire
Desire is "a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen" (quote taken from Google). Sexual desire is encompasses your sexual wants and needs. A lot of people assume their partner is "in charge" of their own desire. Some consider...
Male Entitlement and How to Combat it
Male entitlement refers in general to the cultural phenomena where males feel entitled to women’s bodies, sex, or favors. This is a very widespread and dynamic issue. Here, we want to briefly discuss how male entitlement may show up in a marriage and how to combat...
Communication
“Overfunctioning” in Relationships
This week on our podcast, we had the wonderful opportunity to hear from Rhonda Farr, a marriage coach. Rhonda told her story about being an “overfunctioner” and how it has affected her marriage. We learned all about what it means to be an “overfunctioner” and how to...
Masculine Leadership: Are We Missing Something?
On our podcast this week, G. S. Youngblood talks about masculine leadership in the home. It is his opinion that masculine leadership is missing in many homes, and especially in sexual relationships. To listen to his thoughts, check out our podcast episode...
Choosing to See The Beautiful
When you look at your spouse, what do you see? Do you see the messes they make and haven’t bothered yet to clean up? Or do you see the tender way in which they take care of your children? Do you let the clothes on the floor get the best of you, or appreciate the hard...
It’s All About The Positivity, Baby!
In Seattle, there's a "Love Lab". The Love Lab is a lot like what you'd expect for a nice nightly rental condo: a stocked kitchen, comfortable room, and cozy bedroom. Except for the cameras and microphones everywhere recording your every interaction (except in...
The Micro-moments that make a Mega Difference
I’m often asked what things I’ve learned that people can do to improve the communication in their marriage. That’s like asking a chef how you can improve your home cooking. It’s hard to know how you can improve your communication without a lot of context, but I’d like...
Mythbusting
Questions & Answers
Body Image: Issues and Illumination
Unfortunately, body dissatisfaction is under-researched but all too prevalent in today’s society. Research is all over the place, with a range of prevalence rates from 11%-72% for women, and 8%-61% for men. This discrepancy is largely due to different definitions of...
Questions from Women: Pornography, Effort, and Long-Distance
On Instagram, we ask for any and all of your questions! Dan Purcell, GYMO founder and relationship coach, gives his take and advice on these commonly asked questions. Here are some of the top questions asked by women in August of 2022. A lot of women have been hurt by...
Performance vs. Pleasure Based Sex
Performance-based sex can lead to dishonesty, disappointment, and shallowness in a relationship. Although people often slip into a performance-based mindset with the best of intentions, it can quickly lead to dissatisfying and frustrating sexual experiences. Let’s...
Hormonal Cycles and Sex
Periods suck. At least, that’s what I’ve always been told. However, our podcast guest Ashlee Sorensen thinks differently. In this week's episode, Ashlee (a health coach and menstrual cycle expert), talks about how to tap into your hormonal superpowers by being aware...
The Art of Sexual Desire
Desire is "a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen" (quote taken from Google). Sexual desire is encompasses your sexual wants and needs. A lot of people assume their partner is "in charge" of their own desire. Some consider...
My Favorite Marriage & Sex Books (2022)
Some of the books on our shelf A few years ago my wife and I decided we needed to learn a lot more about intimacy in marriage. We were cautious about what content we might run into with Google searches about our sex questions, so we talked with some trusted friends...
What’s Okay? Setting Sexual Boundaries
What's okay in a Christian marriage? Here at Get Your Marriage On! we get lots of questions in this same vein, such as… My husband used to watch porn and wants to use some things he learned.My wife wants to role play as other people.My spouse wants to try BDSM.Is...
Learning How to Have Great Newlywed Sex
Having sex for the first time can be incredibly intimidating, especially if you have choosen to wait for marriage. In this situation, it can feel like going 0 to 100 real fast and can make sex seem hard. I want to share a few tips to making newlywed sex great. My...
Commuter Marriages
Do you or your spouse live away from each other for part of the time? A commuter marriage is defined as a marriage where spouses live apart for reasons other than separation or divorce. Roughly 4 million American couples live apart for some or most of the time....
When Infertility Interferes with Intimacy
Do you or a loved one struggle with infertility? Struggling with infertility is something nobody expects to happen to them. It is hard to truly prepare for the grief and pain that can come along with struggling to fall pregnant and/or carry a child to term. This...
Mythbusting
Body Image: Issues and Illumination
Unfortunately, body dissatisfaction is under-researched but all too prevalent in today’s society. Research is all over the place, with a range of prevalence rates from 11%-72% for women, and 8%-61% for men. This discrepancy is largely due to different definitions of...
Questions from Women: Pornography, Effort, and Long-Distance
On Instagram, we ask for any and all of your questions! Dan Purcell, GYMO founder and relationship coach, gives his take and advice on these commonly asked questions. Here are some of the top questions asked by women in August of 2022. A lot of women have been hurt by...
Performance vs. Pleasure Based Sex
Performance-based sex can lead to dishonesty, disappointment, and shallowness in a relationship. Although people often slip into a performance-based mindset with the best of intentions, it can quickly lead to dissatisfying and frustrating sexual experiences. Let’s...
Hormonal Cycles and Sex
Periods suck. At least, that’s what I’ve always been told. However, our podcast guest Ashlee Sorensen thinks differently. In this week's episode, Ashlee (a health coach and menstrual cycle expert), talks about how to tap into your hormonal superpowers by being aware...
The Art of Sexual Desire
Desire is "a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen" (quote taken from Google). Sexual desire is encompasses your sexual wants and needs. A lot of people assume their partner is "in charge" of their own desire. Some consider...
Questions & Answers
My Favorite Marriage & Sex Books (2022)
Some of the books on our shelf A few years ago my wife and I decided we needed to learn a lot more about intimacy in marriage. We were cautious about what content we might run into with Google searches about our sex questions, so we talked with some trusted friends...
What’s Okay? Setting Sexual Boundaries
What's okay in a Christian marriage? Here at Get Your Marriage On! we get lots of questions in this same vein, such as… My husband used to watch porn and wants to use some things he learned.My wife wants to role play as other people.My spouse wants to try BDSM.Is...
Learning How to Have Great Newlywed Sex
Having sex for the first time can be incredibly intimidating, especially if you have choosen to wait for marriage. In this situation, it can feel like going 0 to 100 real fast and can make sex seem hard. I want to share a few tips to making newlywed sex great. My...
Commuter Marriages
Do you or your spouse live away from each other for part of the time? A commuter marriage is defined as a marriage where spouses live apart for reasons other than separation or divorce. Roughly 4 million American couples live apart for some or most of the time....
When Infertility Interferes with Intimacy
Do you or a loved one struggle with infertility? Struggling with infertility is something nobody expects to happen to them. It is hard to truly prepare for the grief and pain that can come along with struggling to fall pregnant and/or carry a child to term. This...