Women's Coaching
Women’s Intimacy & Desire Small Group Program
This coaching program helps challenge toxic cultural messages, identify your relationship patterns, and cultivate your best feminine self-expression.
Welcome!
We help women empower their relationships, their lives & their sexuality.
This coaching group is for:
- Struggles communicating with husbands
- Feeling smothered and overly pursued by husbands, especially around sex
- Unsure of one’s desires
Rebuilding trust in the relationship, e.g. after a hurtful pornography disclosure - Approaching the empty nester stage in life
- Difficulty maintaining the balance between self, children, and spouse while raising kids
- Gaining a healthier view of sexuality for oneself
- Desiring more romance and connection in the marriage
- A desire to belong to a great group of women
Different Women's Experience in This Group
As a mom I made the mistake of putting most of my energy into my kids, only a small amount into my marriage and forgetting to invest in myself at all. This program helped me to make time for me and that, in the long run, benefits everyone around me.
Despite being married for 25 years, we feel like newbies and inexperienced. We loved all the new ideas and mindset changes we went through. We are now comfortable talking about sex together and feel like we can progress more.
It was wonderful to have a group of ladies that met weekly. We were able to get to know each other and share in our struggles and wins. Even though we were strangers at first, it didn’t stay that way.
It can be a very difficult step reaching out to someone about something so personal. I have struggled for a long time in marriage with our sex life and I wasn’t sure what to do or who to reach out to.
I started in such a defeated, hopeless state…and things have suddenly become hopeful again! It has been so good meeting together and having that neutral person help us to sort through things as a couple.
You will not be disappointed and we both highly recommend this to anyone!“
Your program really set us off on a wonderful journey of curiosity and self exploration. Thank you for helping me get rid of so much shame I had around my sexuality and to finally accept myself as a healthy loving Human that God created. It was truly a blessing and I have recommended this program to many of my friends along with your podcast. I pray that God continues to bless your ministry and those involved.
This program is a good opportunity to bring your marriage questions and struggles and have someone help dig a little deeper within yourself to see your blind areas and what you need to change in yourself to be a better person and love your spouse well.
What’s Group Coaching Like?
Groups are limited to 6-10 women. Our small group setting provides a camaraderie with other women in similar marriage situations. In between meetings, you have access to a private chat group for only members of the group, to support and encourage each other.
We meet weekly over twelve weeks. Meetings are typically 90 minutes long, consisting of coaching sessions for two women in the “hot seat.” These coaching sessions are strictly confidential. Replays are available to members in the group in case you miss a meeting.
You will have at least two opportunities to be in the hot seat over the 12 weeks. You can sign up in advance for the nights you want to be in the hot seat.
In addition to the meetings, the group follows the Get Your Marriage On Program’s course. Each week there are videos to watch and discuss with your spouse. An accompanying workbook is mailed to you.
In addition, you also get a private 1:1 coaching session, scheduled at your convenience.
Program Details
We offer this program 3 – 4 times a year. Join our waitlist and he next Cohort will be announced soon!
We’ll meet at 12:00pm Mountain / 2:00 Eastern most Tuesdays over Zoom.
I help you put research-proven theories into action so that you get results.
Meetings are recorded so you can catch up if you miss one.
We have room for only 10 seats to keep it close-knit.
Every week prior to our meeting you’ll get a video introducing a topic + fun at-home assignments.
Material is taught from a Christian perspective but those of all faiths are welcome.
Let's Get YOUR Marriage On!
What You Get:
- Weekly 60-90 minute confidential group coaching for 12 weeks
- One private coaching session (you can invite your spouse!)
- Course access
- Exclusive & private podcast feed for all program audio
- Private message group with other women in the program
- 1 Year Access to videos, audio recordings and coaching sessions
PLUS More!
- Your husband gets access to the course for 3 months ($280 value)
- 28+ Workshops for enhancing sexual intimacy in marriage ($532 value)
- Printed copy of course workbook mailed to you ($49 value)
Topics & Schedule
Coaching: You’ll get to sign up for at least two nights you’d like to be in the hot seat, in addition to one private coaching session.
Week 1: Welcome & Intro
Week 2: Taking 100% responsibility for self, honesty, and the spiritual work of sexual development
Week 3: Sexual intimacy in marriage grows in stages. We’ll discuss stage 1 and 2.
Week 4: We discuss struggles with Stage 2 and how to move to Stage 3.
Week 5: Self-awareness and paying attention to the stories we tell ourselves
Week 6: Self awareness models and emotional processing & connection
Week 7: Working with Autonomy and Attachment
Week 8: Hierarchies, losing connection, and winning connection strategies
Week 9: Communicating Better
Week 10: Sexual desire in marriage, and why sexual desire goes away after the honeymoon
Week 11: Why sex in marriage is hard
Week 12: Balancing morality and freedom in sex
Week 13: Why it takes courage to fully choose your spouse
Week 14: Conclusion & wrap-up
Optional Capstone Project: Plan and execute a romantic getaway with your wife!
Your Team of Professionals
Dan Purcell
Dan is a Christian Coach that specializes in helping couples improve intimacy in their marriage. He’s also the founder of Get Your Marriage On, a podcast host with over one million downloads, and the creator of several marriage apps.
Amy
Amy is passionate about helping couples move from stuck to thriving! She has a passion for helping clients become more connected to themselves in an honest and kind relationship. When you’re feeling stuck in your relationships, Amy can help you up level your relationships.
Tammy
Tammy specializes in helping women overcome “Good Girl” syndrome as well as helping men gain skills in intimacy with their wives. She has a passion for helping others learn how to really see what a healthy, intimate relationship looks like as she continues to learn and grow in her own relationship.
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Testimonials
Gave Us Hope
“We really appreciated the coaching calls. It was so eye opening to hear and see that we are not the only ones. It also gave us hope that things could change and they did. The workshops were good. The regular Get your marriage in pod casts were good. We especially like the Blow Jobs Aren’t just for Him episode among others.
Despite being married for 25 years, we feel like newbies and inexperienced. We loved all the new ideas and mindset changes we went through. We are now comfortable talking about sex together and feel like we can progress more.”
M & P
"This course was like a masters degree in sexuality."
N & B
Answer to My Prayer
“We have enjoyed this subscription, along with the classes. You have taught us so much and we feel like we are a stronger couple now. You helped us get through a really tough point in our marriage and were an answer to my prayer.”
M & M
Intimacy has grown Exponentially
“Honestly, between marriage counseling up until about August, and our wonderful experience with the retreat, our marriage and the level of intimacy between us (of all kinds) has grown exponentially. Thanks so much for being a wonderful part of that process Dan.”
C & E
“We have hope & fulfillment again!”
Joy and Jeremy got along really well in all areas of their 12 years of marriage except when it came to sex, their differences in preferences and desire caused frustration. Then they started the Next Level System and they have more hope and fulfillment in their marriage than ever.
We're a Real Team Now
“We’re blown away by how much we’ve grown in this area of our relationship. It feels like we’re a real team now, are both committed to working at ourselves, and to having a great sexual relationship, for ourselves, for each other, and for us together, and it’s exciting to be on this journey together. Ware having lots of fun with our sex life. The holiday sex was amazing – we’re doing some more adventurous things in bed and finding pleasure in more ways. During our time apart we’re having lots of fun texting and sharing fantasies, and appreciating the anticipation that this separation brings.”
D & J
Changing Lives
“I’ll start by thanking you for the [Get Your Marriage On!] coaching program. It was amazing, well worth the investment, and is still paying off for me! You’re changing lives 🙂 “
A & R
“We were really struggling. Now we have the tools we need.”
Sera and Darrin had struggles in their marriage, like most of us do from time to time. They were sick of staying stuck in their patterns. Learn how coaching improved their marriage.
Like Newly Weds
“I can’t thank you enough for you work and what it has don’t for our marriage. We still get asked now and then if we are newly weds and our oldest graduates this year from high school. 22 year and still going strong. Thanks for the new energy you have given us.”
D & J
Curiosity and Self Exploration
“Your retreat really set us off on a wonderful journey of curiosity and self exploration. Thank you for helping me get rid of so much shame I had around my sexuality and to finally accept myself as a healthy loving Human that God created. It was truly a blessing and I have recommended this work shop to many of my friends along with your podcast. I pray that God continues to bless your ministry and those involved.”
B & A
We Seemed to be Stuck
“It can be a very difficult step reaching out to someone about something so personal. I have struggled for a long time in marriage with our sex life and I wasn’t sure what to do or who to reach out to. We seem to be stuck on the same issues and conflicts. Then I came across Dan on the Get Your Marriage On app. Actually, it was mostly my husband who was listening to him and out of curiosity, I decided to listen in on some of the podcasts too. I could relate so much to what was being talked about! It was such a relief to know that I was not alone in how I was feeling and what I was experiencing in my married sex relationship. Then I heard he coaches couples as well. To hear Dan’s heart and experiences, to feel the passion he has for helping couples during the podcasts made me wonder… could he possibly help my marriage too? I knew if there was anyone to reach out to and try, it was Dan. We nervously scheduled our first session and it has been going so great ever since! He listens so well and offers such great insight and suggestions into what we can do. I started in such a defeated, hopeless state…and things have suddenly become hopeful again! It has been so good meeting together and having that neutral person help us to sort through things as a couple. He makes it so convenient, we schedule and meet regularly together online due to being in Canada. If you’re willing to put in the work together and push into those difficult places within yourself, it’s worth it for your marriage! You will not be disappointed and we both highly recommend Dan to anyone!“
J & A
“From good to great”
Keith and Lindsey have a good marriage and friendship. They joined the program and quickly found value in turning a good thing into a great thing for their marriage.
A Safe Place To Talk About Sex
“Sex had become a point of contention in our marriage. We enjoyed Dan Purcell’s podcast and how he explains things and makes sexual things easier to talk about. We knew we needed help and so it made sense to ask Dan. It was soooo helpful to have an experienced “middleman” to help us see things in our marriage we had a hard time recognizing for ourselves. Dan has such great advice for how to improve the relationship and sex in a marriage. I am so glad we got the coaching and I recommend it to everyone especially those with frustration around sex in their marriage. Your marriage and your sex-life is worth the investment. If you are on the fence, get the coaching.“
B & K
Breaking Down Old Beliefs
“I don’t think it was anything specific she actually said to us, but somehow the coaching sessions just absolutely worked. After years of slow progress in our sexual relationship suddenly we started having some absolutely “next level” sex, some of the best we’ve ever had! So the coaching helped us break down what was working and provided suggestions to hopefully keep it going. Overall we were very pleasantly surprised with the coaching program!“
W & A
Truely Passionate
“I can honestly say for [the previous year] we had lots of sex but not once made passionate love. Things are changing and even this past weekend alone we made truly passionate stage 3 (as you called it on one of your talks) love five times. I can’t wait for an amazing next year!”
K & J
Love What You Stand For
“What resonated with me the most was the idea of a step-by-step focused program. My biggest complaint of [Other Coach’s] courses I’ve taken in the past are that they tend to be too theoretical and not enough “tell me what exactly I need to do this week to fix things.” So the idea of a course focused on digestible chunks that lay out specific improvement goals along with coaches to create accountability for reaching those goals and help applying them to real life sounds very appealing to me.”
T & M
My Black Belt Sex Tip: Get This Program
“My wife and I have been married for 15 years. We are happily married, but recognized that we had some challenges within our sexual relationship that led to anxiety, disappointment, resentment and hurt feelings.
We recognized that we needed some help from a third-party to help us overcome these seemingly monstrous hurdles, but had some apprehensions. We were worried about being open and vulnerable about something so private. However, we decided to invest in our marriage and reached out to Dan Purcell.
Working with Dan was amazing. Dan was so friendly and created a safe environment for sharing. He was a great listener and had great advice. He helped us to develop techniques for better communication and engaging in healthy conflict. He helped us develop a mindset that encouraged us to focus on our progress and celebrated our successes with us. He taught us how to invest in our relationship more earnestly, a gift we will cherish forever.
For those looking to have a better, more intimate, marriage, my Black Belt Sex Tip is to work with a coach — work with Dan Purcell! It is an investment that will last a lifetime!
Thank you, Dan, for helping us to take our marriage to the Next Level!”
K & B
The Staff is Vulnerable, Safe & Excited to Help
“The marriage and intimacy retreat was a life-changing experience for us. After 20 years of marriage, we wanted to take our marriage from good to great. During the weekend, we gained so many incredible insights on how we were trying to fix each other rather than ourselves, making assumptions and putting expectations on each other that were false due to lack of honest communication that had been shaped over the past decades of routine. We gained so many tools for improving connection and communication, but also changing our own attitudes about ourselves and our intimate life. Most important were the friendships and community that we gained from this bonding and growing time together. To know that every couple in the room was there to learn and grow was such a comfort and we learned so much from each other as well as the speakers. To have a relaxing and pampered weekend to focus on our most important relationships created an environment of uninterrupted growth, reflection and exploration that can be hard to come by. The staff is vulnerable, safe and excited to help each and every couple. We walked out of the retreat with a literal book of tools (and lots of other goodies!) to implement at home and friendships that will last a long time. What an incredible kick start to the next phase of our marriage and we can’t wait to get started!”
M & F
Learned About Myself
“The men’s group coaching was amazing. I learned a lot about myself and how to have a more intimate (close) marriage. “
T & B
Get This App!!
“We love this app!! We are so much more connected, and not just in the bedroom. The owners only and sole purpose is to better your relationship, and it shows. Offering a lot of different dates, games, conversation starters, even occasionally having free webinars on how to create intimacy and fun in your sex life! If you’re looking for something new in your relationship. Get this app!!!”
So Much Fun!
“I wanted to let you know that I’ve greatly benefited from your podcast and the Intimately Us app! We are having so much fun! After being married almost 27 years and are mid 40’s, empty nesters … .things could become a tad boring. I’ve truly enjoyed getting to know my husband in a new way. I love how you don’t make me feel weird for wanting to desire a HEALTHY sex life with my husband and that my desires aren’t bad or wrong! Thank you! I have also learned this from your episodes so I appreciate your mission for us to have the most intimate life with our spouse. I hope to be able to relay a sex positive message to my adult kids for when they get married! Something I had to learn on my own. Thanks again.”
M & K
Wedding Anniversary
“Jeanie and I did the virtual retreat this past weekend and celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary early. It was a amazing time of connection and pleasure together. I have learned a lot from you and the course. I believe we are going in the right direction and our relationship is growing deeper and more passionate. Just wanted to say thanks. Hope u have a great week.”
C & J
“We can actually talk about it now”
Learn how Sarah and Brady’s old pattern of people pleasing was driving them apart, and how the program helped them learn new skills for stronger intimacy and honest communication in their relationship.
Keep Growing & Experimenting
“Things have been going really well with me. We keep growing and experimenting with things that we would have never done in the past. I remember having concerns about “when the other shoe was going to drop”. That has not been the case at all. We have got stuck a few times but we communicate through our disagreement and figure out what will work for the both of us. It has been really fun and encouraging.”
C & R
Best is Yet to Come!
“My cohort wrapped up tonight and I’m just so excited about what I’ve learned and how I’ve already grown. The content and the delivery have been phenomenal so far. I’m so grateful to be in this Next Level – Get Your Marriage On Course. Thank you, thank you, thank you. No doubt, we have more work to do; the best is yet to come!”
K & D
Best is Yet to Come!
“My cohort wrapped up tonight and I’m just so excited about what I’ve learned and how I’ve already grown. The content and the delivery have been phenomenal so far. I’m so grateful to be in this Next Level – Get Your Marriage On Course. Thank you, thank you, thank you. No doubt, we have more work to do; the best is yet to come!”
K & D
Relevent & Extremely Useful
“The men’s group was a good experience for me. Amy was a great coach and facilitator. The content was very relevant and extremely useful. I feel like you’ve provided a masters course distilled down into an easy to digest workbook and video clips. It’s A LOT to take in though! I found it worked best for me to focus on one or two things that jumped out at me as most on point for what I was experiencing rather than trying to go deep on each point.”
M & P
Fewer Regrettable Situations
“I remember joining that coaching class because I had been caught in a very bad situation. It has been a growing journey for me and for us since then. I am not yet fully there but the gains are enormous. Our communication keeps improving and our marriage and family has many moments worth remembering and fewer regrettable situations. I appreciate the time I journeyed with you.”
J & R
Ah-hah Moments
“The experience has been great. The program is comprehensive and has depth. I resonate with what is being taught. I am impressed with the quality of your coaches, Tammy and Amy. They seem to have a great understanding of what they are teaching and do so in a patient and empathetic manner.
My ah-hah moments are that I need to work on being attractive (calming down and being less anxious etc..) and females tend to need to work on their eroticism. This makes so much sense and is tied to what naturally happens in relationships with spontaneous/responsive desire couples that haven’t had coaching.
Additionally, the idea that eros is needed for a bonded/tight marriage is so refreshing and encouraging. This was a lightbulb moment for sure, along with the idea that sex/sexuality is the catalyst for a great marriage and relationship development with your spouse. (tied together with spirituality and God’s design for marriage!)”
J & D
Nothing Short of a Miracle
“As this 12-week men’s cohort wraps up, I want to express just how transformative this experience has been for me. I’ve participated in countless programs over the years. Things like diets, workout routines, prayer groups, and various Christian-based resources, but nothing has come close to the impact of this course. After 22 years of marriage, with issues stretching back to our dating days and a history of unresolved pain, I had grown increasingly hopeless that a solution existed. Most other programs left me feeling more discouraged, and some even made things worse. But I kept searching, believing God wanted something better for me and my marriage.
This program has been nothing short of a miracle. The safe, faith-based, and deeply practical environment you’ve created allowed me to finally see what I’d been missing. The group setting provided camaraderie and accountability, and the curriculum addressed the real issues that have kept me stuck for so long.”
D & C
Open Environment
“Since the retreat, I feel we continue to progress together. We are rereading the retreat workbook and notes we made as well. I would say we are becoming better empty nesters. Certainly the comfort level of talking about intimate topics has increased since the retreat. It was such an open environment with the other couples who were eager to talk and help. All with similar stories. We are not the only ones with our challenges was brought home again and again.”
A & P
Great Group of People
“It’s hard to believe it’s been a month already! That weekend was one of the best weekends we’ve had for a long time. I honestly wasn’t sure how comfortable I would feel in that situation but you and your team did a fantastic job of making it easy to relax and settle in. It was easy to be open to what was being shared by your team and the other attendees. We truly were part of a great group of people. It was comforting to know we weren’t alone in our situation. Everyone’s story was different yet similar. I really had some ah ha moments. Those realizations helped me to let go of so much hurt and resentment (I didn’t even know I was holding on to it). In the last month we have continued to have even deeper conversations. We are being much more honest with each other. We have been able to deepen our intimacy more and more each week. We are still a work in progress but I feel so much hope for our future.”
S & G
Frequently Asked Questions
We’re meeting over Zoom. Will I be on camera?
No, you will not be on camera. This is presented as a webinar format where you see the presenters but the presenters don’t see you. You can still interact, if you want, through a Q&A chat. We respect your privacy.
If I have a question, can I ask it anonymously?
Yes. Our retreat set up includes the ability for you to ask questions and interact with us anonymously.
Will there be nudity or live demonstrations?
No, there will be no nudity or live demonstrations, however, some of the handouts and slides will include tastefully drawn illustrations and diagrams to be helpful.
Do I need to be a Christian to attend?
Although the content is taught from a Christian perspective, people of all faiths are welcome to attend. This isn’t a religious event (no bible verses or public prayer is planned).
That being said, all content is research-based and is in line with our values: that sex is a gift from God, is incredible and has a lot of depth, can be very bonding, nourishing, creative, and fun, and is best expressed in the commitment and covenant of marriage.
What kind of results should I expect?
Women who have participated in this program have reported:
- A closer connection to their spouse
- A clearer understanding of their relationship patterns and marriage dynamic, and what to do better when negative cycles begin.
- More self confidence
- Better understanding of themselves
- Skills and tools for stronger relationships with others, especially their spouse and family members
- Renewed enthusiasm for healthy sexual connection
Who is this program for?
This program is for married women that want to improve connection and intimacy in their marriage. Below are some examples of why women have joined our groups in the past:
- Struggles communicating with husbands
- Feeling smothered and overly pursued by husbands, especially around sex
- Unsure of one’s desires
- Rebuilding trust in the relationship, e.g. after a hurtful pornography disclosure
- Approaching the empty nester stage in life
- Difficulty maintaining the balance between self, children, and spouse while raising kids
- Gaining a healthier view of sexuality for oneself
- Desiring more romance and connection in the marriage
- A desire to belong to a great group of women
What does the program cost?
The program is $899. You can also pay it in 6 chunks of $149 / month for six months.
Is there flexibility for busy schedules?
Yes! A replay of each night’s session is available to you. You can watch or listen to the replay from the Next Level app or your favorite podcast player.
You can also participate in the private discussion group in between meetings. Your coach is available via email for other questions you have outside of meetings as well.
In addition, you will get to choose your night for your Hot Seat. This flexibility makes it possible to work around your schedule.
Disclaimer: Results will vary on individual efforts and external factors. Individual successes are not guaranteed and are influenced by abilities and other external factors. This program, including any hypothetical scenarios described, is provided for informational and illustrative purposes only and does not constitute professional advice.
Our coaching practice follows proven models. Coaching is not a substitute for clinical psychotherapy. We do not diagnose or treat mental illness or deep emotional issues. Coaching places significantly more personal responsibility on the client, and a certain minimum level of functioning and self-motivation is required to be a good fit for coaching. We assume no responsibility for decisions made or actions taken based on the content on this website. Always consult with qualified professionals before making significant relationship or mental health decisions.