We’ve come to our fourth and final Sextember podcast episode! It’s been a great month culminating in this week’s spicy topic. And the whole reason behind Sextember and these types of episodes is to illustrate how important it is that you add variety and novelty to your intimate marriage. This is how you keep it vital for the longterm.
Recently someone reached out to our private Get Your Marriage On Facebook group (which, by the way, if you’re not a member of, I highly recommend you join):
“My wife wants to spice things up in the bedroom. She’s saying we should do more sex positions, but I have no idea where to start.”
Well, this podcast episode is for you and everyone like you in a similar situation!
We’ve had sex position illustrations (very tastefully drawn) in the Intimately Us app for about two years now, and it’s a fantastic source of inspiration and creativity for many couples who have looked at those and use them.
Another feature that we have in that app is that users can rate and review their favorite positions.
So I’m presenting for you today, the top 10 sex positions rated in the Intimately Us app. If you don’t have the app, download it today. And if you do have it, please consider upgrading to the premium version to unlock all of the best features of the app!
Resources:
Intimately Us App (join the Sextember challenge here!)
Women’s Small Group Coaching (Cohort starting in October)
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Episode 207
Dan: Everyone you’ve come to our fourth and final sex timber podcast episode. Isn’t this been a great month. Today’s also really spicy topic. And the reason why I do these is I want to illustrate how important it is that you add variety and spice to your intimate marriage. This is how you keep it vital for the longterm. Recently someone posted in our private get your marriage on Facebook group, which by the way, if you’re not a member of a highly recommended join, I’ll put the link in the show notes.
But, uh, in this private Facebook group, someone asked this question, my wife wants to spice things up in the bedroom. She’s saying we should do more sex positions, but I have no idea where to start. Well, this podcast episode is for you and everyone like you in a similar situation. So we’ve had sex position illustrations, by the way, the very tastefully done and drawn.
They’ve been in the intimately us at, for about two years now, which is fantastic source of inspiration and creativity for many couples who have looked at those and use them. Another feature that we have as part of it is users can rate and review their favorite positions.
So I’m presenting for you today. The top 10 sex positions of all time rated in the intimately. us app. If you don’t have the app, download it today. It’s intimately us in the app store. If you do have it, please consider upgrading to the premium version. It unlocks all of the best features of the app when you do so.
So are you, as curious as I am, which sex positions in the app are the highest rated.
Dan: Ready, here we go.
Coming at number 10 is a sex position. Turtle. This is where you kneel down so low that your husband can penetrate you deeply from behind.
For the wife, you’re going to get down on your knees and lower yourself that your chest is on the bed. You’re going to wrap your arms around to the back of your legs so that your butt is in the air. That you’re slightly balled up in the turtle position. Husbands, you’re going to kneel behind your wife and make love to her.
Her position makes it easier to penetrate deeply. So you want to be really careful and have a lot of good communication there.
Coming in at number nine is cat. And it’s not about the feline. This is short for the coital alignment technique. It’s a sex position that’s done in the missionary position, but instead of thrusting in and out, you’re going to use grinding motions instead to stimulate the wife’s.
clitoris. This is how to get started. Wives. You’re going to want to line her back. And while your husband enters you, you want to tip your pelvis upwards and maybe spread your labia just a little bit. Maybe apply some lubricant around that your clitoral area. And you’re going to want to see if you can grind your clearest against the base of his penis. Husbands. You’re going to climb on top of her, enter her and instead of thrusting in and out. You’re going to focus mostly on movements that are going to stimulate her clearest using the base of your penis or even your own pubic bone. Now what’s beautiful about this is it’s really heavily focused on clitoral stimulation, which is absolutely necessary for women to reach orgasm.
Give this one a try and tell me what you think.
Coming in at number eight, it’s called Couchtastic This is a penetration from behind position or the wife leans forward on a couch or a. Like a kitchen counter. So wives, you’re going to lean forward onto the couch. Or the edge of the couch or onto the counter who knows spread your legs and bring one up onto the couch to open up space for penetration. And once he’s penetrated, you can put your leg back down.
If that helps. Husbands, you’re going to stand behind your wife. You’re going to put one knee on the edge of the couch, between her legs for stability. You’re going to grab her hips and penetrate her from behind. Popular sex position. Number seven is called backbreaker in summary. This is where the wife lies on top of her husband face up while he penetrates her from behind. So husbands, this is what you’re going to do. You’re going to lay down on a comfortable surface, such as her bed with her legs slightly. Spread up and you’re going to let your wife lay directly on top of you. Her head should rest next to yours and her legs will be on the outside of your legs. They didn’t going to penetrate her from this position before she moves her legs up more to the side. You can move your hips up and down to thrust.
Once her legs are planted more firmly on the ground, she’ll have more room to move herself and have a little more control [00:05:00] on that. And keep from being pushed off of you. Why is, this is what you’ll want to do. You’re going to lie down on her husband with her back on his chest. So face up with her head off to the side of his head and having your legs spread to the outside of his legs. Let your husband penetrate you and then reposition your legs so that they are further back and more in a planted position with their feet flat on the bed. When your feet are planted, you’re less likely to be bucked off of your husband, and he can keep herself in this position a lot better.
You can also push with your legs to help with the thrusting.
Popular sex position. Number six, coming in at you is cowboy Yee haw. In summary, this is a husband on top sex position that has a really tight fit and access to clitoral stimulation. Why is, this is what you’re going to do. You’re going to lie down on her, back with her legs slightly apart. And you’re going to let your man straddle you and ride you like a cowboy.
How does that sound? Husbands are going to straddle your wife, facing her, but instead of laying on top of your you’re going to lean for gently to penetrate her and then sit up and ride her like a cowboy. You have great access to her breasts from this position, or it can come down close and hold her arms. Having your legs more closed, we’ll create a tighter fill, which feels awesome for you both.
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Coming at number five is called butterfly. This is a sex position where the wife lies on the side of the bed while her husband stands in front of her and makes love to her.
I’m not surprised that the butterfly position is a fan favorite because it’s a treat that the husband can give to his wife as this is a position where it can be really relaxing and lazy for her, but also incredibly pleasurable.
Why is, All you need to do is lie down on her back. On either side of the bed or a table, like on the edge, this is an amazing position for the wife, because it’s one where your husband does all the work. So you can just relax, enjoy your treat. When your husband is in position, you can rest your legs on him with your ankles resting on his shoulders.
Or if you prefer, you can put your legs to either side of his waist, let him do all the work and enjoy it. He’ll keep her pelvis raised for you. But if you’d like to give them some extra support, you can add some cushions under your bottom two. Husbands. Make sure your wife is at the edge of the bed or a table and have her rest, her legs on you.
You’re going to grab her thighs or her butt and raise her pelvis up and make love to her. If you prefer, you can do this kneeling as well. If height differences workout better. But you’ll find it’s easier to move around and move further. And backwards and forwards and whatever, if you’re standing. By the way, this is a great position to stimulate her.
G-spot if she’s the type of woman that responds really well to G-spot stimulation.
Coming in at number four is stallion. Now some people call this doggy style, but I think stallion sounds so much manlier so much better. This is a husband from behind sex position. Wives, you’re going to get down on your hands and knees on all fours. You’re going to put your bottom in the air. And you can, as her husband enters you, you can push back against her husband as he makes love to you from behind.
So you can have a lot of control and you can adjust your, your hip height. You can rotate your pelvis forward or back, or raise your arms up and down to control the different angles of penetration here. Husband, you’re going to nail behind your wife and penetrate her. You can grab her by her hips and enjoy making love to her.
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Coming in at number three is a classic missionary position. This is by far the most popular position that couples use during their time of coitus or their marital Congress or whatever term you’d like to use. It works really well. It’s popular because it’s comfortable and it’s intimate because it’s face to face.
And this is usually the husbands on top of the wife and the husband is in control of this one. Why is all you need to do is lie on her back with her head, propped up on a pillow and have your legs spread apart. Layer husband make love to you. Mostly, your husband has the control here, but you can tilt your pelvis or you can wrap your legs around your husband’s waist to change things up.
If your cliteracy isn’t getting the stimulation, it needs, you can also reach down and lend a hand by adding some stimulation herself. This position works really well when you’re highly aroused.
Husbands, you’re going to lay on top of your wife and penetrate her. It’s possible that she might need some extra clitoral stimulation. So while in this position, you can also reach down on Monday hand and stimulate her, or she can stimulate herself. You can smother her in kisses as you thrust your hips forward, as you make love to her.
Coming in at number two is cowgirl.
This is where the wife rides her husband, like a cowgirl. Jihad husbands, you’re going to lie in a comfortable surface, such as your bed or the floor with their legs slightly apart. And your knees slightly raised. You’re going to let your wife ride you like a cowgirl and you can be that and try to buck her off if you like.
Wives. This is where you straddle your husband while facing him. Help him penetrate you and then grind, rotate your hips or bounce up and down on him and ride him like a cowgirl. Remember ladies, you are in charge in this position. So you’re going to move in a way that feels good for you.
So find the right angle, find the right motion, find the right. grinding motion, whatever it is that helps you. Phil stimulated and excited in this position.
Are you ready for the number one most popular, highly rated sex position in the intimately S app for this year. You’re going to love it.
Coming at number one is breadbasket. Bread basket is a sex position where the wife stimulates her husband using her breasts. So why is, this is a great position for you when you’re menstruating or need to change things up in the bedroom.
It just adds more novelty and fun. You’re going to lie down on your back in a comfortable position, and you’re going to let your husband straddle you around your chest, and he’s going to place his penis between your breasts. Make sure you have some lube nearby. And. You’re going to slather your breasts with lots of lubricant. That way you can slide back and forth easily.
You’re going to squeeze your breasts together to, you know, encapsulate his penis while he thrusts. Husbands, you’re going to straddle your wife and add a lot of lube to her chest and breasts. Place her penis between her breasts and let her squeeze them around you as you thrust back and forth.
There it is our top 10 list.
What did he think? What ones have you tried? What ones do you want to try it? Leave a comment below and let me know. I’d love to hear from you. I hope you’ve enjoyed this fun top 10 list of sex positions.
Remember, there’s so much more to building an intimate marriage than just geometry of your bodies in the bedroom. If you haven’t yet. Please download our app, intimately us from the app store. If you have the app already, please share it with all of your married friends.
I promise they’ll thank you for life. Also check out our free training on our website on how to build a better intimate marriage.
