We believe that the quickest way to strengthen a marriage is through intimacy (and everything that involves, including being a good listener). And a few amazing products definitely can help!
Maybe after reading, you will have an idea for a thing or two you can wrap up in brown paper packages tied up with strings to gift your spouse or even yourself!
So in no particular order, I present to you some favorite intimacy things!!
Evree Intimate Massage Cream
Justin, the creator of Evree, and his wife love giving each other massages and use lubricant to enhance their intimate encounters. However, most massage oils & lubricants leave you feeling sticky after – like you need a shower just to not feel oily.
They were on a mission to create a new type of effective lubricant that isn’t messy, doesn’t leave you feeling gross, yet goes on smoothly. After years of testing hundreds of combinations of 100% natural ingredients, they have created an innovative new type of lubricant.
It’s solid at room temperature (so isn’t messy) but instantly melts onto your skin. It smells great and is edible too.
Here’s a video of Dan showing it off
This is a premium product and comes in a very attractive jar you wouldn’t be embarrassed to have on your night stand.
You can buy it HERE, and if you use code INTIMACY you’ll get 10% off!
Femme Funn – Vibrator
Vibrators and toys not only can add novelty, but improve the overall sexual experience by leveling the orgasm gap between men and women. By enhancing the sexual experience, you open the door to a closer marital bond.
The Femme Funn Ultra Bullet Vibrator is one of my favorites. This is an excellent vibrator for couples that want to explore some novelty in the bedroom.
What I love about it is it’s made from a super silky smooth silicone material. It’s small and compact, yet has a very powerful motor. The battery life is amazing – at about 80 minutes – so one charge can last a few weeks.
It’s waterproof and submersible, meaning, you can take it into the bathtub or hot tub. It’s got a magnetic charger which is really nice. It’s designed to where you need to hold it down for three seconds to turn on, so that you reduce the risk of it accidentally turning on in your luggage while traveling.
Unlike other bullet vibrators, it’s got a flexible shaft. This helps you hold it against your body or use it in different areas. It works great for intercourse sex positions too – it’s small enough that it can fit snugly between your two bodies.
It has 20 different speeds / intensities. If you’re new, I recommend starting on the lowest speed and use it away from your clitoris and gently bring it closer to the center as you get more aroused or hit the button to increase intensity.
See a “Married PG-rated” short video review
You can buy this from a Christian-friendly store, Married Dance HERE for under $60. But if you use my code IU10, you get an additional 10% off:
Another great option for a nudity-free shopping experience for toys & vibrators is Romantic Blessings but they don’t carry this particular vibrator.
Doing It In The Dark Game / Sexy Subscription Box
I’m a sucker for bedroom games. I think intimacy games make foreplay fun, expose us to new ideas, invite creativity, openness, and curiosity, and deepen the connection.
Emily and I recently got Doing It In The Dark, a game for couples where you play it in the dark with a glow-in-the-dark game, glow-in-the-dark markers, and other fun surprises. I’m impressed by the quality and classiness of the product – something I’ve come to expect from The Dating Divas. It’s definitely something we can play over and over.
You can buy it alone or as part of their Sexy Subscription where they send you a box every quarter for a year (4 boxes in total). It’s a bit pricey at $130 / box but each shipment has at least that much in product value. It’s great if you’re looking for quality.
Instagram Live video showing off the box
Check out the subscription option HERE
Doing it in The Dark Game Only with no subscription option HERE
Faithful Fling – Classy Role-play Date Ideas for Couples
I met Katie and Jon, the creators of Faithful Fling, and instantly fell in love with their passion, creativity, and playful energy.
I interviewed them on my podcast (see episode #79, Role-play Sex and How To Have A Faithful Fling Their backstory is inspiring.
Role-playing isn’t about pretending to have sex with someone other than your spouse. It’s about drawing out different aspects and dimensions of each other. It’s about stepping a little out of your comfort zone. It’s about seeing your spouse–who you live with every day–in a new light, making the intimate connection feel fresh and new all over again.
Faithful Fling is a brilliant concept. Emily and I love their Flings, as they call them. Flings are creative scripts that set up a scenario, and give you helpful suggestions on how to carry out the date. When you sign up, you get a His login and Hers login. She gets her part and doesn’t see his part, and visa versa. This makes it so that there’s an element of surprise, anticipation, and gives you flexibility to make it yours.
You can sign up and get your first Fling free HERE
Lingerie & Sexy Date Night Box from EveryLove Intimates
Lingerie is such a great way to set the mood. What I love about EveryLove Intimates is they design classy custom-label lingerie and package it with an exciting sexy date night box, usually around a particular theme.
We liked their products so much that I invited Alex and Kadi, the cute couple behind EveryLove Intimates, to be a guest on my podcast. Check out episode #130 – Lingerie? Yes Please to hear their story.
You can get a discount on your first box. Use code GYMO69 at checkout to get your first box for just $69 HERE
Mentionables – Model Free Lingerie
Wearing lingerie is a fun way to get in a sexy mood, while shopping for lingerie is often not for some Christian couples. Mentionables has changed that with classy styles at pretty prices. What else makes them different? They are 100% model-free (meaning, you’re not seeing a website full of near-naked women modeling the lingerie). This tasteful approach makes Mentionables definitely worth mentioning.
Use code DAN to get 10% off your order HERE.
What about you?
I’d love to hear what are some of your favorite things! Let me know by filling out the survey HERE
