Q&A – Sexless Marriage, Breast Sex, Higher-Desire Wives, and Is This Fair?
Is it normal to have simultaneous orgasms? What happens when erectile dysfunction leaves a couple in a sexless marriage? And what do you do when one spouse wants more adventure in the bedroom than the other?
In this Q&A episode of Get Your Marriage On, I answer real questions from listeners about sexual pleasure, desire differences, and navigating the challenges of married intimacy.
Here’s what we’re talking about:
- Simultaneous orgasms: Are they realistic, and should couples even aim for them?
- Sexless marriages: How can couples rebuild closeness when erectile dysfunction and years without sex have left them feeling like roommates?
- Breast sex: Practical considerations for making this playful experience comfortable and enjoyable for both spouses.
- Higher-desire wives: What happens when the wife wants sex more often than her husband?
- Bedroom fairness: Is it fair when one spouse wants to explore new things sexually, but the other prefers to keep things familiar?
I hope you walk away from the episode understanding that a fulfilling sex life isn’t about meeting someone else’s standard. It’s about learning to communicate, growing together, and creating experiences that are genuinely pleasurable for both spouses.
Resources Mentioned
For higher-desire wives:
- Episode 27: For High Desire Wives, with J Parker
- Episode 144: Learning to Love Sex, Higher Desire Wives, Sexual Imagery – Q&A
- Episode 241: Higher Desire Wives Aren’t Alone
- Episode 283: ADHD and Sex, featuring Camden Hainsworth
Additional resources:
- Episode 33: Carly Palmer Webb on sexual pleasure and orgasms
- Mindset by Carol Dweck — the growth mindset concept discussed in this episode
- Intimately Us app: Explore the Sexploration Menu, bedroom ideas, and step-by-step instructions for positions like the “Bread Basket.” https://r.intimately.us
- Get Your Marriage On Couples Retreat
Have a question you’d like me to answer in a future episode? Visit https://getyourmarriageon.com/anonymous-questions/ or join our Christian Couples Improving Sex and Intimacy Facebook group to connect with the community.
