69 Ways to Celebrate International Lovemaking Day

June 9th (6/9) is a very special day around here! Not only is it our birthday here at Get Your Marriage On! it is also International Lovemaking Day! This year it even falls on a Wednesday- Hump Daaaaayyy!!

To help you celebrate this exciting day, we have put together a list of 69 ways to spend this day together with your spouse. Check it out below! And download the free printable at the bottom of this page!

69 Ways to Celebrate International Lovemaking Day:

  1. Decorate your spouse’s car with a message of love
  2. Sneak up from behind and give your spouse a kiss on the cheek.
  3. Watch a movie or TV show your spouse wants to see.
  4. Greet your spouse with a passionate kiss rather than a short peck.
  5. Buy your spouse something sexy to wear. Try out Mentionables, a model free lingerie site!
  6. Change the morning alarm on your phone to play your song.
  7. Play a prank on your spouse to get them to laugh!
  8. Print out a favorite photo of both of you and hide it in your spouse’s clothes drawer.
  9. Light a candle to set the mood tonight.
  10. Go for a drive and hold hands.
  11. Text your spouse a conversation starter today. Try the Just Between Us app for tons of ideas!
  12. Pick out an outfit for each other today.
  13. Look through a list of sex positions together and find a new one you’d both like to try.
  14. Do something your spouse likes to do that you usually say no to.
  15. Decide to put away arguing for the day.
  16. Call your spouse today just to flirt!
  17. Make eye contact, wink, and smile big for your spouse.
  18. Let go of something small that bothers you, and don’t mention it.
  19. Start a pillow fight right before bed!
  20. Make the bed and leave a little note for your spouse on their pillow.
  21. Get your spouse’s favorite drink ready for them.
  22. Heat up your sweetie’s towel or bathrobe in the dryer while they’re in the shower.
  23. Offer to take care of dinner.
  24. Send your spouse a close up of a part of your body and make them guess what it is.
  25. Surprise your spouse by undressing under the covers.
  26. Pick out a love quote to put in your bedroom or on your fridge.
  27. Use your finger to trace the letters to a love message on your spouses back. See if they can figure it out!
  28. Text a silly Dad joke to your spouse, and tell them to try not to laugh.
  29. Schedule a lunch date with your spouse.
  30. Write a steamy love letter, full of the sexiest things you can imagine doing together someday.
  31. Think back to sneaking around as a teenager and have a make out session in the car.
  32. Challenge your spouse in a game of strip poker.
  33. Share a fantasy you would like to live out in (or out of…) the bedroom.
  34. Be creative! Buy some Jumbo Scented Body Wash pens, then jump in the shower together.
  35. Pull your spouse into a closet for a quickie.
  36. Swap fantasies by text or email. Pick one to play out!
  37. Plan to get intimate somewhere other than your bed!
  38. Hug each other tight until you both relax.
  39. Call your spouse home for a “sexmergency”
  40. Send a sexy picture at an unexpected time as a surprise.
  41. Iron your spouses favorite shirt so it’s ready when they go to wear it.
  42. Help with the yard, home, or one of ‘your spouses’ chores.
  43. Make a music playlist and share it with them.
  44. Plan a date. Arrange for a sitter if needed.
  45. Tidy up an area of the house that drives your spouse nuts.
  46. Gift a coupon book of things your spouse would like from you.
  47. Take them out for a night of dancing
  48. Buy your spouse something they’ve been wanting for awhile
  49. Buy or bake your spouse’s favorite dessert.
  50. Send your spouse a sexy selfie
  51. Make eye contact with your spouse every time they speak today.
  52. Exercise together today.
  53. Do you have a 1 Hour Photo nearby? Print out a few photos and make a gift out of it.
  54. Bring flowers home for the dinner table.
  55. Ask your spouse how you can serve them today.
  56. Write ten things you admire about your spouse on sticky notes, and leave them around the house.
  57. Plan your next date night. Put effort into making it special.
  58. Make an effort to notice and mention 2 – 3 things your spouse has made an effort at doing lately.
  59. Write an erotic letter and leave it someplace for your spouse to find.
  60. Spend the day making up a fantasy together via text messages.
  61. Cuddle and spoon each other naked tonight.
  62. Set a sexual goal with your spouse.
  63. Plan a “his night” and a “her night” for some sensual bliss.
  64. Go through your wedding photo albums together
  65. Dance to your wedding song tonight
  66. Undress your spouse while telling them what you like about their body.
  67. Make dinner together naked.
  68. Make a coupon for an erotic massage and give it to your spouse to redeem.
  69. Go commando for part of the day.

<h3>Jaina Thurston</h3>

Jaina Thurston

Hi there, my name is Jaina (pronounced like Jay-Nuh) and I am so happy to be here! I am an outdoor enthusiast and love doing everything with my hubby and 3 dogs. I focus a lot on fertility in my own life and am learning to help other couple's on their intimacy journeys while struggling with infertility. I have a degree in psychology and absolutely LOVE helping others discover their greatness!

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