Libido, Sexual Desire, and Food

Libido, Sexual Desire, and Food

Hokkaido is the northernmost island of Japan. It’s kind of like the Montana of Japan. It’s rural and has very long, cold, and snowy winters. I spent two years there as a volunteer missionary sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ. It was one of the very best and also most...
Becoming Bold in the Bedroom with Julie Bender

Becoming Bold in the Bedroom with Julie Bender

I had the wonderful opportunity to be a guest on The Julie Bender Show with the fantastic Julie Bender. We had the chance to talk all about how a healthy marriage includes a great sex life, what a healthy intimate connection is made of, and working on communicating...
Developing Gourmet Sex Skills

Developing Gourmet Sex Skills

Part of being an adult is unlearning the things that no longer serve you, and learning new things that bring richer meaning to your life. When it comes to sex, there’s a lot that isn’t helpful that we can unlearn, and a lot we can learn to bring deeper meaning and joy...
What To Do if your spouse isn’t on board sexually?

What To Do if your spouse isn’t on board sexually?

Today I want to address some thoughts around what to do if your spouse isn’t enthusiastic about the same things you are. Specifically, what to do if your spouse isn’t on board with your desires sexually. You might wish she or he were more invested in developing her or...
Valentine’s Day 2022 Date Idea

Valentine’s Day 2022 Date Idea

This Valentine’s Day, spend some quality time with your spouse enjoying some tasty treats, a movie, and playing a game together. Step 1: To start off your evening gather up some love themed snacks. There are lots of heart shaped foods at the grocery store this...