As a society, we tend to think of sex (especially married sex) in only one way: penetration in missionary position. Although there is absolutely nothing...
General Posts
127: Cultivating “Biblical Eroticism” with Dr. Jennifer Degler
In our Christian culture, we’re sometimes afraid of the word “erotic,” thinking it has something to do with unsavory media or loose morals. Many of us grew...
How to Write a Love Letter
“Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate” - Shakespeare, Sonnet 18 The love letter is arguably the oldest and...
7 Household Items to Spice up Your Marriage
My husband loves my family. Even when we were dating he fit right in with my siblings, would visit my aunts and uncles without me, and became “best bros”...
126: Sex Positions for Connection and Pleasure
It's March Madness in the United States--the NCAA college basketball tournament. And a lot of people create brackets where they guess ahead of time which...
“Spring Cleaning” Your Marriage
Spring is coming! This week in my hometown we finally saw the sun, and have been getting rain storms instead of snow. So that’s progress, right? Spring is...
Finding a Sex Therapist
How do you find a sex therapist? Many couples have periods in their relationship where their sex life is struggling. This can be due to a number of factors,...
When Past Sexual Abuse Haunts A Marriage with Dr. Wyatt Fisher
One source I found states that one in five women experience sexual assault or unwelcomed sexual attention. Trauma from sexual abuse is ugly and can...
5 Spicy Bedroom Games
Bedroom games! Early in our marriage, my husband and I lived with my parents for a few months while we saved some money. We lived there with my...
Holding Space: When Your Spouse has Sexual Trauma
Trauma is not something I would ever take lightly. I have been fortunate enough in my career to work with many women who have experienced sexual trauma. I...
March Madness: Bedroom Edition
Which Sex Position is Your Favorite? It's March Madness! This is the time of year when college basketball fans try their hand at predicting the outcome of...
Dangers of Duty Sex with Cami Hurst
One complaint I hear a lot from couples is where they feel like their spouse is consenting to sex but isn’t enthusiastic about it. These reports sound like,...
Moving on from Duty Sex
Many of us have heard the phrase “duty sex.” For some of us, it may be a regular occurrence in our marriages. Although it seems harmless to have sex with...
Why Play Bedroom Games?
We have a family legend about when my mom and dad were dating. He invited her over to have a game night with him and his friends. He jokingly said, “yea, we...
Leaving Purity Culture Behind
Purity culture has become a buzzword on social media. A few weeks ago, we had Brandi Harris on our podcast to talk about moving on from purity culture and...
123: Next Level Sneak Preview: Getting Out Of A Rut
As I sat at my desk, planning today's special episode with you in mind, I reflected on the progress my wife and I have made in our marriage over the last...
Increasing the Love in our Marriages
There is a question that philosophers, scientists, and artists alike have been trying to answer for centuries: What is love? Some believe it is an emotion,...
What Makes a Wife Sexy?
What makes a wife sexy? Although it seems like a silly question to some, I can almost guarantee every wife has asked herself (or her husband) a form of this...