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Understanding Responsive Desire

Understanding Responsive Desire

It’s a typical evening in the Severson household. My husband and I are watching TV. Suddenly, something gets me aroused. Maybe it’s a romantic line in the...

136: Sex When Aging with Natalie Wilton

136: Sex When Aging with Natalie Wilton

I realize that as I age, my sex life is going to change. I don’t think I’m alone in having some anxiety over changes that might come. Yet sex when aging is...

Sex and Aging

Sex and Aging

I remember watching a show with my roommates when I was in college. In the show, the main character had parents who were dealing with illness and aging....

How to DIY Lingerie

How to DIY Lingerie

A few months before my wedding, I realized that I would soon have a need for lingerie. I was so excited by the prospect, but also so nervous. I made sure I...

Being a Good Christian who Loves Sex

Being a Good Christian who Loves Sex

I was raised in a relatively sex positive household. We didn’t talk about it all the time, however I did see my parents being flirty and romantic with each...

How to Have Car Sex

How to Have Car Sex

You're sitting on the couch with your spouse, watching a classic RomCom. The protagonists on screen are in the car. It's pouring rain, or they’re stuck in a...

Praying For Your Sex Life

Praying For Your Sex Life

My friend, Robert recently got me interested in getting a new home gym and I recently got it. It's been a blast. This particular home gym is fancy; it's...

Blue Balls: Myth vs. Reality

Blue Balls: Myth vs. Reality

Way back in the day, I remember sitting in my boyfriend (now husband)’s apartment hearing his roommate loudly complain. He was telling a story about making...

Self-Sabotage in Marriage

Self-Sabotage in Marriage

It’s a typical evening in my apartment. I am working until 10 pm, when my husband finally gets home. I’ve been sitting at my laptop, writing this blog, and...

Your Wonderful Clitoris!

Your Wonderful Clitoris!

After getting married, we all make compromises. One of my compromises was watching all of the TV show How I Met Your Mother. I remember one scene where the...