Imagine this: it’s Wednesday night. The kids are finally tucked in, yet there’s still a list of chores calling your name. Instead of letting it drag you down, why not turn the evening chores into an unexpected, spicy moment with your spouse?
Invite your partner to join you with the laundry. After you carry the hamper to the laundry room with your spouse, wrap your arms around each other and share a slow, sensual kiss, right there in the laundry room.
As the sparks fly, begin slipping off his or her clothes—tossing them one by one into the washer in between passionate kisses. Lean in close and whisper that yours are dirty and need a bit of “cleaning” too, and keep up the playful energy as you ask her or him to undress you.
Once the washer’s humming, you can let things heat up. Having the woman sit on the edge of a running washer or dryer can add an extra delightful vibration for her, bringing an unexpected element to the experience. If one of you is a bit taller (or you have tall washers or dryers), plan ahead by keeping a step stool handy to get into a comfortable height.
If you’re in the mood to switch things up, move things against the wall. Press your partner gently against the wall with your full body, lifting their hands above their head, and let yourself get lost in the intensity of the moment, exploring touch, sensation, and connection.
Communication is key! Remember to make eye contact. Check in with each other and make sure you’re both enjoying this playful new take on “laundry night.” It’s a reminder that intimacy doesn’t always need candles and music. Sometimes, a little creativity, spontaneity, and fun can turn even the simplest moments into something unforgettable.
After trying this, who knows, maybe you and your spouse will ask each other to do “laundry” more often!
