This is part two of the BDSM episodes. Last week we talked about how a BDSM is a exchange of erotic energy and how it's built upon the principles of trust...
Sex & Intimacy
222: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It’s Not What I Expected) – Part 1
Like many of you, I've had questions about BDSM for a long time. I've had preconceived ideas of what it was and wondered how it fits into my faith and the...
218: The Well-Sexed Wife
It's hard to believe that my wife and I started this work eight years ago! At that time we were 13 years into a happy marriage, but something was missing....
217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? with Jessa Zimmerman
EmbedEdit I used to think the word erotic was associated with unsavory things like X-rated films, Las Vegas billboards, or sites are not supposed to visit...
197: How We Revitalized Sex and Intimacy as Busy Parents: A Sextimony
Building a long-term, intimate marriage is the most exciting demanding and soul expanding work that many of us will ever do in this life. All of the...
196: Handjobs, Pegging, Mismatched Libidos, Husband Won’t Let Me Initiate: Q&A
I'm very excited about today's episode today! We get to address a lot of juicy topics, such as the following: a reluctant wife feeling pressure to give her...
194: “Is this ok for us to do?” Seeking God’s Direction In Your Sex Life
"I just have a hard time with some of the things you said on your podcast. How can you be okay with things like toys, lingerie, and even talk about sex so...
189: The Secret to Saving Our Sabotaged Sex Lives (and how they got so messed up in the first place!), with Rhonda Farr
Did you know that most couples that visit traditional sex therapy have very poor outcomes? They're still just as dissatisfied two years later as they were...
Becoming One: Overcoming Obstacles to Intimacy in Your Marriage – A FREE Workshop
Navigating the complexities of marriage can often feel like steering a ship through stormy seas. How you confront and manage conflict within your...
174: Dirty talk, Bondage, Masturbation and More – Q&A with Dan Purcell
I'm excited to answer some anonymous questions I have received from listeners. Some topics we cover include the following: Learning to dirty talk and flirt...
69 Sexy Interview Questions For Your Next Date Night
Ready for some fun spice? For this date night, get dressed up for an interview. Sit across from each other, and the interview starts asking questions! For...
161: Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex, featuring Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
To love and be loved wholeheartedly. It's life's sweetest gift. Marriages thrive when there's two forces working together love and desire. By love, I mean,...
160: I Don’t Need You (But I Want You), and Mindful Loving
Oftentimes in our quest to have a deeper, more intimate marriage, it's really not a question of whether you want to be loved or loved more. It's really a...
159: For the Men: Embracing Your God-given Sexuality for an Intimate Marriage
Are you looking for a big shift in your relationship? The men in my coaching program continually see these shifts in amazing ways. They feel more grounded....
How Men Can Increase Intimacy in their Marriage Right Now
I HAVE GREAT NEWS FOR YOU! You can be the catalyst to a deeply satisfying relationship, even if you’re the only one working on your marriage. It all starts...
Sex is Weird: Embracing the Awkward, Fetishes, Butt Stuff, and Building a Marriage for Two – Q&A
We have all had questions at one time or another about sensitive situations, especially around sex. But it's sometimes hard to know who to ask. So, to help...
157: 7 Ways To Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY and Make Sex Fun, Not Work
Today I want to talk about what to do when you want to want to have sex but you don’t feel in the mood for it yet. Although it would be nice to get in the...
Your Sexual Fantasies: Once Upon a Time in a Bedroom Far, Far Away
What I Learned About Fantasies From My Trip Have you ever traveled somewhere new and fell in love with your new surroundings, while at the same time...