322: BONUS — Marriage Undressed: Desire Differences, Oral Sex, and Rebuilding After Porn
Welcome to this bonus episode of Marriage Undressed, our live Q&A where marriage coach Tammy Camp and I answer real, anonymous questions about sex, intimacy, and marriage. In this conversation, we talk about what happens when one spouse wants more adventure in the bedroom while the other is satisfied with the way things are. How can you express what you want without making your spouse feel pressured? And how can you honor your differences without treating one spouse as more sexually developed than the other? We also discuss what to do when you want more physical affection and frequently feel rejected. Your desire for connection matters—but the way you communicate that desire can either invite your spouse closer or leave them feeling criticized and inadequate. Then we answer some candid questions about oral sex: Is it necessary for a great sex life? What if one spouse wants it and the other doesn’t? And how can you examine the beliefs behind a sexual “no” without pressuring yourself to turn it into a “yes”? Finally, we discuss rebuilding intimacy after pornography has affected a marriage. When sex has become associated with shame, fear, or obligation, one of the most helpful places to
