One of the goals of Intimately Us is to help you spice things up in the bedroom!
As life gets busy and hectic, and marriage takes on some normalcy and routine, it’s easy for sex to also get routine or low on the priority list. For too many couples, sex may start to fizzle and and get… well, boring!
This was us, and we didn’t know it. Things weren’t bad, we just didn’t have something to look forward to. But it all changed for the better.
Here’s one super simple way to make things SEX-ITING again: make a bucket list!
You set goals at work and for your personal life, right? What could be more fun than some sexy goals or things you want to do together? We made our own bucket list a year ago. It’s made our occasional romantic getaways SO MUCH FUN!
Looking for some inspiration on what to add to your bucket list? Check out these ideas:
Dreaming about how to make your next encouter unforgettable and fun? Check out these ideas!
- Tickle & tease each other with a feather or scarf
- Go lingerie shopping together
- Put on a lingerie fashion show at home
- Whisper something sexy and try to arouse each other with your words
- Sext each other all day long for a day
- Mattress wrestling and sock wrestling
- Play truth or dare
- Massage each other using the oil / wax from a massage candle
- How about a steamy make out session?
- Naked pillow fight
- Kiss in the rain
- Send a panty gram or boxer gram
- Enjoy a romantic bubble bath
- Do a Strip Tease
- Have a sexy shower together
- Send your spouse a sexy selfie
- Body painting! (bonus points if the paint is edible too)
- Wear a blindfold
- Play strip poker
- Talk about a favorite fantasy
- Get a hickey
- Play hard to get
- Dress up and stay in character during sex
- Turn on the lights
- Role play a sexy scenario
- Use handcuffs or scarfs and take turns doing each other
- Entice with ice
- Try warming lubricant
- Give a Lap dance
- Naked full body massage (don’t forget a spot!)
- Edible underwear
- Play Twister, naked
- Incorporate honey, chocolate syrup, or edible lube into lovemaking
- Wear a wet t-shirt around the house
- Make dinner wearing only an apron
- Go commando
- Send a sexy photo
- Whisper something sexy while in public
- Write a sizzling story
- Send a sexy calendar invite (schedule it)
- Try out a new toy
- Try out a new position
- Play a bedroom game
- Act out a movie scene
- Get rough and wild
- Do a steamy foreplay session
- Record it
- A quickie in an unexpected place
- On a bed of roses
- By candle light
- Under the stars
- During a lunch break (nooner)
- Just like the first time
- Wake up your spouse in the middle of the night for sex
- While listening to a sexy playlist
- Like a doctor and a patient / nurse
- Meeting as strangers
- While skinny dipping
- When you wake up
- Climax while looking into each other’s eyes
- At the kitchen table or counter
- In a closet
- Out of the house
- In front of a fire
- Out in the open, under the stars
- In a bubble bath
- In the car (find someplace secluded)
- During a thunderstorm
- In the bed of a pickup truck
- In the light of a full moon
- In a sleeping bag, hammock, or tent
- On the couch
- On a chair
- Under the Christmas tree
- On the stairs
- On the washer or dryer while it’s running
- Set a goal or new person record for # of times you’ve done it during a week
- In front of or on top of a large, sturdy mirror
There you have it! Some ideas to get your creative juices flowing for your own bucket list!
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