Today’s Hump Day Newsletter is serving up something special: a “menu” of sensual options designed to spice up your next date night with your spouse. Just like food nourishes the body, sexual moments nourish your marital connection—and turning them into a “menu” adds a playful twist that makes intimacy feel like a deliciously anticipated experience!
Start by creating your personalized menu. You can easily find a free template online or use a design tool like Canva to customize one to your style. Think of traditional sections on a restaurant menu—Appetizers, Side Dishes, Entrees, and Desserts—and fill them with options that fit the energy you both crave.
Place the menu somewhere only your spouse will find, or hand it to them after a dinner date, inviting them to choose what they’d like. With a wink and a smile, let them know that you’ll be serving them that night.
Menu Ideas
Here are some ideas for your sensual menu:
Appetizers: These are perfect for easing into the moment. Options might include a back rub, a slow dance, a sexy shower together, a steamy make-out session, or even a playful card game (clothing optional!).
Side Dishes: Let these add a little extra flavor. Consider ideas like sexy whispers, passionate kissing, lights dimmed, or by candlelight with music to set the mood.
Entrees: Here’s where things heat up. Offer options like specific positions (woman on top, from behind, etc), a lap dance, trying things on the couch or using a chair, or including a favorite vibrator. These are the main events, designed to create closeness and excitement.
Desserts: End the night on a sweet note. This could be naked cuddling, a warm bath together, or indulging in Round Two (or even Three!).
Creating this menu not only shows your desire to connect but also builds anticipation and intimacy. When you and your spouse approach the night with this playful spirit, even a routine date transforms into something unforgettable, full of joy, relaxation, and fun. Enjoy crafting your night in, course by course!
