186: The Art of Dirty Talk (SPOILER ALERT: it’s not actually dirty), with Melanie Studley

by | May 10, 2024 | General Posts, Podcast

Let’s get one thing out of the way right up front: dirty talk isn’t dirty. It’s actually an intimate form of communication to let your spouse into your heart and mind. It’s a way to express the erotic part of you with your lover. It’s about using your words to arouse. The nice thing about married sex, is that it’s a place you can go where things don’t always have to be so cleaned up, you don’t have to be so buttoned up.

You can be less formal with each other and use language with each other you wouldn’t use in any other context, creating more arousal, intimacy, and excitement. If “dirty talk” is something you’ve always found awkward or have no idea where to start, you’re in for a treat.This episode with Melanie Studley from the Anatomy of Us podcast will hopefully help you and your lover discover a new way to draw closer together and have some sexy fun!

If you would like more help developing arousing language and sexy stories in your marriage, you might want to try our guide: From Awkward to Arousing: A Guide to “Dirty Talking” for Christian Couples.

(We recorded this podcast a couple years ago, but with so many new listeners, we wanted you to have a chance to hear it, so I’ve gone back to the archives so that I can share it with you today. ) 

If you’ve enjoyed this episode, you might like these resources:

Intimately Us App

Next Level Virtual Lovemaking Retreat, July 12-13

Couples Retreat in St. George, UT, October 10-13

Our brand new, signature Get Your Marriage On Program!

Check out the YouTube video from a couple years ago:

YouTube video

  

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<h3>Dan Purcell</h3>

Dan Purcell

Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! They are on a mission to strengthen marriages by making lovemaking incredibly fun and deeply connecting. Dan is a sex coach. They are also the creators of the popular Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps that have been downloaded over 750,000 times. They are the host of the popular Get Your Marriage On! podcast with over 1 million listens. In addition to their coaching program, they host romantic retreat getaways for couples, and put on workshops on how to have a great sex life and deeper intimacy. Dan and Emily met in middle school and have been married for over 20 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St George home.

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