Let’s get one thing out of the way right up front: dirty talk isn’t dirty. It’s actually an intimate form of communication to let your spouse into your heart and mind. It’s a way to express the erotic part of you with your lover. It’s about using your words to arouse. The nice thing about married sex, is that it’s a place you can go where things don’t always have to be so cleaned up, you don’t have to be so buttoned up.
You can be less formal with each other and use language with each other you wouldn’t use in any other context, creating more arousal, intimacy, and excitement. If “dirty talk” is something you’ve always found awkward or have no idea where to start, you’re in for a treat.This episode with Melanie Studley from the Anatomy of Us podcast will hopefully help you and your lover discover a new way to draw closer together and have some sexy fun!
If you would like more help developing arousing language and sexy stories in your marriage, you might want to try our guide: From Awkward to Arousing: A Guide to “Dirty Talking” for Christian Couples.
(We recorded this podcast a couple years ago, but with so many new listeners, we wanted you to have a chance to hear it, so I’ve gone back to the archives so that I can share it with you today. )
If you’ve enjoyed this episode, you might like these resources:
Next Level Virtual Lovemaking Retreat, July 12-13
Couples Retreat in St. George, UT, October 10-13
Our brand new, signature Get Your Marriage On Program!
Check out the YouTube video from a couple years ago:
