In our Christian culture, we’re sometimes afraid of the word “erotic,” thinking it has something to do with unsavory media or loose morals. Many of us grew...
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126: Sex Positions for Connection and Pleasure
It's March Madness in the United States--the NCAA college basketball tournament. And a lot of people create brackets where they guess ahead of time which...
Dangers of Duty Sex with Cami Hurst
One complaint I hear a lot from couples is where they feel like their spouse is consenting to sex but isn’t enthusiastic about it. These reports sound like,...
123: Next Level Sneak Preview: Getting Out Of A Rut
As I sat at my desk, planning today's special episode with you in mind, I reflected on the progress my wife and I have made in our marriage over the last...
Narcissism and Emotional Immaturity with Tony Overbay
Holy smokes, this episode is jam packed with so much goodness and truth bombs. You’re about to hear Tony and I get a bit vulnerable as we share some of our...
121: How I Learned to Orgasm: A Sextimony with Ashley
Mutual pleasure is an important ingredient of a good sexual relationship. The pleasure we get from sex facilitates bonding, joy, and makes sex way more fun!...
120: Squirting and Female Ejaculation
This episode is going to be a little more explicit than our usual episodes, but I think that's okay today we get to talk about squirting and female...
119: How Women “Kill Their Husbands Softly” (And How to Avoid it) with Ramona Zabriskie
Communication and marriage is a big deal. And many couples tell me they wish their communication was better. Many men approach intimacy in marriage...
118: When Your Spouse Doesn’t Speak Your Love Language with Dr. Corey Allan
I've observed from my own experience and coaching other couples that we often get in our own way of having the love and passion that we could experience in...
117: From Purity Culture to Developing One’s Eroticism with Brandi K. Harris
The older I get and more experience I gain, the more I’ve come to appreciate my eroticism as a part of me. I haven’t always been this way though. In all of...
116: Why “Nice Guys” Have Bad Sex Lives: A Sextimony
Are you a "nice guy" or married to a "nice guy?" "Nice" isn't to be confused with genuinely kind and caring. By nice, I mean one that hints around at what...
115: How to Take Your Intimacy to the Next Level in 2023
Are you ready to take action, to take charge of your relationships, and make this year different and better than any other year you've ever had? I'm going...
114: The Practice of Love with Lair Torrent
There are four fundamental questions we seek in our intimate relationships: Am I safe? Am I loved? Am I enough? And do I matter? How...
113: How Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms with Dan Purcell
With practice, patience, determination, and mindfulness men can prolong the pleasure they feel during sex by delaying ejaculation and prolonging their...
112: Masturbation and Sexual Agency with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
There’s a lot of anxiety in our culture around sexuality in general. And within the topic of understanding one’s sexuality, there’s even more cultural...
111: Tantric Sex: A Wholehearted Connection with Tammy Hill
There’s no doubt in my mind that there’s a deeply spiritual and emotional aspect to really good sex. When two lovers come together as good friends that want...
110: Why Men Aren’t Always in the Mood with Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray
Like many other men, I’ve probably said to my wife maybe once or twice, “I’m always in the mood for sex!” or “Whenever you want it, I’m ready!” Just...
109: Healing From Painful Sex With Help and Faith: A Sextimony
We've done several episodes about painful sex in the past, but none of them have been as personal as this one today. You get to meet my friends Bryce and...