245: Love Worth Making Part 1, with Dr. Stephen Snyder

by | Jun 19, 2025 | General Posts, Podcast

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When it comes to sexual arousal, many of us reach for that excited, giddy, sometimes silly, sometimes serious, joyful, fulfilling feelings in the company of someone else that matters so much to us.

And how do you create a marriage relationship where there’s room for two people to have a voice? And how do you create a sexual relationship where both people are excited and happy to be a part of it? Today’s guest is Dr. Steven Snyder. He is a sex therapist from New York City, and the author of the book Love Worth Making, which I highly enjoyed. And I feel privileged to host him on this podcast.

Here’s what you’ll learn in the episode:

  • Why the sexual feelings we crave matter to you 
  • A two-step approach to finding it easier to connect to sexual motivation
  • What “lazy sex” is and how you could put it to action in your own life, especially if you’re busy
  • The importance of this concept called “simmering” to foster desire 
  • The surprising difference between giving and taking pleasure

Note that this is a part one, so don’t miss out on part two (available now!) 

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<h3>Dan Purcell</h3>

Dan Purcell

Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! They are on a mission to strengthen marriages by making lovemaking incredibly fun and deeply connecting. Dan is a sex coach. They are also the creators of the popular Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps that have been downloaded over 750,000 times. They are the host of the popular Get Your Marriage On! podcast with over 1 million listens. In addition to their coaching program, they host romantic retreat getaways for couples, and put on workshops on how to have a great sex life and deeper intimacy. Dan and Emily met in middle school and have been married for over 20 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St George home.

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