Capturing Intimacy: Including Your Spouse in Your Boudoir Photoshoot

by | Jan 15, 2024 | General Posts

Boudoir photography is a unique and intimate way to celebrate one’s beauty and sensuality. When considering a boudoir photoshoot, the decision to include your spouse can add an extra layer of intimacy and personal connection to the experience.

Here are some considerations and tips to make it a memorable and enjoyable session for both of you.

  • Discuss Comfort Levels:
    • Before deciding to include your spouse, have an open and honest conversation about comfort levels. Ensure both of you are on the same page regarding boundaries and expectations.
  • Enhancing Intimacy:
    • Including your spouse in the shoot can enhance the intimacy of the photos. Collaborate on poses and ideas that reflect the connection between you two, creating images that capture your love and chemistry.
  • Wardrobe Coordination:
    • Coordinate your outfits to complement each other. Matching colors or themes can create a cohesive and visually appealing set of images.
  • Communication with the Photographer:
    • Communicate with your photographer about your decision to include your spouse. A professional photographer will guide you on creating tasteful and artistic images while respecting your boundaries.
  • Capture Candid Moments:
    • Embrace candid moments during the shoot. Capture genuine smiles, laughter, and intimate interactions to create images that reflect the authenticity of your relationship.
  • Personal Touches:
    • Consider incorporating personal items or meaningful props that symbolize your relationship. This could be items like your wedding rings, a love letter, or anything that holds sentimental value.

Solo vs Couple’s Boudoir Photoshoot

While a couples boudoir shoot may be something that interests you, there are also compelling reasons to embark on a solo boudoir shoot.

  • Focus on Self-Expression:
    • A solo boudoir shoot allows you to focus entirely on self-expression and celebrating your individual beauty. You have the freedom to experiment with poses and themes that resonate with your personal style.
  • Increased Comfort and Confidence:
    • Being alone during the shoot may enhance your comfort and confidence, enabling you to fully embrace the experience without any external distractions.
  • Creative Exploration:
    • Without the presence of a spouse, you can explore a broader range of creative concepts. Experiment with different poses, lighting, and settings to create a collection of images that truly reflect your unique personality.
  • Sole Decision-Making:
    • Solo boudoir allows you to make decisions solely based on your preferences. From wardrobe choices to the overall theme, you have complete control over the creative direction of the shoot.
  • Gift for Your Spouse:
    • Consider turning the solo boudoir shoot into a surprise gift for your spouse. Presenting a beautifully curated album or a selection of prints can be a thoughtful and intimate gesture.

Ultimately, whether you choose to include your spouse or opt for a solo boudoir shoot, the key is to make the decision that aligns with your comfort levels and personal preferences. Communicate openly with your photographer, express your vision for the shoot, and enjoy the experience as a celebration of your unique beauty and self-expression.

Every Love Intimates DIY Boudoir Box

We teamed up with Every Love Intimates to design a box for those who value privacy and creativity. This kit brings the magic of a professional boudoir photoshoot right to the comfort of your home. Whether it’s a surprise for your husband or wife, a celebration of personal milestones, or simply an exploration of your own sensuality, this elegant box is the key to capturing the essence of your beauty.

Inside, you’ll find a carefully curated selection, including:

  • A choice of exquisite lingerie
  • A camera tripod with a remote and light attachment for perfect angles
  • Seductive body chain, shimmer spray for that radiant glow
  • A sheer scarf for artistic draping
  • Playful lollipop for a touch of fun
  • A fragrance to complete your sensory experience

Additionally, the kit includes a DIY Boudoir Guide with step-by-step instructions and recommended poses to ensure your shoot is executed with professional finesse.

Get your DIY Boudoir box here:

For More Blog Posts on Boudoir Photography

Did you enjoy this post? Check out our other Boudoir Photography blog posts:

How To ROCK Your Boudoir Photo Shoot!

Choosing a Boudoir Photographer: Pros and Cons of Professional vs DIY

Every Love DIY Boudoir Shoot Box

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<h3>Dan Purcell</h3>

Dan Purcell

Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! Their marriage went through a bit of a renaissance a few years ago and wanted to share what they learned with other couples. They created a fun & sexy bedroom game app called Intimately Us that has been downloaded over 300,000. They put on events and retreats for couples.Dan is the host of the Get Your Marriage On! podcast. Dan is a Life Coach that coaches other couples and individuals on how to have a great marriage, deeper intimacy, and fulfilling sex life.Dan and Emily have been married for over 18 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St George home.

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