A few months before my wedding, I realized that I would soon have a need for lingerie. I was so excited by the prospect, but also so nervous. I made sure I...
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Being a Good Christian who Loves Sex
I was raised in a relatively sex positive household. We didn’t talk about it all the time, however I did see my parents being flirty and romantic with each...
134: When Developing One’s Sexuality Leads to a Faith Crisis with Jacqlin Guernsey
Crises aren’t necessarily a bad thing in and of themselves. Although they’re very unpleasant, they can lead to forcing us to grow up and better define...
How to Have Car Sex
You're sitting on the couch with your spouse, watching a classic RomCom. The protagonists on screen are in the car. It's pouring rain, or they’re stuck in a...
133: Slip Into Something a Little More Authentic Tonight! with Amber A. Price
In any intimate relationship, we want two things, which paradoxically seem to be at odds with each other: we want to belong to ourselves (that is,...
132: Praying for Your Sex Life with Dan Purcell
Today. I just want to get honest with you and talk about marriages and why they are really difficult sometimes. Frankly, marriages take a lot of work. A...
Commuter Marriages: Keeping the Spark Alive
If you prefer to listen: here is our podcast on Commuter Marriages Many couples, for a variety of reasons, have to live apart for a time. This experience is...
Praying For Your Sex Life
My friend, Robert recently got me interested in getting a new home gym and I recently got it. It's been a blast. This particular home gym is fancy; it's...
Blue Balls: Myth vs. Reality
Way back in the day, I remember sitting in my boyfriend (now husband)’s apartment hearing his roommate loudly complain. He was telling a story about making...
131: How to be a Power Couple with Melanie Studley
When you hear the term, Power Couple, what comes to mind? To me I think about a couple that is dedicated to each other and committed to building a marriage...
Self-Sabotage in Marriage
It’s a typical evening in my apartment. I am working until 10 pm, when my husband finally gets home. I’ve been sitting at my laptop, writing this blog, and...
130: Lingerie? YES PLEASE! with Alex and Kadi of EveryLove Intimates
I’m pretty excited for today’s podcast episode, all about lingerie. I recently asked my Instagram followers if they regularly include lingerie in sexy time,...
Your Wonderful Clitoris!
After getting married, we all make compromises. One of my compromises was watching all of the TV show How I Met Your Mother. I remember one scene where the...
Lingerie 101
“Why don’t you slip into something more comfortable?” I remember sitting in my marriage preparation class in college, listening to my professor talk about...
129: Retrain Your Brain with Dr. Paul Jenkins
Our mindset and patterns of thinking make a huge difference in our intimate relationships and our ability to grow sexually as a couple. As they say, our...
The Silent Treatment: How to Break Down the Wall
The silent treatment. Picture this, you’ve had an argument or disagreement and you try to talk about it with your spouse. But they turn away from you, or...
128: Overcoming Pornography for Good with Sara Brewer
Sex Positive and Shame Free are two phrases that people usually don’t think about when it comes to overcoming pornography for good, but that’s just what our...
9 Sex Positions for Married Couples
As a society, we tend to think of sex (especially married sex) in only one way: penetration in missionary position. Although there is absolutely nothing...