2023 Sextember Challenge Wrap Up

We just completed the 30-day Sextember Challenge on September 30 and announced our winners yesterday!

First, I want to congratulate all of you on your participation in making your marriage stronger and more intimate! We had more than 27,800 challenges completed in September, and 1,347 couples completed at least 20 out of the 30 days! Isn’t that incredible!?

Here’s What You’ve Said

Here’s what a few of you had to say about the challenge:

“At the beginning we were two tired parents trying to juggle 5 kids and work. At the end, we’ve reconnected and rediscovered our passion for each other.”

“We accomplished 30 and want to keep it going into October!”

“We’ve loved the Sextember challenge and have had so much growth through this month!”

“It’s been a great month, and we’ve certainly grown closer. Thanks for the guidance.”

“My wife and I have been using your app for the last few months.


I’m deployed overseas for the last nine months, and it has been very hard as both of us dislike talking on the phone and we often quickly find ourselves distracted or board.


Regardless, and despite being nine hours apart timezone-wise, we always make a point to spend at least a few minutes on the phone together, and since we’ve been using the app, we always make it a point to complete our daily task for one another (as well as the custom daily tasks we’ve made!).

Having the little prompts to do things for one another, ideas to talk about, and activities to do together has immensely improved our ability to maintain our romantic relationship long-distance.


We are much more loving and open with each other, especially after the September challenge, and we look forward to the experience of having your app as an integral part of our daily lives after I get home.”

The Prize Winners!

And if you haven’t heard, here are the winners of the prizes!

  • Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo from Married Dance: Jeremy B.
  • Free Year of Faithful Fling :Mendy S.
  • Song of Songs Coupon Books from Hot, Holy & Humorous: Ronald Z.
  • $100 Gift Card to Mentionables: Joshua M.
  • EveryLove Date Night Box: Meaghan K.
  • Unite & Ignite Subscription from Kingdom Sexuality: Sheldon L.
  • Engedi Lingerie: Amanda D.
  • Liberator Love Paint Kit for Couples from Romantic Blessings: Quentin H.
  • Sexipes Book from Dating Divas: Jenn S.
  • Bedroom Game Pack from Love, Hope, Adventure: Michael H.
  • Sheets and Ladders from Get Your Marriage On: Brooke M.
  • Coconu Lubricant: Rochelle C.
  • Amanda Louder Coaching Program free month: Austin B.
  • One year of Room for Two Podcast from Jennifer Finlayson-Fife: Caleb V.
  • Seducing Your Spouse Course from Monica Tanner: Aaron C.
  • 2 Marriage/Date Night Books from Amberly Lambertsen: Brad H.

Before and After

I have loved seeing your before and after photos! If you would like to be added to our collection, please DM me on Instagram or email at support@getyourmarriageon.com.

Keep it up!

We hope that you keep up the momentum! If you would like some help, check our our selection of guides, with topics like how to talk dirty (without feeling dirty) and ultimate guides to pleasing your spouse. And in celebration of what you all just accomplished, we’re offering 20% off through October 8, 2023! Use code OUTWITHABANG to get your discount!

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<h3>Dan Purcell</h3>

Dan Purcell

Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! They are on a mission to strengthen marriages by making lovemaking incredibly fun and deeply connecting. Dan is a sex coach. They are also the creators of the popular Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps that have been downloaded over 750,000 times. They are the host of the popular Get Your Marriage On! podcast with over 1 million listens. In addition to their coaching program, they host romantic retreat getaways for couples, and put on workshops on how to have a great sex life and deeper intimacy. Dan and Emily met in middle school and have been married for over 20 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St George home.

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