This is part two of the podcast we released last Friday (#200). And if you haven’t listened to that one, I highly recommend you pause this episode and go back and listen to #200 first.
These two episodes are continuation of a project that I started a few months ago to better understand what it means for me to cherish my spouse. I shared a tragic story about my wife’s cousin and how that really propelled us to understand what it means to cherish others better. In the process, I’ve sought out mentors to help me understand this concept better.
And you get to hear snippets of the conversations I’ve had with them – you get to be a fly on the wall and learn with me and what it really means to cherish your spouse. And to love them really, really well. Of all the things I talk about on the podcast — sex, orgasms, initiating, foreplay — I think learning how to cherish your spouse whole heartedly takes the cake!
This is the most important. This is the sum of everything that I wish you would get from my podcast.
I hope these two episodes become the most downloaded episodes of the entire podcast. And this is what I want to be known for. I want you to know that to really love and cherish your spouse is at the heart of everything we do, even your sexual interactions (which we talk a lot about on this podcast, right?). It’s about how you cherish your spouse through the language of your sexuality and sharing that with your spouse exclusively.
So today you get a year from three more mentors that I look up to a lot: Tammy Hill, Danielle Savory, and Alex & Kadi Dutton (from EveryLove Intimates). So you get three different perspectives here on the same kind of thing, different stages of life, different worldviews.
And in case you missed it, I talked to Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, Alana Martens, (from Kingdom Sexuality), and Tony DiLorenzo (from One Extraordinary Marriage) in part 1.
I hope this is the inspiration you need to make the most of your marriage relationship–make the changes, get the help, and do what you need to do– to find that deep and abiding love, the cherishing that brings the deepest meaning and satisfaction to our lives.
