Get Your Marriage On Blog
162: How to Keep Your Marriage Hot in the Middle of Raising Little Kids with Kingdom Sexuality
One pernicious thought the often gets in the way of our intimacy is a thought that we can put the romance and desire side of our marriage on the back burner while we raise our children. The reality is the greatest gift we can give our children right now is for us as...
161: Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex, featuring Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
To love and be loved wholeheartedly. It's life's sweetest gift. Marriages thrive when there's two forces working together love and desire. By love, I mean, the qualities like attentiveness, which is like being a good listener, kindness, a feeling of home and belonging...
Huge Anniversary Sale!
Emily and I are celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary this month! So why not have a sale to celebrate?! We're thrilled to announce a 20% discount on all our Better Sex Guides and Get Your Marriage On! Workshops throughout the month of...
19 Honeymoon “Horror” Stories: A Collection of Unforgettable Moments
Embarking on the journey of marriage often involves a honeymoon, a time for newlyweds to celebrate their union in blissful seclusion. However, not all honeymoons go as smoothly as planned. In fact, some newlyweds find themselves navigating unexpected and sometimes...
160: I Don’t Need You (But I Want You), and Mindful Loving
Oftentimes in our quest to have a deeper, more intimate marriage, it's really not a question of whether you want to be loved or loved more. It's really a question of a capacity to love or be loved more. In my work with couples and individuals, helping them grow...
159: For the Men: Embracing Your God-given Sexuality for an Intimate Marriage
Are you looking for a big shift in your relationship? The men in my coaching program continually see these shifts in amazing ways. They feel more grounded. They see themselves more clearly. They feel more confident in their own skin. They stand on their own two feet...
How Men Can Increase Intimacy in their Marriage Right Now
I HAVE GREAT NEWS FOR YOU! You can be the catalyst to a deeply satisfying relationship, even if you’re the only one working on your marriage. It all starts with you. I interact with a lot of men that are in otherwise happy marriages, but wish things were better...
Sex is Weird: Embracing the Awkward, Fetishes, Butt Stuff, and Building a Marriage for Two – Q&A
We have all had questions at one time or another about sensitive situations, especially around sex. But it's sometimes hard to know who to ask. So, to help answer some of those questions you might have, we have a form for Anonymous Question and Answer under the...
158: The #1 Limiting Factor in Your Sex Life, According to a Marriage Expert, with Heather Flake
I have a background in computer science and I love writing code. Nerdy, right? The better the code, the better the program. A program can’t run better than the code it’s written from. The way we express our sexuality is the same way. We can’t out-sex ourselves beyond...
7 Creative Ways To Put The PLAY Back In Foreplay
Do you ever find yourself in the mood to be in the mood? You know, that feeling when you desire intimacy but can't quite get there? It's like you're standing at the edge of an inviting pool, but your body resists taking the plunge. If this rings a bell, you're not...
14 Delightful Fall Date Ideas
Ah, fall—the season of crisp air, vibrant foliage, and an abundance of cozy date opportunities. With the leaves turning shades of red, orange, and gold, it's the perfect time to embrace the beauty of nature and enjoy some quality time with your significant other. From...
Embrace the Winter Magic: 5 Enchanting Ideas for a Winter Date Night
As the winter chill sets in, it's the perfect time to enjoy some quality time together. If you're looking for ideas to spice up your winter evenings, here are five cozy date night suggestions to make the most of the season. Intimate Fireside Dinner: Plan a special...
157: 7 Ways To Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY and Make Sex Fun, Not Work
Today I want to talk about what to do when you want to want to have sex but you don’t feel in the mood for it yet. Although it would be nice to get in the mood, you know that it’s going to take time and energy to get there, and it’s tempting to just postpone sexy time...
Your Sexual Fantasies: Once Upon a Time in a Bedroom Far, Far Away
What I Learned About Fantasies From My Trip Have you ever traveled somewhere new and fell in love with your new surroundings, while at the same time deepened your appreciation for what you do have? A few weeks ago Emily and I dropped off our oldest son in Virginia for...
156: How the 9 Personality Types Influence Your Sex Life, According to Relationship Expert Christa Hardin
The famous psychologist Carl Jung once said, “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” Intimate marriages require a lot of intimate contact in terms of body, mind, head, and soul....
155: Sex is Weird: Embracing the Awkward, Fetishes, Butt Stuff, and Building a Marriage for Two – Q&A
You Have a Story and I'd love to hear it I love hearing your success stories! If you would like to share yours on the podcast, please fill out this form. Answering Your Questions This episode covers six of the anonymous questions I've received this month. You all sure...
2023 Sextember Challenge Wrap Up
We just completed the 30-day Sextember Challenge on September 30 and announced our winners yesterday! First, I want to congratulate all of you on your participation in making your marriage stronger and more intimate! We had more than 27,800 challenges completed in...
154: Good Vibrations: How To Close the Orgasm Gap in Your Marriage Tonight, featuring Amanda Louder
I strongly believe one of the paths to a stronger marriage is by doing the work necessary to have a great sex life as a couple. Why start with sex? It’s because there’s such a strong link between pleasure and connection. When you increase and broaden the pleasure you...