The 2 Ingredients Every Marriage Needs

Dan Purcell

Dan is a Christian Coach that specializes in helping couples improve intimacy in their marriage. He’s also the founder of Get Your Marriage On, a podcast host with over one million downloads, and the creator of several marriage apps.

A thriving marriage needs more than love. It needs both friendship and passion. Without friendship, intimacy can feel shallow. Without passion, your relationship risks feeling more like roommates than lovers.

Friendship is the steady foundation of a relationship, built in laughter, prayer, and the comfort of being fully known. Passion, meanwhile, is the spark that keeps love vibrant, reminding you both that marriage is meant to be joyful, playful, and full of desire.

Here’s one simple way to nurture both this week: plan a “friend date” and a “passion date.” Do something lighthearted together, play a game, take a walk, or grab ice cream just for fun. Then, set aside intentional time for intimacy, without distractions or pressure. Just focus on physical and emotional connection.

When you invest in both friendship and passion, you create a marriage that feels safe and exciting, grounded and full of spark.

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