We know you’ve been busy!
The demands of the season can be high, on top of just trying to do your job and not live in a house that looked like it was hit by a tornado. And sometimes it’s just hard to find the right gift for your spouse and then it’s suddenly four days before Christmas . . .
Don’t worry, we got you.
Here are 10 meaningful gift ideas you can do today!
1. Love Letter Package
Hand-write a heartfelt letter expressing what you love and appreciate about them, maybe with specific memories or hopes for the future. Pair it with a nice envelope and seal for a classic touch.
2. Simple Memory Photo Book
Create a quick photo book of meaningful moments from the year. Use same day service from Walgreens or Walmart.
If you have a good printer, you can just do it at home. Or even just create a slideshow and wrap up a QR code to watch later together.
3. Personalized Playlist + Note
Curate a playlist of songs that remind you of your journey together. Write a short explanation for why each song made the cut.
4. At-Home Date Night Box
Assemble a basket or box with their favorite beverage, gourmet snacks, candles, and a printed “plan” for the night (movie, games, questions to spark connection).
5. “Open When…” Letters
Write a series of small notes for them to open in different moments (e.g., Open when you need a laugh, when you miss me, when you need encouragement).
6. Future Date Jar
Fill a jar with ideas for future dates—some simple, some adventurous. They draw one whenever you need inspiration.
(You might want to check out services like Date Your Spouse or Faithful Fling)
7. Custom Recipe Card + Home-Cooked Meal
Write or print lovely recipe cards for a meal you’ll cook for them. Then, cook it together or serve it as a surprise dinner.
8. Memory Jar / “Reasons I Love You” Jar
Fill a jar with little slips of paper with reasons you love them or your favorite memories of them. They can be big heartfelt things, sweet quirks you adore, or funny inside jokes. All the little things count.
9. Video Message Montage
Record short video clips from you (and even friends or family if appropriate), sharing moments you love about your spouse. Edit into a sweet montage, including videos or pictures you have of them or you together, if you want.
10. Vouchers or coupons
Print off our premade coupon book or create a set of your personalized vouchers your spouse can redeem.
We hope you have a very Merry Christmas with your family and that these ideas are helpful in creating more meaningful connection between you and your spouse this season and throughout the year.
Lastly, if you are looking to gift a future event, we have two you might want to consider:
- Next Level Lovemaking: A Virtual Intimacy Getaway
- February 13-14, 2026
- Make this Valentine’s Day special! Get away for a weekend with just your spouse, and tune in live for a weekend full of intimate discovery.
- In this virtual intimacy getaway, you’ll learn a new approach to sexual intimacy, called Slow Sex, along with other techniques, that focus on making love rather than just having sex.
- This is ideal for couples that want a fresh approach towards intimate and deeply connecting sexual experiences.
- 2026 Couples Cruise (October 2026)
- October 4-10, 2026
- Enjoy an unforgettable experience at sea while exploring deeper intimacy with your spouse for a 6 day Western Caribbean adventure.
- This intimate cruise experience combines a romantic setting with expert instruction, designed to inspire you as a couple
