Two Novembers ago, I vividly recall sitting across the living room, checking out my amazing wife, Emily, even we have the familiarity of being married for...
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225: The Secret to a Scintillating Sex Life
Our childhood and families of origin have a profound impact on our worldviews, including our attitudes towards sex and intimacy. Not knowing anything...
224: The 5 Phases of a Sexual Relationship
Take a moment to think about the evolution of your own sexual journey as a couple. How far have you come in the last year? Or the last two years, or the...
223: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It’s Not What I Expected) – Part 2
This is part two of the BDSM episodes. Last week we talked about how a BDSM is a exchange of erotic energy and how it's built upon the principles of trust...
222: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It’s Not What I Expected) – Part 1
Like many of you, I've had questions about BDSM for a long time. I've had preconceived ideas of what it was and wondered how it fits into my faith and the...
221: Q&A – “Help! My Wife is Vanilla When it Comes to Sex”
Ever feel like you wish your wife was a little less vanilla? Every wish your spouse would be more enthusiastic about trying new things in the bedroom (or...
220: Black Belt Sex Tips 4.0
I studied martial arts for 13 years when I was younger and I became proficient in three different styles of Karate and Kenpo. As you progress towards...
219: How Playing With Your 5 Senses Opens the Door to More Erotic Connection
I am a big believer in play in the bedroom, and I'm excited that you'll get to join me in this conversation with Adam and Karissa King today. Adam and...
218: The Well-Sexed Wife
It's hard to believe that my wife and I started this work eight years ago! At that time we were 13 years into a happy marriage, but something was missing....
217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? with Jessa Zimmerman
EmbedEdit I used to think the word erotic was associated with unsavory things like X-rated films, Las Vegas billboards, or sites are not supposed to visit...
216: Is Wanting Sex Selfish, Dissatisfied by Erectile Dysfunction, Wife’s Secret Erotica, and Dildos – Q&A Part 2
Today is a continuation of last week's question and answer episode, and I am so thankful for all the courageous couples who reached out with their...
215: Sex After Porn, Premature Ejaculation, Discomfort Beyond Missionary Position, Wanting To Be Desired – Q&A Part 1
It's time to answer some more questions from our listeners! Today I'm joined by my colleague, Caroline, to discuss some of the questions that you have. We...
214: When Wives Have The Higher Sexual Desire
Broadly speaking, men are generally more interested in sex than women. However, there are exceptions. Some estimate that 20 to 30% of married couples are in...
213: Does Sex Therapy Actually Work for Libido Differences? The Shocking Research Results!
Sexual desire differences are, unfortunately, very common. In fact, it's one of the top reasons why couples seek sex therapy or any kind of help in their...
212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To with Sofia Ashley
There's a lot of stress in parenthood that presses on the couple's relationship, which Emily and I know firsthand as parents to 6 children. And I know that...
211: Sexual Dry Spells: When Safety Kills Passion
The holidays are coming up, and this is often a stressful time for a lot of couples. The stress and busyness can often lead couples to fall into dry spells...
210: The G-Spot Guide: How to Stimulate, Explore, and Enjoy Together!
In this exciting episode, you'll learn how to stimulate the "g-spot" and how to have more fun in your bedroom by learning how to work with this beautiful...
208: How This Couple Is Rewriting Their Scripts About Sex & Intimacy For Good
There are many reasons why a lot of us get off on the wrong foot when it comes to building an intimate marriage for the lifetime; there's shame, purity...