9 out of 10 Men Agree This Makes It A Memorable Sexual Experience

by | Jun 11, 2024 | General Posts

A team of researchers conducted a study to explore what people report as their peak sexual experiences, aiming to find common patterns. They asked participants to recall and write about their best, most memorable, earth-shattering sexual encounters—the kinds that bring a smile to your face as you think about them.

What experiences would you have written about if you had this assignment? I hope you also have a smile on your face now as you think of them!

The Surprising Findings

The researchers’ findings were surprising, yet not entirely unexpected. When they read the journal accounts from men, nine out of ten centered, in detail, around the pleasure their partner was experiencing. Ninety percent of men wrote far more about what and how their partner was experiencing the moment than their own pleasure. They described how watching their partner enjoy the moments made the experience meaningful to them.

The Generosity of Male Sexuality

This highlights an inspiring aspect of male sexuality. Male sexuality is inherently generous. Men truly delight in giving generously to their wives and genuinely want to provide their wives with sexual pleasure.

For women, it might seem paradoxical, but it echoes the reverse of Acts 20:35: “It is more blessed to receive than to give.” As I wrote about last week, when women center their own pleasure in the sexual experience, it leads to a better experience for both partners.

A Call to Female-Centric Intimacy

This week, I encourage you to try making your intimate experiences more female-centric and see how it blesses both of you. Focus on the pleasure and satisfaction of the woman, and observe the positive impact it has on your connection and overall sexual fulfillment.

Looking Ahead

If this topic resonates with you and you want to dive deeper, consider joining us at one of our in-person retreats. These events are designed to provide you with practical tools and personalized guidance to enhance your intimate connection. We look forward to helping you transform your marriage and enrich your life together.

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<h3>Dan Purcell</h3>

Dan Purcell

Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! They are on a mission to strengthen marriages by making lovemaking incredibly fun and deeply connecting. Dan is a sex coach. They are also the creators of the popular Intimately Us and Just Between Us apps that have been downloaded over 750,000 times. They are the host of the popular Get Your Marriage On! podcast with over 1 million listens. In addition to their coaching program, they host romantic retreat getaways for couples, and put on workshops on how to have a great sex life and deeper intimacy.Dan and Emily met in middle school and have been married for over 20 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St George home.

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