Ladies: What do you wish husbands knew when it comes to sex & intimacy?

As I put the final touches into the preparation for our next cohort of the Men’s Sexuality Course + Coaching Program, I wanted to ask you wives: what do you wish more husbands better understood when it comes to sex and intimacy?

If you’re not familiar with the course, it’s 10 weeks of study on how to be better husbands. The men in our group meet weekly over Zoom. Our calls are full of fun, camaraderie, and insight into being better lovers. So far, here are the topics I plan to cover:

  • How intimacy and being vulnerable in our relationships isn’t for wimps — it takes effort!
  • How to be more solid within yourself
  • The links between integrity, honesty, authenticity, and a satisfying love life
  • How to be more attractive and desirable to your spouse
  • How focusing on being your best version of yourself is the only legitimate path to improving your relationship
  • How to be playful and creative in the bedroom
  • How our bodies work and how to last longer
  • How to make sex more exciting and fulfilling for your wife
  • ..and much more

What else do you wish men better understood when it comes to a great sex life? Let me know in the comments below!

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Dan Purcell

Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! Their marriage went through a bit of a renaissance a few years ago and wanted to share what they learned with other couples. They created a fun & sexy bedroom game app called Intimately Us that has been downloaded over 300,000. They put on events and retreats for couples.Dan is the host of the Get Your Marriage On! podcast. Dan is a Life Coach that coaches other couples and individuals on how to have a great marriage, deeper intimacy, and fulfilling sex life.Dan and Emily have been married for over 18 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St George home.

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