Sex (or love making) at its very best is a form of intimacy: knowing and being known. There’s something whole-hearted and whole-bodied about it. It’s a...
Intimacy & Emotional Needs
Becoming One in Marriage
When you hear the word sexuality, what comes to mind? Is it a word you're comfortable with? Unfortunately, many people feel ashamed of sexuality and their...
Confidence In The Bedroom
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-Ka0v0tolE Have you ever lacked self confidence in the bedroom? Are you a lights off kinda girl (or guy!)? Or maybe you’re...
Taking a Sex-First Approach to Strengthening Your Marriage
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_x2jJJzIO8 Monica was about to have her third baby and was meeting with the doctor about treating her anticipated...
Developing Deeper Intimacy for Better Sex, with Rhonda Farr
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jISV--pMUSo In this episode of the Sexpert Interview Series, I interview Rhonda Farr, a certified intimacy coach. Rhonda...
Intimacy, Sex, and The Messy Middle with Rhonda Farr
There's no two ways about it! It takes real effort to grow and develop as a couple. Sometimes you're going to feel stuck in the messy middle for a very long...
Broken Trust? How to rebuild it & find more passion
Hey there, Get Your Marriage Onner! Trust is the foundation of any relationship. When you have doubts about the trustworthiness of your spouse, the...
Three Ways to Reduce Relationship Stress
Hey there! It’s hard to deny the pressure that the COVID-19 pandemic has put on marriages, for good or bad. Whether you or a family member has the virus...
The Problem With Porn
The topic of pornography has come up in several of the Expert Q & A section of the Get Your Marriage On! app. There's no doubt that pornography is...
The Formula for Deeper Intimacy
To me, intimacy is the joy that comes from being close and personal. It's something I crave in my marriage. Although intimacy is more than just "sex", the...
Choosing to See The Beautiful
When you look at your spouse, what do you see? Do you see the messes they make and haven’t bothered yet to clean up? Or do you see the tender way in which...
Lean In, Invest, and Cherish
Our goal with Get Your Marriage On! is to help bad marriages become good, and help good marriages become great. We want to inspire and encourage couples in...
There’s always hope if you don’t give up.
“I can’t believe you’ve been hiding this from me!” Melanie shouted at the top of her lungs. She doesn’t remember feeling more angry and violent than...
It’s All About The Positivity, Baby!
In Seattle, there's a "Love Lab". The Love Lab is a lot like what you'd expect for a nice nightly rental condo: a stocked kitchen, comfortable room, and...
The Micro-moments that make a Mega Difference
I’m often asked what things I’ve learned that people can do to improve the communication in their marriage. That’s like asking a chef how you can improve...
If every couple did this ONE THING, it would put 90% of marriage therapists out of business.
There’s a lot of pressure on today’s marriages, and people expect a lot out of marriages. People marry for more than just economic or procreative reasons....